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Urinating During Orgasm, Or During Oral Sex? Posted: 04-21-07 20:12pm
When my husband and I are having oral or
vaginal sex I get the sensation that I
want to pee and I hold back. Am I
actually urinating or is there something
wrong? On the occasions when I have
actually let go or lost all control I
experience a good orgasm. My husband says
that I am a gusher is he right or am I
peeing?
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reneblack
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Re: Urinating During Orgasm, Or During Oral Sex? Posted: 04-21-07 20:57pm
beltdriven1200
wrote:
When my husband and I are
having oral or vaginal sex I get the
sensation that I want to pee and I hold
back. Am I actually urinating or is there
something wrong? On the occasions when I
have actually let go or lost all control I
experience a good orgasm. My husband says
that I am a gusher is he right or am I
peeing?
wow! I wish I could cum
like that?
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Tylanas
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Re: Urinating During Orgasm, Or During Oral Sex? Posted: 04-21-07 23:40pm
beltdriven1200
wrote:
When my husband and I are
having oral or vaginal sex I get the
sensation that I want to pee and I hold
back. Am I actually urinating or is there
something wrong? On the occasions when I
have actually let go or lost all control I
experience a good orgasm. My husband says
that I am a gusher is he right or am I
peeing?
Your husband is right; you are not
peeing!!
This is called female ejaculation. It is
totally normal! It is not urine; it is
actually a liquid that comes from an organ
called the urethral sponge. You cannot
urinate while orgasming becuase the
muscles near your bladder close it off.
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NWKC
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Posted: 04-22-07 00:31am
your husband is correct. you're a
"squirter".
Eiri
wrote:
You cannot urinate while
orgasming becuase the muscles near your
bladder close it
off.
I do believe that works in similar ways
for males. once a male boy has hit puberty
he is no longer subject to peeing his bed;
if that was the case unless he was one of
the fortunate to learn self control.
males become erect at night, not due to
subjecting a wetdream, but this happens
everynight. anyway, I assume this
correctly because I've experimented a bit,
by masturbating while having a slight urge
to urinate and the urge simply goes away
do to the lack of nerve towards the
bladder that is focused on the penis.
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fiona05
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Re: Urinating During Orgasm, Or During Oral Sex? Posted: 04-22-07 11:54am
Eiri
wrote:
You cannot urinate while
orgasming becuase the muscles near your
bladder close it
off.
are you sure? i know that's the case with
men, but i've been told that with women
it's different. maybe i'm wrong. got any
sources? don't really wanna find out for
myself, don't really wanna wet the bed
whilst having sex, lol.
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Becky
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Posted: 04-22-07 12:56pm
i am gusher too and get the sensation of
wanting to pee just before i orgasm.
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Tylanas
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Re: Urinating During Orgasm, Or During Oral Sex? Posted: 04-22-07 13:10pm
fiona05
wrote:
Eiri
wrote:
You cannot urinate while
orgasming becuase the muscles near your
bladder close it
off.
are you sure? i know that's the case with
men, but i've been told that with women
it's different. maybe i'm wrong. got any
sources? don't really wanna find out for
myself, don't really wanna wet the bed
whilst having sex,
lol.
I have sources online I can go look for if
you like.
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angrymess
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Are You Sure? I Think I Did. Posted: 05-24-07 22:57pm
Honestly? Because I could have sworn that
I did the other day and I seriously almost
cried I was so embarrassed. It really felt
like it, and it never has. I mean it's not
like he knew because I hurried and covered
it and I didn't know if it had something
to do with my pregnancy. I just hadn't
heard about it. write me back.
-me
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Granps
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Women Urinating While Having Intercourse Posted: 05-30-07 03:47am
Females ejaculate? Yes, they do. We’re
talking about a gusher of fluid spurting
out of her vagina as she comes. Actually,
to be more accurate, the fluid comes
squirting out of her urethra. Don’t let
this gross you out, though; it’s not
pee! Female cum is a clear, odorless
liquid produced by a small organ called
the “female prostate,” or urethral
sponge, which is located between the
urethra and vagina. The fluid it produces
just happens to come out of the pee hole,
but...so does guys’ semen, right?
While some women may experience
ejaculation naturally in the course of
intercourse or other sex play, most
require some concentrated stimulation of
the G-spot. Massaging the G-spot causes
the urethral sponge to become engorged
with fluid, which is then expelled during
orgasm. And, as with an orgasm,
ejaculation also requires the woman to
“let go.” Before ejaculating, the
woman will feel as though she is going to
pee. However, it is nearly impossible for
her to urinate while coming, because the
muscular contractions of orgasm close off
the bladder and prevent the passage of
urine.
As she gets closer to coming, she will
start to feel as though she has to
urinate. That’s the cum beginning to
flow into her urethra. In order for her
ejaculate, she has to relax, let go, and
push down and out with the same muscles
she would use as if she were peeing. It
may be hard to overcome the impulse to
hold back, but you can reassure her,
again, that if she is coming, she will not
pee.
Instead, as she comes and pushes the fluid
out, she should feel extra intense
orgasmic pleasure, and you should be
rewarded with a spurt of nectar that may
range from gentle gush to a drenching
spray.
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jennycome
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Joined: 15 Sep 2008 Posts: 1
Posted: 09-15-08 11:04am
im a bit worried,
me and my bf have been togther nearly 2
years and have wonderful experimental
sex.
we both no what turns each other on, and
he knows exaclty where to turn me on and
how.
for a long time he was able to make me cum
(ejaculate)
anthough recently i have noticed, and he
has also, that even doing the same things
as before, by turning me on, instead of
ejaculationg i am passing urine instead.
i can feel the build up, and feel as if im
orgasming, but yet i pass urine instead of
ejaculate at the end of it.
why is this?
me and my bf have been ancious to no as it
is causing problems in our sex life, and i
feel humiluated as its altough he cant
please me in the same ways anymore.
the other day he was giving me vaginal
oral (teasing my clit)
and i felt like i was going to cum, i felt
altho i was orgasming, and i had been
holding it in for so long, i decided to
let go...
and unfortnatley pee'd on his face.
(revalting i no)
i new staight away from the colour that
things were no right, and this has nt been
the first time!!
and i pass urine before and after sex.
i have jus had tests a few months ago
because ive had continous urine
infections, and it has cleared up.
is it that my bladder cannot control
itself?
or cannot hold the urine?
is he teasing me in the wrong place?
please help,
x
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littlemissliz
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Posted: 09-15-08 16:52pm
have you been to your doctor. i know it
can be a little embarresing but if its
having an effect on your relationship and
confidence then prehaps your doc can
advice you on what to do. good luck.