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princessnae
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Don't Fake It
Posted: 04-24-07 00:42am
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Ok so I have been with my Boyfriend for
three years. Before I meet him I had sex
with one person about 5 times... So I
wasn't very experienced and he was.
Anyway in the begining i didn't know what
I was supposed to feel like so when he
started asking me how i felt if i cam...
and so on.. I thought in order to please
him I needed to tell him yea. Well at
this point if I told him that the only way
that I can cum is by self stimuli of my
clit he would question everything about
our relationship.. And we have been
having sex for nearly 3 years so guess
what he would freak out..
Anyway... I enjoy sex it feels good and I
get really wet. And I get close to
cumming when I squeeze my legs together
but that makes him cum and he stops.. So
anyway.. the moral of the story is.. Don't
fake it because I am going to marry this
man.. and yeah.. If I could do it over
again.. I would not fake it!
*This was supposed to be under the "faking
it" poll posting*
Last edited by princessnae on 04-24-07 02:14am; edited 1 time in total
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cinderellaaa
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Posted: 04-24-07 00:46am
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Faking is bad by all means , yes..
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NWKC
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Posted: 04-24-07 00:55am
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what exactly are you asking?
and yes faking it is a terrible thing to
do. not all of us guys are dumb; there are
times where we can tell if you're faking
it or not...it might not come easy to
realize, but it happens.
has it ever came to mind, about talking to
your boyfriend?
communication is key in any relationship.
...now I'm beginning to repeat myself.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 04-24-07 01:09am
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I can't blame him for being angry. I
would be too. It's a very dishonest and
immature thing to do. I am glad that you
are being honest with him now though and
know that lying about it isn't the best
way to solve the problem.
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princessnae
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Thanks For the Input And Such
Posted: 04-24-07 02:13am
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First of all I am not trying to condone my
actions but at the time I didn't know how
to respond. Second I communicate very
well with my boyfriend. And like I said I
do not recommend lying and faking it.
Third this was not supposed to be its own
posting but under the "faking it" poll.
But thanks anyway.
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NWKC
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Posted: 04-24-07 02:22am
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| princessnae
wrote: | | First of all I am not trying
to condone my actions but at the time I
didn't know how to respond. Second I
communicate very well with my boyfriend.
And like I said I do not recommend lying
and faking it. Third this was not
supposed to be its own posting but under
the "faking it" poll. But thanks
anyway. |
Ah, now the the answers to my confusion
roll in. haha.
I'm glad you do communicate with your
boyfriend.
As well as, that you know faking it is
clearly bad.
Not a problem...although, I don't find my
post very helpful.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 04-24-07 15:22pm
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As a side note, there still can be ways
for you to orgasm while having sex, like
stimulating yourself (or having him
stimulate you) while you are having sex.
Also, there are ways to postpone him from
coming if you aren't ready....
I guess I won't go into details but I
think everyone should be able to enjoy sex
and sometimes it just takes creativity and
trying new things. 
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beckums
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Posted: 04-27-07 14:57pm
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some women just cant come during sex, i
know i dont always come during sex but i
never tell him i have, he knows. i find if
i'm all warmed up before hand (plenty of
four play) then i come during sex but if
its a quicky i dont, but that doesn't mean
i dont enjoy it i love having that
intimate contact with my fella, thats more
than enough.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 05-01-07 12:29pm
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I totally agree, I don't always either.
But it's still enjoyable. A lot of guys
don't get that.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-01-07 13:38pm
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| Georgia59
wrote: | | I totally agree, I don't
always either. But it's still enjoyable. A
lot of guys don't get
that. |
Yes! That's exactly it. I enjoy sex
whether I orgasm or not.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 05-01-07 13:48pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | | I totally agree, I don't
always either. But it's still enjoyable. A
lot of guys don't get
that. |
Yes! That's exactly it. I enjoy sex
whether I orgasm or
not. |
Me too. 
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miasmamma
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Posted: 05-01-07 22:00pm
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| Llewellyn
wrote: | | Eiri
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | | I totally agree, I don't
always either. But it's still enjoyable. A
lot of guys don't get
that. |
Yes! That's exactly it. I enjoy sex
whether I orgasm or
not. |
Me too. |
and here too...just don't care much for
not finishing...it pretty much sucks
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-01-07 23:36pm
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| miasmamma
wrote: | | Llewellyn
wrote: | | Eiri
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | | I totally agree, I don't
always either. But it's still enjoyable. A
lot of guys don't get
that. |
Yes! That's exactly it. I enjoy sex
whether I orgasm or
not. |
Me too. |
and here too...just don't care much for
not finishing...it pretty much
sucks |
What do you mean by "not finishing"?
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flipper
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Posted: 05-02-07 03:16am
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| miasmamma
wrote: | | and here too...just don't
care much for not finishing...it pretty
much sucks |
As for the faking it thing though, I
actually did one time. It was like 9
years ago or something, we'd both been
drinking and it took forever! Finally I
just started doing a little extra moaning
etc. to get him all excited so he would
finally finish up. Oh well.  I couldn't fake
it now though if I wanted to, because he'd
be able to tell.
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miasmamma
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Posted: 05-02-07 08:49am
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| flipper
wrote: | | miasmamma
wrote: | | and here too...just don't
care much for not finishing...it pretty
much sucks |
As for the faking it thing though, I
actually did one time. It was like 9
years ago or something, we'd both been
drinking and it took forever! Finally I
just started doing a little extra moaning
etc. to get him all excited so he would
finally finish up. Oh well. I couldn't fake
it now though if I wanted to, because he'd
be able to
tell. |
That is a good man...
Eire, "not finishing" is kinda umm self
Explanatory. I would wrather orgasm than
not.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-02-07 12:14pm
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Mia, it confused me because first you
agreed that you didn't mind sex without
orgasm, and then said that you did mind
if you didn't get to orgasm... I think the
others and I were saying that we didn't
mind and enjoyed the whole process of sex
even if we didn't "finish".
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 05-02-07 12:59pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | I think the others and I
were saying that we didn't mind and
enjoyed the whole process of sex even if
we didn't
"finish". |
Yeah, that's what I was saying. Sex feels
good even if I do not orgasm from it. I
often orgasm, but sometimes I don't, and
that's ok too.
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MikeH90
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Posted: 05-02-07 14:50pm
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| Georgia59
wrote: | | I totally agree, I don't
always either. But it's still enjoyable. A
lot of guys don't get
that. |
My wife and I go through this all the
time. She'll have sex for me, knowing she
won't cum, especially if we've done it the
night before. I just can't fathom having
sex and not finishing. Guess its the way
we're built.
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joycemelrose
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G-spot
Posted: 05-03-07 21:41pm
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I was faking with my boyfriend until I got
G-spot injections. AWESOME! You feel
everything all the time. The best thing
to do! That's why they call it the new
restylane for down-under.
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princessnae
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G Spot Injection?
Posted: 05-07-07 01:10am
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Tell me more about it.. Sounds great
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