Hey.. So he lied and went to the club
again... The day after a "what started
off bad, good valentines day" and I have a
formal to go with him this saturday. I
went through all this trouble to get him
to come since hes outa school and I had to
get permission slip after permission slip.
Its like he gets away with the lies
though...Should I blow it off and not care
when he goes with his friends? Or like
cut of the ties the next time. Im
seriously becoming numb to heartbreak and
lies.... I dont know what I deserve
anymore either... And I think no one else
will want me now. I love dan, and I know
I do, but I think that there are things
that need to change or I shouldnt hold on
so tight....Its seriously continuous
lies...And he justifies them by my past
mistakes...Like its a game of revenge or
something... Ya know? Any one? What
would u do?
Love mol I need advice lol
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 02-19-04 17:42pm
Ummmmmmmmm I really don't know. But if
your afraid no one else will want you
because your pregnant, that's not true.
My ex boyfriend still wants me. And even
if there is no one, then that doesn't mean
there never will be. Your not going to be
pregnant forever. And besides, who says
you need a man anyways. Guys suck! Guys
get you pregnant and then get to laugh at
the way you walk!!! Lol. I don;t really
know your specific situation with your
guy, but I would say talk to him. Make a
new rule, past is past. He isn't allowed
to bring up yours and you wont bring up
his. See if you kind of get a new start.
That's about the only idea I have. I
don't wanna tell you to leave him or stay
with him because like I said, I don't
really know your situation all that well.
Hope this helps.
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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
Posted: 02-19-04 18:36pm
Hey has he ever cheated on u be4?? I know
raven goes to clubs and caca and him and
other ppl have said that I must really
love him and trust him to go to clubs by
himself and I do he hasnt given me any
reason not to yakno?? Unless its
different w/ u im not usre...If u love him
and trust him then let him go and have his
fun w/ his friends good clean fun that
means no cheating be4 the lil one comes
along...Raven realizes that once I have
him he wont be able to go out like he does
now so hes having his fun now ya kno??
Well I hope I gave u some kind of help !!!
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 02-19-04 19:06pm
Hey I know how you feel. I was the same
with jose drinking! I hated it and he
ruined my valentines day. And my thing
was I loved him enough to let him go. And
with that, we did alot of arguing when he
was drunk but when he was sober, I said "i
see whats more important to you now" and
he kept saying no and crying for me but I
had had enough of those empty promises
that he was gonna stop drinking! So
finally he made a big promise but said im
more important than beer and he loves me
too much to let me go. So we made up and
its only been about a week but he hasnt
even looked at a beer. You have to give
him the choice and see whats more
important. I know how it feels to want to
hold on, but you cant deal with the
heartache either! I am always suspicious
too, I have no trust, ive been lied to so
many times so im jus cautious. I hope
things work out and get better!!!
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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004 Posts: 626 Location: Indiana
Posted: 02-19-04 20:30pm
No hes never cheated on me. I heard he
did once, but the guy who told me had a
molly-obsession and def. Was a liar. So
ya..Thats how that went.
As for the current drama-
well I told him I found out his lie, and
he said how? I said dont worry about
it.....And hes like tell me how molly or
im not goin to g.R. With u saturday and
im like no,it doesnt matter n e more.
So...I havent talked to him since..I wana
call him but I think he'd call me if he
cared.
Love mol
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 02-19-04 20:53pm
Good for you girl.....I know it is so hard
not to call.....But believe me it's for
the best. Give him a few days and if he
really loves you, he will call. Good luck
and goodnight girls.
