oh no what i meant is like is my breast
ready is it still growing cuz my boyfriend
just tocuhes it realy gently a couple
times and then it hurt im not sure what
the problem i think it because i have very
sensitive breast
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Tylanas
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Posted: 04-24-07 21:14pm
What do you mean, "is my breast ready"?
Look, you don't sound very old, or
educated, so I don't think you should be
doing anything too far with your
boyfriend. You're going to end up having
sex and not even know it and end up
pregnant.
You need to talk to someone you know like
a school health teacher, a school
counselor or someone like that. If your
parents can't tell you about your body,
you need to learn from good sources, not your
friends.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 04-24-07 21:40pm
If you touch your own breast, you don't
get breast cancer, right? So if someone
else touches it, it stands to reason that
you would not get breast cancer that way
either. Breast cancer does not magically
spout from anyone's fingers.
Your breasts might be sensitive because of
your hormones if you are still going
through puberty. You also might notice
your breasts becoming sensitive before
your period. If you have a lot of pain,
or something just does not seem right to
you, there's no harm in having your doctor
take a look at you though.
Like eiri said, you might want to start
getting involved in more sex education.
There are a lot of myths out there about
pregnancy, STDs, and anatomy. If you are
still in school, don't be afraid to ask a
health teacher some questions. You can
also see what your school offers for sex
ed. Sometimes there are extra sex ed.
classes that you can take as electives.
if the guy touch my boob to
much will it turn ugly or will i get
breast cancer
????
I need to ask how old you are.. Because
when we are young we hear all sorts of odd
things that make us wonder. When I was
about 12 and had no breast to speak of
yet.. I heard that if you play with them
it would make them grow. So every night
when I went to bed I did this breast
excerize.. 20 grabs per breast then I
could go to sleep. Guess what. The never
got very big. You will not get cancer nor
will they turn ulgy. Nor will the get
bigger..
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NWKC
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Re: Breast Posted: 04-25-07 09:49am
meblonde01
wrote:
backspace
wrote:
if the guy touch my boob to
much will it turn ugly or will i get
breast cancer
????
I need to ask how old you are.. Because
when we are young we hear all sorts of odd
things that make us wonder. When I was
about 12 and had no breast to speak of
yet.. I heard that if you play with them
it would make them grow. So every night
when I went to bed I did this breast
excerize.. 20 grabs per breast then I
could go to sleep. Guess what. The never
got very big. You will not get cancer nor
will they turn ulgy. Nor will the get
bigger..
thank you very much for that elightened
story. I definitely would have to admit,
kids at the age 12 hear everything...they
make assumptions of nonbased rumors...at
the age 12, the boogeyman was a big hit.
I'd sit there in front of my bed and
closet door both, just waiting for the
show to start...I hadda disposable camera
too, just incase he was real. whatta let
down ...I still think
the yeti is real though
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Georgia59
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Posted: 04-25-07 11:03am
Cute stories, both of you. I think she
said she was 17 but I don't buy it.
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NWKC
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Posted: 04-25-07 11:18am
Georgia59
wrote:
Cute stories, both of you. I
think she said she was 17 but I don't buy
it.
I don't recall buying it either.
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Lion79
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Posted: 04-26-07 09:28am
I don't think your aunt should be telling
you things like that, frankly. It's only
going to give you a fear of sex, and I
think you should read up on it more. I
know how confusing it is at first, I
didn't even know what oral sex til I was
about 15 and I didn't even know that women
could have orgasms, so educate yourself
would be my advice.
I think sex education in schools etc. is
awful, it desperately needs to be
improved. And definitely don't have sex
until you feel ready, it doesn't matter
how old you are and what felt right for
your friends might not feel the right time
for you.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 04-26-07 11:46am
I thought the phrase "making out" meant
having sex until I unwittingly pissed off
a close friend XD when I was about 15 or
16!
