i know this has been submitted in other
threads but i could'nt see anything
exactly like my condition.
I'm 13 and i have masturbated quite a few
times, and not once have i produced any
cum, or even precum. Someone help me
please!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 04-21-07 14:04pm
Have you orgasmed? The lack of pre-cum is
alarming, but if you haven't actually
orgasmed, there's no way you could have
ejaculated.
However, due to your age, I'd tell your
parents and get to a doctor.
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matt01
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Joined: 21 Apr 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 04-21-07 14:35pm
i did orgasm and i dont think there was
any precum - might have been, i dont
know...
i kinda would really like to sort this out
without a doctor or parents...
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Tylanas
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Posted: 04-21-07 14:39pm
matt01
wrote:
i did orgasm and i dont
think there was any precum - might have
been, i dont know...
i kinda would really like to sort this out
without a doctor or
parents...
Unfortunately, you kinda sorta can't.
If you don't have any signs of puberty
such as pubic hair, facial hair, deepening
voice, etc (there are many signs of
puberty) then your body is not ready to
release sperm yet during masturbation.
This may just be a case of prepubescence;
that is, your're not old enough to
ejaculate!
There is nothing wrong with going to your
parents or doctors. Why are people so
afraid!? If you get help soon you may
prevent years of problems.
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matt01
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Joined: 21 Apr 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 04-21-07 14:53pm
i have got pubic hair but my voice hasnt
broken yet...
and i just kinda dont want a doctor to be
inspecting my privates - not the most
comfortable of situations...
and about my parents, i suppose i could
tell them - id be pretty embarrased...
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 04-21-07 14:59pm
It's probably your age. Like eiri said,
men don't ejaculate from birth. That
starts with puberty, which is right about
the age that you are at.
For more information on puberty:
"Q. When do most guys have their first
ejaculate/have an orgasm? I turn 13 in
early November and I haven't had either of
those experiences. I know it's normal and
all, but I'm just wondering.
A. Most guys probably have their first
"wet dreams" around 12-13, or whenever
they begin puberty. A "wet dream" is
ejaculating while you're asleep, and it's
the body's way of releasing extra semen.
Unfortunately, we don't feel the orgasm
when that happens because we're asleep!
Now, around the same time, many boys
discover masturbation and it becomes a
normal, regular ritual with some (daily,
weekly, etc). Now, I won't tell you to do
it, but that is when most guys ejaculate
for the first time while they're awake."
http://www.pu
berty101.com/p_masturbationguys.shtml
"Other changes include a deepening of the
voice, an increase in muscle mass, the
ability to get erections and ejaculate
(especially spontaneous nocturnal
emissions or 'wet dreams'),..."
http://ww
w.keepkidshealthy.com/adolescent/puberty.h
tml
You'll probably start to ejaculate any
time now. You're about that age.
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matt01
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Joined: 21 Apr 2007 Posts: 4
Ty Posted: 04-21-07 15:07pm
that makes
me feel soooooo much better
thanks so much
wudve been v embarrasing tellin sum1
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matt02
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jun 2007 Posts: 2
Hey Posted: 06-06-07 11:21am
well im back, and although i didnt go to
the doctors - i didnt think i needed 2 - i
just read a new topic in this forum and
found that i may have been "away with the
fairies" during masturbation, and that if
i focus more, then i mitght cum.
woo!
anyways i have another question - do you
only precum during or after the orgasm?
and what about actual cum? or can u cum
well b4 yr orgasm?
thnx
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Re: Hey Posted: 06-06-07 11:38am
matt02
wrote:
well im back, and although i
didnt go to the doctors - i didnt think i
needed 2 - i just read a new topic in this
forum and found that i may have been "away
with the fairies" during masturbation, and
that if i focus more, then i mitght cum.
woo!
anyways i have another question - do you
only precum during or after the orgasm?
and what about actual cum? or can u cum
well b4 yr orgasm?
thnx
Pre-ejaculate usually comes out before
ejaculate. Sometimes it comes out quite a
bit before the ejaculate. That's why the
pull out method is not really a good form
of birth control.
Ejaculate and orgasm usually go hand in
hand for men.