arcadia
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Omg.
Posted: 04-22-07 23:20pm
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i am so incredibly' stressed out right
now.
gabe is so fussy & nothing is helping
& i have been alone with him for the
majority of the day.. i was at the trailer
& .chris was at work until 3 &
then had a bunch of errands to run.. so i
came home tonight hoping to get some
help.. but nahhh, both my parents are way
too trashed to even function. my mom tried
to feed .gabe, but she couldn't even sit
him up to burp him. what. seriously. it's
so doing it stupid.
i'm just so frazzled & tired &
stressed & i just want to relax. i'm
about to cry.
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Sail Away
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Joined: 16 Oct 2006 Posts: 1170 Location: Missouri
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Posted: 04-22-07 23:25pm
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If I were you i'd take that baby and run
because there's no way in hell i'd even
let somebody hold my baby while trashed,
she could of dropped him or something
I'm sorry your having such a rough time
though, If I were closer i'd give you a
break girlll!!!!! <3
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 04-22-07 23:28pm
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I'm sorry you're having such a rough time
I wish I was closer, babe. Where have you
been on msn and aim?? I miss you 
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arcadia
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Posted: 04-22-07 23:38pm
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| DaliciaLovesYou
wrote: | If I were you i'd take that
baby and run because there's no way in
hell i'd even let somebody hold my baby
while trashed, she could of dropped him or
something
I'm sorry your having such a rough time
though, If I were closer i'd give you a
break girlll!!!!!
<3 |
i didn't know she was that drunk until i
saw her trying to burp him. i was like nuh
uh. & i took him from her. ugh.
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littlesqueaks
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 296 Location: Caldwell, Idaho
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Posted: 04-23-07 00:08am
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Try placing your forearm into his abdomen
with slight pressure, bounce a little bit
and tap his back with the palm of your
hand fingers up. He might have a deep burp
that he is unable to release. Or you can
try laying him across your legs and roll
him gently. Slight pressure in the abdomen
area sometimes helps get the burps up that
are hard for them to release.
How much does he eat at each feeding and
does he burp well? Just out of curiosity
I hope that he stops fussing for you soon.
I remember how stressful it could be when
my babies would fuss and you just can't
figure out why. It seemed as if all that
wanted to do was eat. But try to refrain
from feeding him if you feel that he had
just ate and it should have been enough to
fill him up for awhile because it could
cause blotting/gas to become worse. Try
burping him for a while before feeding
Just some advice I really don't know if
this is the case or what you have already
tried but good luck and I hope he gets
better.
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arcadia
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Posted: 04-23-07 00:35am
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he eats anywhere between 4 & 6oz at
each feeding. sometimes even 7oz!
& .he burps like a incredibly' pro!
hahaha he burps really great. biiig long
deep burps, hahaha.
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littlesqueaks
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 296 Location: Caldwell, Idaho
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Posted: 04-23-07 00:43am
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6-7oz could be a little to much for his
little belly and that could be why he is a
bit fussy. The normal amount that babies
eat in the beginning is about 4oz. Try
cutting him back just alittle bit. He may
have had an upset tummy today and that
could be why he was a bit fussy. Is he
doing better yet?
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arcadia
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Posted: 04-23-07 00:52am
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see, but that's the thing, he started
taking 4oz at a time when he was a week
old in the hospital. & .after he takes
a 4oz bottle, he still roots like crazy
& if i don't give him another ounce or
two, he screaaaams. i can tell he is
definitely not satisfied with just 4oz.
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littlesqueaks
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 296 Location: Caldwell, Idaho
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Posted: 04-23-07 01:13am
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Does he burp half way through? does he
take a binkie? Are you nursing or is he
just on formula? I could be wrong some
babies can eat a bit more than others. All
babies are different of course. But if he
continues to fuss he could have gas, the
paticular formula could be upsetting his
tummy, or he might be collic. It is so
hard to say not being around him but if he
continues to fuss often then it could be
one these. How long in between does he
wait to have another bottle? I am not an
expert by all means but I have worked with
infants in a daycare for 15 years and
pretty good at detecting what is going on
when they are fussy. So I hope you don't
mind that I am trying to help. I have seen
so many babies be fussy because of gas
contributed to either eating to much,
wrong formula or just the way the baby is
and they are just so miserable until we
are able to relieve them and I have
learned many tricks in that department as
well. So I would love to help if you need
some help you can PM me anytime. Good
luck!!
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Mommy35
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
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Posted: 04-23-07 05:26am
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Ask your peditrician if it's ok if you
give .Gabe .Mylicon. It is infant gas
relief, and it works really well. It
saved my life with my daughter, and has
come in handy already once with .Jaylon.
Instant relief. It is like $10 for a 1
ounce bottle of the stuff, but you only
use a little bit 0.3ml, so it lasts.
Good luck.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
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Posted: 04-24-07 10:48am
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warm water has the same
affect as .mylecon(waste of money)!
Try keeping him at 6oz. Give him a bink if
he's rooting. His belly needs time to
relay to his brain that he's full. Once
it's sent the message, he should be fine.
I'm sorry he's not cooperating and being
fussy! It can be very overwhelming!!!
