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jarielle

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I Need Advice About My Boyfriend
Posted: 04-23-07 00:00am

He get jealous fast
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arcadia

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Posted: 04-23-07 00:02am

so what's your question?
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jarielle

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I Need Advice About My Boyfriend
Posted: 04-23-07 00:04am

he dont like me with my friends. he get mad fast. He always want fess. Then he want fight when he mad. Then he trying to get me pregnant. what should i do?
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littlesqueaks

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Posted: 04-23-07 00:12am

How old are you? Jealousy can be common from both sides. Tell him to get over it friends are there for life will he? Anyways as for trying to get pregnant if your not ready make that clear to him if he won't listen then he is not worth the anxiety. Don't stay with someone your unhappy with if you can't fix the problem then run.
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jarielle

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I Need Advice About My Boyfriend
Posted: 04-23-07 00:14am

HeatherCarl wrote:
How old are you? Jealousy can be common from both sides. Tell him to get over it friends are there for life will he? Anyways as for trying to get pregnant if your not ready make that clear to him if he won't listen then he is not worth the anxiety. Don't stay with someone your unhappy with if you can't fix the problem then run.
I'm 17 years old, he is 18 years old
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jarielle

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Posted: 04-23-07 00:16am

thank you heathercarl
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Tylanas

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Posted: 04-23-07 01:29am

I would not date this boy. I don't care his age; he is acting immature and very stupid. You can do better. Break up with him for your own good. He sounds violent; plus, why the hell woul he try to get you pregnant!? That is your choice, and it sounds like he's trying to get you pregnant so you won't be able to go out with friends and so you'll be forced to stay with him. I would get out of this relationship as soon as possible, and have friends and family around to protect you from him, because he sounds like the dangerous kind who will try to do something violent.
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littlesqueaks

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Posted: 04-23-07 01:32am

jarielle wrote:
thank you heathercarl


Not a problem you had wrote me a PM saying you had more to ask and you never responded so what is it that you needed to ask PM me again

Take care.
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fiona05

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Posted: 04-23-07 07:44am

this guy wants to control your life. to be honest he sounds weird, disrespectful and violent. i would get out while you can.
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jarielle

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Posted: 04-23-07 07:48am

fiona05 wrote:
this guy wants to control your life. to be honest he sounds weird, disrespectful and violent. i would get out while you can.
he is violent and he mad to me
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Llewellyn

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Posted: 04-23-07 12:37pm

Violence is never good. It's ok to get in some verbal arguments with your partner every once in a while, but if it is happening often, if he is hitting you, or if he gets angry about very small things, I would leave the relationship. Those are all signs that something is seriously wrong, that he might be abusive, and that it might really be dangerous for you to stay with him.

If you do decide to stay with him, at least use birth control if you don't already. You're both too young for a baby in my opinion, and to make matters worse, it sounds like he is the only one who wants a baby. If he is violent with you, there is a good chance he would be violent with the baby too.
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