Pain And Bleeding After First Time Sex Posted: 04-20-07 14:46pm
I am an uncircumsized male and I just
recently had sex yesterday first time, so
i did everything right with the condom and
stuff, ok we finished and everything I
rolled my skin back to place, now today I
try to roll it back and it hurts i see
like blood scratches and stuff, any help?
dnt know whats wrong, and i never jacked
off or nothin , but i always clean myself
though, but whats the problem?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 04-20-07 14:49pm
Well if you've never masturbated then your
penis is probably extremely sensitive and
unused to the contct caused by sex. Im not
surprised it's tender and bleeding.
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Recky
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So Posted: 04-20-07 14:51pm
am I alrite then cuz I aint bust or nothin
when we was havin sex, generally cuz she
had to go to work, so am I alrite and I
just need to chill out till it gets
better?
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Tylanas
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Re: So Posted: 04-20-07 17:51pm
Recky
wrote:
am I alrite then cuz I aint
bust or nothin when we was havin sex,
generally cuz she had to go to work, so am
I alrite and I just need to chill out till
it gets better?
You're not... bust? Do you mean you
haven't ejaculated? Ejaculating has
nothing to do with causing damage to the
penis.
I think you are fine, but you need to wait
for it to fully heal. Be gentle, keep it
clean with water and pat it dry. I would
suggest no sexual activity until it is
healed completely.
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haccord
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Posted: 04-20-07 19:34pm
i just have a questions. hold old are you?
if you are at least 16, a male, and have a
penis. I do not beleive you have never
masterbaited. all males do it at one time
or another. and if you had sex for the
first time them i am pretty sure you came
unless it only lasted for 30 seconds or
something like that. as far as you forskin
not rolling back i cant help you.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 04-20-07 21:32pm
haccord
wrote:
i just have a questions.
hold old are you? if you are at least 16,
a male, and have a penis. I do not beleive
you have never masterbaited. all males do
it at one time or another. and if you had
sex for the first time them i am pretty
sure you came unless it only lasted for 30
seconds or something like that. as far as
you forskin not rolling back i cant help
you.
Some people honestly don't masturbate.
Some people think it is immoral. Others
believe the old myths that parents or
grandparents might have told them about
going blind, using up all their sperm, or
growing hair on their palms. I have met
people who believed things like that and
were honestly afraid to masturbate, so it
is possible. Other people just don't have
much of a sex drive, and the thought never
really crossed their mind.
Also, many people are nervous their first
time. Sometimes they are so nervous that
they just can't ejaculate no matter how
long it goes on for.
You might be right, maybe he has
masturbated, and maybe he did ejaculate
during sex. I am just saying that it's
certainly not a guarantee. Everyone's
different.
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haccord
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Posted: 04-20-07 21:50pm
i havent figured out how to quote yet but
this is for the person above me
this is their quote below
Some people honestly don't masturbate.
Some people think it is immoral
please dont take this in the wrong manner:
but lets say he found masturbating
immoral, then why is he having pre-marital
sex. like i said it is just a question i
mean no offense by it
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Tylanas
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Posted: 04-20-07 22:27pm
If you look at the bottom of this post I
just made, there is a word that says
"Quote". CLick on that and you can quote
my post. Every post has that word. You
click it on any post you want to quote.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 04-20-07 23:32pm
haccord
wrote:
i havent figured out how to
quote yet but this is for the person above
me
this is their quote below
Some people honestly don't masturbate.
Some people think it is immoral
please dont take this in the wrong manner:
but lets say he found masturbating
immoral, then why is he having pre-marital
sex. like i said it is just a question i
mean no offense by
it
I am not saying that he thinks
masturbation is immoral. You just made it
sound like every single man over the age
of 16 masturbates. I was just pointing
out that that isn't necessarily true and
giving some examples of why people might
not masturbate. We also don't know for
sure that he had premarital sex. He could
be married for all I know. Really, it
does not matter. I was just pointing out
that you can't really say that everyone
over 16 masturbates. There are probably
other reasons that some people might not
masturbate that I didn't think of too.
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chick1978
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Posted: 04-20-07 23:36pm
LIke Eri, said keep it clean and away from
sex until fully healed.
Maybe the problem was that your partner
was dry. If this is the case then maybe
try some lubricant next time.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 04-21-07 00:20am
chick1978
wrote:
LIke Eri, said keep it clean
and away from sex until fully healed.
Maybe the problem was that your partner
was dry. If this is the case then maybe
try some lubricant next
time.
Agreed. Lack of lubrication is the most
common cause of pain during sex. Usually
it causes more pain for the female, but it
certainly can be a problem for the man
too. Not only can it be painful, but it
can actually tear the skin. Keep it clean
and dry, avoid sex, and keep an eye on it.
If it gets worse or looks like it might
be getting infected, go to a doctor.
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Recky
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Joined: 20 Apr 2007 Posts: 3
Ok Posted: 04-21-07 14:48pm
Honestly I never masturbated really dont
know why just never have, yeah and I just
had sex first time i think it was lack of
lubrication honestly, but i guess i can
hold out on sex until it fully heals, ima
have to neways cuz it hurts to try and
pull my skin back
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