Does It Bother You? (porn)

We do live together thats the thing. He does not prefer porn to sex but if im sleeping he wont wake me up he will use the computer. Do you think thats a big deal ?

It certainly would not bother me. A lot of people look at porn, whether they are single, married, or living with their partner. Most people in committed relationships still masturbate.

both me and my husband used to watch porn (not together) whilst masterbating. it isn;t a replacement for sex just an addition.

My bf used to do that, he would hav mags n i would b like get rid off em n stop wasting ur money, n he would but then he would just get more n hav to hide em n b paranoide, we broke up for afew months n i moved on from alot of things that used to freak me out abit with him but now i just read the mag, look and admire the pics.
Actually yesterday i drew a portraite of afew of the girls in there n made a collage in pencil n coal and it looks awsome, me and my bf made a sex game and stuck my pic in the middle o the board

My boyfriend is the same way. Except we live 2300 miles apart right now and I don't always liked to be woken up. Defiantely voice your concerns with him. I know that sometimes it makes me jealous when he's watching those tiny perfect skinny minny girls, are you the same way?

Do you enjoy porn? Have you ever tried watching together.. That might help , it works for us..

Be very careful girls about giving pictures of yourself naked to another person! Not all relationships last and some end pretty ugly. Look what happened to Paris Hilton!!!

All a matter of opinion. I have shared nude photos with people that I am not currently with and did not get them back, did not ask for them back. I am still very comfortable with it all.

my husband has photos and videos of us having sex. now that we're not together his new girlfriend saw them on his computer. i don't care though cause we had a great sex life that produced 3 kids so it could of only made her jealous. lol

imho, yes you can feel bothered. But you don't have to. Why does it bother you?
Personally, I went through this and it did bother me, but it was more because I was feeling inadequete and having self-confidence issues. I felt that he was looking at these other girls (who I would never measure up to) because he didn't enjoy looking at me or something.

I started to feel totally unconfident and never wanted him to see me naked, which was a huge problem (I had also gained weight which didn't help). Eventually we finally talked about it and I feel much better. I explained how I felt and it was important to me that he understood and tried to make me understand that it wasn't about me.

I got more open to the idea and now it's something that we do together. There are going to be times when one of you is in the mood and the other isn't, and you'll have to learn other ways that you as a couple can deal with it. And you'll definately have to talk about it in the meantime. People don't talk about it, but negotiating your sex life is a hugely important part of marriage.

A lot of guys like to watch porn videos online or look at pics. Maybe you could watch with him or have him show you sexy pics he likes to look at. It would give you and Idea of what kinds of things he likes, then if you feel comfortable maybe you could try to copy poses or moves that you see.