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minerwater
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B/f Doesn't Wipe After Urination.
Posted: 02-19-04 13:48pm
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My boyfriend doesn't shake or wipe up and
after a long day, his unit smells like a
urinal. It turns me off like crazy..How
do you say to someone they need to do
something about it?
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cherry_pie
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Posted: 02-19-04 13:57pm
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I don't understand how shaking would get
rid of that smell anyways.. And as for
wiping, I didn't think that guys did that
(bad for mr. Little?) but what do I know,
im not a guy.. But if this were me, and
my boyfriend smelled really bad I would
think that there may be something wrong..
Some sort of infection or something, maybe
look it up and see if theres something
that matches what your going through. And
if not... Does he know that it turns you
off? If he does, tell him to shower, if
he doesn't.. Don't be so subtle about it,
take a shower with him, so he won't think
that theres anything wrong.
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2ferano
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Posted: 02-19-04 19:07pm
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If he doesn't even shake then you could
get bacteria from him into you and get an
infection. Just tell him, maybe not that
he smells, but that he needs to shake the
urine off of himself after he goes, so
that you do not get infections from it.
And if he smells that bad, tell him. I
would.
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minerwater
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Posted: 02-20-04 13:06pm
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No..Its defianately urin smell...And I do
his laundry..I can see he doesnt wipe or
anything...There is nothing wrong with
wiping. If a man urinates, there would be
some extra drippage..And if you dont do
anything, the bactieria builds on your
penis and causes a stink.
I never had this issue
before...Never...Last two guys I was with
wipped...They would take toilett paper and
wrap it around the top and shake a little
to get the drops out...Its absaloutely a
good clean thing.
If he's showered and in the few hours he's
fine..Its after a day at work that is not
fresh!
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AngelaZ
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Sweetie
Posted: 02-20-04 15:07pm
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After a long day anybodys genitals are
bound to stink, my fiancé has this
permanent odor to his as soon as he gets
out of the shower the smell is already
there. 
Like I was saying after a long day of work
any genital would smell. Consider what
yours might smell like after a long day if
you could bend down far enough to smell
it. The best way to tell him is to
1. Straight out tell him, "baby what is
that smell? It kind of smells like piss,
baby did you wipe your peepee (kind of
giggling)?
2. If your kinky: baby can you show me or
can I help you with that while he is
peeing then ask why don’t you wipe
afterwards?
Maybe if it is as bad as you say do you
see wet spots on his clothing, point that
out to him
3. Or get him in the ritual of taking
showers after work and have sex in the
shower or right after 
4. You could also point out that it is
unhealthy for you to have foreign urine
(not yours) inside of you so he needs to
be careful about his hygiene. Make up
the fact that you can get an infection,
and maybe then he’ll do something about it
i hope I helped some what. 
angela
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2ferano
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Posted: 02-20-04 18:26pm
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Great advice! Did you mean "make up the
fact that you could get an infection"?
Or did you mean "bring up the fact...."
just wanted to make sure, because she
really could get an infection from that.
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AngelaZ
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Yes That Is It!
Posted: 02-21-04 02:08am
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You're right, I did mean to say bring up
that fact that she could get an infection.
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uhoh123
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Posted: 12-13-05 20:29pm
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I am on my way to becomng a doctor...I
have studied anatomy and physiology like
the back of my hand. A guy doesn't need
to wipe himself before sex, and uring
doesn't carry anything harmful that the
buffer secreted fr the bulbourethral gland
(pre-cum) can't handle. Peace.
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Landailyn
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Posted: 12-13-05 21:35pm
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Is he circumsized?
I've heard a lot of people say that
uncircumsized men can have cleanliness
issues. Oils and stuff can get trapped
in the folds of the foreskin and smells.
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uhoh123
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Posted: 12-13-05 21:44pm
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An uncircumcised guy def needs to clean
himself on a reg basis. Thanks for
bringing that up landailyn. Otherwise,
pee doesn't cause any problems.
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alicetooljam2
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Posted: 12-16-05 22:01pm
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Lol, im sorry but I dont know and have
never heard of any guys wiping after
peeing. :lol: we arent women. Did you
actually ask your last 2 guys if they
wiped after peeing or are you assuming.
Your guy now is just messy about it, goes
days without changing underwear, or is
just stinky. Why are you examining his
underwear so closely?
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babykitty23
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Posted: 12-17-05 23:38pm
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My husband never used to whipe after
peeing, until I brought it up. I've never
actually seen a guy wipe after peeing, but
it seemed like a logical thing to do.
I told him one time while he was going to
the bathroom that getting a peice of
toilet paper and bottting the tip would be
a lot more effective than shaking. He
must've thought it was a good idea too,
because he's wiped ever since =)
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munky23
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Posted: 12-19-05 12:36pm
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You can be direct with him or ask him to
take a shower with you before sex. If you
give him head, I reccommend just saying
something.
My boyfriend is usually pretty good but
for a day he didn't shower and I told him
after going down that I didn't stay down
there too long cause of the smell. He
wasn't offended at all and agreed that he
did smell.
So be honest about it.
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brownsquare
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Posted: 12-23-05 03:30am
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Urinals don't have toilet paper just
hanging out beside them. Don't expect
men to wipe after peeing unless you've got
them completely whipped.
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Fudgecake
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Posted: 12-23-05 05:10am
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They shud wipe after urinating or at least
make sure there is no urine on the penius
if they are expecting to have sex. Also
guys wudnt you rater smell nice then of ur
own wee?! But yea just have a quick word
wiv him dnt make a big deal out of it
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