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Lion79
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Posted: 04-26-07 16:43pm
The term 'putting out', is that the same
as making out? It's an american phrase and
I don't quite understand it...
You know what, being on this forum is the
most sex education I've ever had! They did
it at school, but it was a joke really.
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fiona05
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Posted: 04-26-07 18:46pm
Lion79
wrote:
The term 'putting out', is
that the same as making out? It's an
american phrase and I don't quite
understand it...
You know what, being on this forum is the
most sex education I've ever had! They did
it at school, but it was a joke
really.
what did your sex education consist of?
i'm curious mine was a joke
too.
i remember they showed us a comedic video
of a woman on a lilo in the middle of a
swimming pool (symbolising the egg...) and
a load of men diving into the pool
swimming towards her (the sperm) and her
pushing them away until she found the one
she wanted...
isn't that the most ridiculous thing
you've ever heard?
i can see so many confused adolencents
going to have sex for the first time and
bringing a lilo with them.
they never taught us anything about sti's.
they never taught us anything about the
emotional side of sex, or about the female
orgasm.
they pretty much said 'that goes in
there'. plus, by the time we received sex
education, sadly some kids were probably
already having sex.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 04-26-07 19:08pm
Lion79
wrote:
The term 'putting out', is
that the same as making out? It's an
american phrase and I don't quite
understand
it...
"putting out" means having sex, basically.
Going all the way.
"making out" would be kissing, maybe some
heavy petting, but no penetration.
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Lion79
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Posted: 04-26-07 19:09pm
Ours was pretty much the same, minus the
video, sadly.
They did teach us about condoms and
protection and stuff but they didn't
really explain about STIs, like the
various types, symptoms, how you get them
etc, it was mainly focused on pregnancy.
Oh yeah, they never said ANYTHING about
female orgasm. When I was first
considering having sex I told my friend
who was already sexually active with her
boyfriend and she said 'remember, it's not
a race!' and I was like.........what??
lol
Apparently they showed the boys how to put
on a condom but not the girls, I think
they should get the girls doing that as
well. They didn't explain much about the
other methods, like the pill, I got all my
information from my doctor when I went on
it myself.
They gave us this 'education' when we were
about 15 I think, maybe slightly younger
but I think they should start it sooner
because there would have been some already
doing it by that point. No wonder there is
such a high rate of unwanted teenage
pregnancy and STIs lol
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fiona05
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Posted: 04-27-07 09:01am
Lion79
wrote:
Ours was pretty much the
same, minus the video, sadly.
They did teach us about condoms and
protection and stuff but they didn't
really explain about STIs, like the
various types, symptoms, how you get them
etc, it was mainly focused on pregnancy.
Oh yeah, they never said ANYTHING about
female orgasm. When I was first
considering having sex I told my friend
who was already sexually active with her
boyfriend and she said 'remember, it's not
a race!' and I was like.........what??
lol
Apparently they showed the boys how to put
on a condom but not the girls, I think
they should get the girls doing that as
well. They didn't explain much about the
other methods, like the pill, I got all my
information from my doctor when I went on
it myself.
They gave us this 'education' when we were
about 15 I think, maybe slightly younger
but I think they should start it sooner
because there would have been some already
doing it by that point. No wonder there is
such a high rate of unwanted teenage
pregnancy and STIs
lol
wow... 15, you're joking, right? that's
appauling! can't believe they left it so
late. i knew people in my school were
having sex at 12. a great lot of use sex
education is gonna be to them at the age
of 15!
i don't know if sex education has got any
better since mine ten years ago, but even
then it was horrendously antiquated. as
you say, they just don't cover many of the
really relevant stuff they should. it
should be much more open, much more
extensive.
that's not to say that they shouldn't be
receiving education at home, too. it's a
parent's responsibility. it makes my
blood boil how many mothers and fathers
never think or bother to exercise even
basic parenting skills.
there are so many people out there who
have absolutely no right to be parents.
whoa i've just gone off on a tangent