Oni always did *great* when we took her
outside. SO her first 3-4 months was spent
outside.
I actually thought she was allergic to the
a/c!! ha!!
Sarah
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Bridget
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Posted: 04-24-07 10:58am
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i loved mylicon, it was a lifesaver for
us. finn was super fussy when he was tiny
and we started putting mylicon in every
bottle and the fussiness went out the
window. i don't know how warm water would
have the same effect though. we mixed his
formula with warm water and he was still
bothered, when we put the drops in you
could actually see all the bubbles
disappear and no more gassy discomfort!
we were only paying 88 cents a bottle
though so we used it freely. $10?! that's
outrageous!
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Mommy35
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Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
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Posted: 04-24-07 11:08am
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what? Where the heck were you buying it?
Was it the name brand???, and for .God's
sake ship me up some.
When my daughter was a baby, she had a lot
of gas. The mylicon was the difference
between sleep and insanity!!! I had .N.O
money and remember I would have sold my
soul to the .Devil for mylicon because it
was so expensive, but worked like a charm.
It seems as though it was more $ then
almost 17 years ago. .Ugh
Now, money is tight, but at least we have
2 good incomes.
I think what .Sarah meant was a warm bath
works, which it does but .Jaylon hates
hates hates to have a bath, so it's
trading a belly ache for a hysterical
naked baby. 
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Eyes Wide Shut
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
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Posted: 04-24-07 11:10am
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| IHeartMyBostonTerrier
wrote: | i loved mylicon, it was a
lifesaver for us. finn was super fussy
when he was tiny and we started putting
mylicon in every bottle and the fussiness
went out the window. i don't know
how warm water would have the same effect
though. we mixed his formula with warm
water and he was still bothered,
when we put the drops in you could
actually see all the bubbles disappear and
no more gassy discomfort!
we were only paying 88 cents a bottle
though so we used it freely. $10?! that's
outrageous! |
I'm not talking about formula (water +
powder). I'm talking about plain warm
water. It breaks up bubbles the same way
mylecon does.
I got this info from the book "happiest
baby on the block".
Once I read it, I began giving her warm
water, and she would fart or burp and be
fine.
Sarah
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
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Posted: 04-24-07 11:12am
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| Mommy35
wrote: | what? Where the heck were
you buying it? Was it the name brand???,
and for .God's sake ship me up some.
When my daughter was a baby, she had a lot
of gas. The mylicon was the difference
between sleep and insanity!!! I had .N.O
money and remember I would have sold my
soul to the .Devil for mylicon because it
was so expensive, but worked like a charm.
It seems as though it was more $ then
almost 17 years ago. .Ugh
Now, money is tight, but at least we have
2 good incomes.
I think
what .Sarah meant was a warm bath
works, which it does but .Jaylon
hates hates hates to have a bath, so it's
trading a belly ache for a hysterical
naked baby.  |
naah, I was talking about 3/4 oz of warm
water in a bottle to break up gas bubbles.
I mean, to each their own. I'm just saying
what worked for us.
Mylecon here is 8 dollars for a 1oz
bottle. Sooooo not worth it. The warm
water worked wonders for us.
Sarah
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Bridget
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Posted: 04-24-07 11:17am
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if i'd had to pay $8-10 for a bottle of
gas drops then i would've tried the warm
water first, i'd just never heard that
before.
nick works at a hospital so we get all
meds (and diapers!) ridiculously cheap.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
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Posted: 04-24-07 12:19pm
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| IHeartMyBostonTerrier
wrote: | if i'd had to pay $8-10 for
a bottle of gas drops then i would've
tried the warm water first, i'd just never
heard that before.
nick works
at a hospital so we get all meds (and
diapers!) ridiculously
cheap. |
wooord?!? That's awesome!!!
Sarah
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arcadia
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Posted: 04-24-07 12:23pm
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speaking of diapers.. i usually use
.pamper's .swaddlers.. & i absoultely
love them. never had a leak or any type of
problem with them. but my mom went to
.kmart the other day & we needed
diapers, & i didn't ask her to get
any, but she did & they didn't have
.swaddlers.. so she got .pamper's .baby
.dry & i can't *stand* them. he leaks
through them & i hate that they aren't
stretchty- i feel like i can't get them
tight enough on him! drives me nuts.
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Bridget
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Posted: 04-24-07 12:25pm
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| babymajic0506
wrote: | | IHeartMyBostonTerrier
wrote: | if i'd had to pay $8-10 for
a bottle of gas drops then i would've
tried the warm water first, i'd just never
heard that before.
nick works
at a hospital so we get all meds (and
diapers!) ridiculously
cheap. |
wooord?!? That's awesome!!!
Sarah |
it is awesome! they have an employee store
that has pretty much any medicine you'd
find in a pharmacy (like claritin,
benadryl, ibuprofen, etc) as well as
things like bandaids, gauze, alcohol
swabs, vaseline, pampers, etc. and
everything is wicked cheap! our medicine
cabinet is completely (over)stocked.
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yellow ribbon
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Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 5554 Location: FL
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Posted: 04-24-07 14:46pm
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we get any meds free from the pharmacy on
base, like mylocon and tylenol and
benedryl. its gunna suck having to buy
stuff when we move
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