Joined: 21 Apr 2007 Posts: 111 Location: Australia
I Dnt No Wat to Do, Am I Selfish? Posted: 04-23-07 22:52pm
is it bad that im only 18 and want a baby
so bad, i mean there are so many other
people out there s=trying thats y i feel
selfish for wanting one.
its not caz im just another teenager, i
really want to take care or a baby, a
child, a teenager, ill understand him/her
better caz ill b a younge mum, but is it
selfish on my man? he will b going out
prawning for afew months soon and i dnt
have a secure job, but i need advice
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HcoBrunette06
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Posts: 8016 Location: Florida, United States
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Posted: 04-23-07 23:08pm
it's not selfish, you're a teenager and
you have all kinds of hormones, it's what
your body is designed to do so of course
you feel this way, it's natural.
what is selfish is to bring a baby into an
invironment that you know isn't 'good'.
-i suggest getting a job first, and
keeping it.
-if you don't have a car, save for one.
you'll need this to go back and forth to
doctors appointments.
- & move out on your own so you can
have your baby in your own space.
have all of these things before you
knowingly bring a baby into the world.
some great girls here still live at home
and have their babies, but they do wish
they could have their own places, so think
about that first!!
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*Vanessa*
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Apr 2007 Posts: 111 Location: Australia
Posted: 04-23-07 23:11pm
they dont have a hug emoticon so ill just
write *Hugz*, *hugz*, preciate it
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HcoBrunette06
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Posts: 8016 Location: Florida, United States
