does self-penetration i mean 2 woman can
make her lose her virginity ? or she muct
feel it if that happened
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Tylanas
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Re: Self-penetration Posted: 04-23-07 22:51pm
cinderellaaa
wrote:
does self-penetration i mean
2 woman can make her lose her virginity ?
or she muct feel it if that
happened
Self penetration I assume is done by a
woman or a man, by
themselves. If you are *self*
penetrating, then it is you who
are placing the dildo/object inside of
your own body. Most people do not consider
this to be losing your virginity, as it is
normally a form of self-exploration and
masturbation.
If you are talking about lesbians, like
two women having sex, and one of them uses
a dildo on the other woman, then this
would count as losing her virginity only
if she wanted it to mean that.
The "classic" definition of losing one's
virginity is that a penis enters the
vagina.
People talk about many forms of virginity
these days: oral, anal, and vaginal
virginity. I won't go into all of that
right now.
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cinderellaaa
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Posted: 04-23-07 22:54pm
no i mean if i just tryin 2 do it on my
own with fingers is that can affect my
virginity? is it easy 2 lose it?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 04-23-07 22:58pm
cinderellaaa
wrote:
no i mean if i just tryin 2
do it on my own with fingers is that can
affect my virginity? is it easy 2 lose
it?
Ah, your use of numbers instead of proper
words confused me, I think.
No, like I said before, inserting anything
into yourself including
fingers/dildos/fruit does not make you
lose your virginity.
The issue here is over the breaking of the
Hymen. Most girls are born with a hymen.
It is a thin layer of skin that partially
covers the entrance to the vagina. Most
girls break it before they ever have sex,
so the hymen does not represent virginity.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 04-24-07 00:02am
You can never lose your virginity to
yourself. You are a virgin until you
actually have sex with another person.
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cinderellaaa
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Posted: 04-24-07 00:50am
How did u know that Liewellyn ? is that
for sure?
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 04-24-07 00:53am
cinderellaaa
wrote:
How did u know that
Liewellyn ? is that for
sure?
Yes, that is for sure. "Masturbation" and
"sex" have different definitions.
"Masturbation" is what you do to yourself.
"Sex" is what you do with another person.
A "virgin," by definition, is someone who
has not had sex. Masturbation has nothing
whatsoever to do with sex or virginity.
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cinderellaaa
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Posted: 04-24-07 00:55am
yes i understant but what i,m concern
about is losing the actaul virginity
while i,m practice the masturbation, i
mean how can i know that i didn,t lose my
virginity yet? i knew that its n,t
required 2 have blood on the first time ..
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Tylanas
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Posted: 04-24-07 01:02am
cinderellaaa
wrote:
yes i understant but what
i,m concern about is losing the actaul
virginity while i,m practice the
masturbation, i mean how can i know that i
didn,t lose my virginity yet? i knew that
its n,t required 2 have blood on the first
time ..
I will put this in bold for you.
You
cannot lose your virginity through
masturbation, no matter what you do to
yourself. Even if you break your own hymen
(which is very likely) you are still a
virgin.
Virgins only lose their virginity when a
penis goes inside of the vagina.
Have you had a penis inside your vagina?
If no, then you are a virgin.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 04-24-07 01:04am
cinderellaaa
wrote:
yes i understant but what
i,m concern about is losing the actaul
virginity while i,m practice the
masturbation, i mean how can i know that i
didn,t lose my virginity yet? i knew that
its n,t required 2 have blood on the first
time ..
I think you are confused about what the
word "virginity" means. You are a virgin
until you have sex with someone else.
There is no other meaning of the word, and
there is no other way to lose your
virginity.
You might be confusing "virginity" with
"hymen." A lot of people think girls are
not virgins anymore once their hymen is
torn, but that is not even close to being
true. Most girls tear the hymens long
before they have sex from using tampons,
masturbating, or even running and jumping.
None of that stuff has anything to do
with sex or virginity though.
