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Posted: 04-24-07 20:43pm

oh no what i meant is like is my breast ready is it still growing cuz my boyfriend just tocuhes it realy gently a couple times and then it hurt im not sure what the problem i think it because i have very sensitive breast
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Posted: 04-24-07 21:14pm

What do you mean, "is my breast ready"?

Look, you don't sound very old, or educated, so I don't think you should be doing anything too far with your boyfriend. You're going to end up having sex and not even know it and end up pregnant.

You need to talk to someone you know like a school health teacher, a school counselor or someone like that. If your parents can't tell you about your body, you need to learn from good sources, not your friends.
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Posted: 04-24-07 21:40pm

If you touch your own breast, you don't get breast cancer, right? So if someone else touches it, it stands to reason that you would not get breast cancer that way either. Breast cancer does not magically spout from anyone's fingers.

Your breasts might be sensitive because of your hormones if you are still going through puberty. You also might notice your breasts becoming sensitive before your period. If you have a lot of pain, or something just does not seem right to you, there's no harm in having your doctor take a look at you though.

Like eiri said, you might want to start getting involved in more sex education. There are a lot of myths out there about pregnancy, STDs, and anatomy. If you are still in school, don't be afraid to ask a health teacher some questions. You can also see what your school offers for sex ed. Sometimes there are extra sex ed. classes that you can take as electives.

This site also might be able to answer a lot of your questions: http://www.coolnurse .com/sex_faqs_index.htm
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Posted: 04-25-07 06:52am

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if the guy touch my boob to much will it turn ugly or will i get breast cancer ????


I need to ask how old you are.. Because when we are young we hear all sorts of odd things that make us wonder. When I was about 12 and had no breast to speak of yet.. I heard that if you play with them it would make them grow. So every night when I went to bed I did this breast excerize.. 20 grabs per breast then I could go to sleep. Guess what. The never got very big. You will not get cancer nor will they turn ulgy. Nor will the get bigger.. Smile
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Posted: 04-25-07 09:49am

meblonde01 wrote:
backspace wrote:
if the guy touch my boob to much will it turn ugly or will i get breast cancer ????


I need to ask how old you are.. Because when we are young we hear all sorts of odd things that make us wonder. When I was about 12 and had no breast to speak of yet.. I heard that if you play with them it would make them grow. So every night when I went to bed I did this breast excerize.. 20 grabs per breast then I could go to sleep. Guess what. The never got very big. You will not get cancer nor will they turn ulgy. Nor will the get bigger.. Smile


thank you very much for that elightened story. I definitely would have to admit, kids at the age 12 hear everything...they make assumptions of nonbased rumors...at the age 12, the boogeyman was a big hit. I'd sit there in front of my bed and closet door both, just waiting for the show to start...I hadda disposable camera too, just incase he was real. whatta let down Sad ...I still think the yeti is real though Laughing
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Posted: 04-25-07 11:03am

Cute stories, both of you. I think she said she was 17 but I don't buy it.
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Posted: 04-25-07 11:18am

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Cute stories, both of you. I think she said she was 17 but I don't buy it.


I don't recall buying it either. Rolling Eyes
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Posted: 04-26-07 09:28am

I don't think your aunt should be telling you things like that, frankly. It's only going to give you a fear of sex, and I think you should read up on it more. I know how confusing it is at first, I didn't even know what oral sex til I was about 15 and I didn't even know that women could have orgasms, so educate yourself would be my advice.
I think sex education in schools etc. is awful, it desperately needs to be improved. And definitely don't have sex until you feel ready, it doesn't matter how old you are and what felt right for your friends might not feel the right time for you.
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Posted: 04-26-07 11:46am

I thought the phrase "making out" meant having sex until I unwittingly pissed off a close friend XD when I was about 15 or 16!
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Posted: 04-26-07 16:43pm

The term 'putting out', is that the same as making out? It's an american phrase and I don't quite understand it...

You know what, being on this forum is the most sex education I've ever had! They did it at school, but it was a joke really.
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Posted: 04-26-07 18:46pm

Lion79 wrote:
The term 'putting out', is that the same as making out? It's an american phrase and I don't quite understand it...

You know what, being on this forum is the most sex education I've ever had! They did it at school, but it was a joke really.


what did your sex education consist of? i'm curious Smile mine was a joke too.

i remember they showed us a comedic video of a woman on a lilo in the middle of a swimming pool (symbolising the egg...) and a load of men diving into the pool swimming towards her (the sperm) and her pushing them away until she found the one she wanted...

isn't that the most ridiculous thing you've ever heard?

i can see so many confused adolencents going to have sex for the first time and bringing a lilo with them. Confused Laughing

they never taught us anything about sti's. they never taught us anything about the emotional side of sex, or about the female orgasm.

they pretty much said 'that goes in there'. plus, by the time we received sex education, sadly some kids were probably already having sex.
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Posted: 04-26-07 19:08pm

Lion79 wrote:
The term 'putting out', is that the same as making out? It's an american phrase and I don't quite understand it...


"putting out" means having sex, basically. Going all the way.

"making out" would be kissing, maybe some heavy petting, but no penetration.

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Posted: 04-26-07 19:09pm

Ours was pretty much the same, minus the video, sadly.
They did teach us about condoms and protection and stuff but they didn't really explain about STIs, like the various types, symptoms, how you get them etc, it was mainly focused on pregnancy.
Oh yeah, they never said ANYTHING about female orgasm. When I was first considering having sex I told my friend who was already sexually active with her boyfriend and she said 'remember, it's not a race!' and I was like.........what?? lol

Apparently they showed the boys how to put on a condom but not the girls, I think they should get the girls doing that as well. They didn't explain much about the other methods, like the pill, I got all my information from my doctor when I went on it myself.
They gave us this 'education' when we were about 15 I think, maybe slightly younger but I think they should start it sooner because there would have been some already doing it by that point. No wonder there is such a high rate of unwanted teenage pregnancy and STIs lol
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Posted: 04-27-07 09:01am

Lion79 wrote:
Ours was pretty much the same, minus the video, sadly.
They did teach us about condoms and protection and stuff but they didn't really explain about STIs, like the various types, symptoms, how you get them etc, it was mainly focused on pregnancy.
Oh yeah, they never said ANYTHING about female orgasm. When I was first considering having sex I told my friend who was already sexually active with her boyfriend and she said 'remember, it's not a race!' and I was like.........what?? lol

Apparently they showed the boys how to put on a condom but not the girls, I think they should get the girls doing that as well. They didn't explain much about the other methods, like the pill, I got all my information from my doctor when I went on it myself.
They gave us this 'education' when we were about 15 I think, maybe slightly younger but I think they should start it sooner because there would have been some already doing it by that point. No wonder there is such a high rate of unwanted teenage pregnancy and STIs lol


wow... 15, you're joking, right? that's appauling! can't believe they left it so late. i knew people in my school were having sex at 12. a great lot of use sex education is gonna be to them at the age of 15!

i don't know if sex education has got any better since mine ten years ago, but even then it was horrendously antiquated. as you say, they just don't cover many of the really relevant stuff they should. it should be much more open, much more extensive.

that's not to say that they shouldn't be receiving education at home, too. it's a parent's responsibility. it makes my blood boil how many mothers and fathers never think or bother to exercise even basic parenting skills.
there are so many people out there who have absolutely no right to be parents. whoa i've just gone off on a tangent Laughing
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