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megums1211

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Posted: 04-23-07 23:47pm

I know I'm not supposed to post this in here and I know it'll get deleted or moved but I'm not getting responses anywhere else... so...
I am at a breaking point... I have tried every "fad" diet around and nothing, or I gain it all back. What does a dietician cost and what exactly will one do? I am so desperate... I contemplated gastric bypass surgery, b/c I am 240 pounds and my ideal weight is between 130-140... However, with the cost of health care in the united states and the fact that I have no health insurance, I figured it was out of the question... I am only 21 years old.... I'm ruining my life by being this way and I just don't know what else to try... I am a new mom to a 5 month old little girl and don't get much free time to exercise, other than a daily walk and an ocassional 15 minute work out on the gazelle... I try to change the way I eat by eating whole grain bread, vegetables, fruit, lean meat, soy milk, and following the guidelines in the book "you:on a diet" but I try so hard and fail..... Is a dietician helpful? How much does one cost? What will they do for me?
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Posted: 04-24-07 09:35am

megums1211 wrote:
I know I'm not supposed to post this in here and I know it'll get deleted or moved but I'm not getting responses anywhere else... so...
I am at a breaking point... I have tried every "fad" diet around and nothing, or I gain it all back. What does a dietician cost and what exactly will one do? I am so desperate... I contemplated gastric bypass surgery, b/c I am 240 pounds and my ideal weight is between 130-140... However, with the cost of health care in the united states and the fact that I have no health insurance, I figured it was out of the question... I am only 21 years old.... I'm ruining my life by being this way and I just don't know what else to try... I am a new mom to a 5 month old little girl and don't get much free time to exercise, other than a daily walk and an ocassional 15 minute work out on the gazelle... I try to change the way I eat by eating whole grain bread, vegetables, fruit, lean meat, soy milk, and following the guidelines in the book "you:on a diet" but I try so hard and fail..... Is a dietician helpful? How much does one cost? What will they do for me?


use your daughter as a weight and do lifts, squats, and sit ups, involving her!!! YOu can also lay her on the floor and do push ups over her and make funny faces every time you go down!!

http://infantastic.com/pro duct_information.php?gclid=CLvQg4vM24sCFQ3 ugAod0Q1WbA

Also, if it's nice out, put her in her stroller and walk her briskly for about half an hour. work up a nice sweat then start slowly walking to lower your heartrate before you sit down.

You're not alone girl. We all have weight issues after having our children! You can pm me if you want too!

Sarah
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jenniek

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Posted: 04-24-07 22:54pm

I just sent you a pm...
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Bridget

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Posted: 04-25-07 08:46am

you do not need gastric. i used to weigh 245 and i got down to 165 with diet and light exercise (swimming). gastric is a completely drastic and unhealthy solution to quick weight loss. it's for lazy people.

didn't you try weight watchers? what happened with that? it works, you just have to stick with it. losing weight is extremely hard, it takes time and effort. i'm having a terribly hard time losing my pregnancy weight, it's really holding on. i've been doing ww for 4 months (on friday) and i've only lost 17 pounds (while my husband has lost 40, which makes it even harder for me). yes, it's very frustrating to be losing so slowly but what else can i do? i can either give up and stay fat or keep doing what i'm doing and eventually i'll get to where i want to be. now that the weather is nice i'm going to start taking daily walks with finn and hopefully that'll give my weight loss a little boost.

we can be ww buddies if you want to give it another go. i have all kinds of good low point treats and delicious low point meals. pm me if you want.
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jenniek

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Posted: 04-25-07 20:21pm

[quote="IHeartMyBostonTerrier"]you do not need gastric. i used to weigh 245 and i got down to 165 with diet and light exercise (swimming). gastric is a completely drastic and unhealthy solution to quick weight loss. it's for lazy people. quote]


Wow! Good for you only losing the weight! I never would have thought you had been 245, you look great!
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Bridget

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Posted: 04-26-07 06:56am

[quote="jenniek"]
IHeartMyBostonTerrier wrote:
you do not need gastric. i used to weigh 245 and i got down to 165 with diet and light exercise (swimming). gastric is a completely drastic and unhealthy solution to quick weight loss. it's for lazy people. quote]


Wow! Good for you only losing the weight! I never would have thought you had been 245, you look great!


thanks, unfortunately i gained it all back plus 10 more while i was pregnant (i gained 10 with my first preg, 10 after my miscarriage, 70 with my last preg). now i'm stuck around 210 but still plugging away and i want to get down to 185 (my pre-finn weight) before getting pregnant again (we're going to start trying in august). i learned my lesson and with my next pregnancy i'm going to do a modified version of weight watchers so i'm still watching what i eat and not overeating but definitely not losing either.

this may not be true for everyone but i'm finding it much more difficult to lose pregnancy weight than when i was just losing weight before. pre-pregnancy i would lose 10-15 pounds a month and now i've lost 17 pounds in 4 months. it's definitely not easy.
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Posted: 04-26-07 06:59am

you dont look 210 at all! how tall are you?
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Bridget

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Posted: 04-26-07 07:02am

Emma2 wrote:
you dont look 210 at all! how tall are you?


believe me, i do. i'm only about 5'5". before when i was overweight i was very proportionate, now i'm carrying a lot of it in my hips and lower stomach. i'm going to start exercising once my stupid back gets better and i can't wait.
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Posted: 04-26-07 07:04am

IHeartMyBostonTerrier wrote:
Emma2 wrote:
you dont look 210 at all! how tall are you?


believe me, i do. i'm only about 5'5". before when i was overweight i was very proportionate, now i'm carrying a lot of it in my hips and lower stomach. i'm going to start exercising once my stupid back gets better and i can't wait.


ok cause youre face is not showing that at all...so your body is pear shaped ....thts sexy though! take your time bridg its not easy after having a baby..
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jenniek

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Posted: 04-26-07 12:50pm

I totally agree that its not easy losing pregnancy weight!! I lost about 65lbs right before I got pregnant and then gained that plus 10 pounds back! its harder now because i dont have as much time to work out (something i did a ton pre pregnancy) and i find it hard to eat healthy when i am not working out! ugh.
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Posted: 04-26-07 21:48pm

Wow we all have the same issues lol, okay basically your metabolim is shot to hell after having kids so if you want to jumpstart weightloss you have to options both suck but they work, one being chemical"pill" and the other "diet."

I have been working out straight 5 month and lost a whopping 10 lbs, some of it is muscle and you have to remember muscle weighs more than fat...

Anyways to jumpstart everything naturally, start by 3 canteloupe eat half of it a day, then start adding salads to every meal with exercise you will notice a difference within 6 weeks~! Vitamin B12 is awesome as well as Iron for your energy levels if you find your lacking but a good diet will have you up in no time, by diet I mean eating healthy.
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jenniek

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Posted: 04-26-07 21:58pm

diamondsz wrote:
Wow we all have the same issues lol, okay basically your metabolim is shot to hell after having kids.


Dang I'm just screwed then. I already have hypothyroidism plus having a kid, I basically have no metabolism left.. I think its working in total opposite to make me fat forever! haha
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