ill start by saying hello and telling you
a little about myself.
i am 18 years old, in good shape and have
a good personality(if i know you).
i am extremely self conscious. i hate
being this way! i don't consider myself
shallow. i would rather have a girl i
enjoy being with over a girl i cant stand
that is beautifully.
now for the problem. my senior prom! i am
pretty sure looks are not my problem, i
have had female attention from many girls
most to shallow for me to be interested in
but they did help boost my confidence a
lot.
** i don't know how to get a date, I'm not
friendly enough with any girls to ask, all
of my friends are guys and any girls i do
hang out with i see far to infrequently to
build a relationship.
** would it be weird to ask a girl i dont
even know to the prom, just a " hi i am so
and so, would you like to go the the prom
with me", is that even acceptable? would
it be weird for her.
another question i have is: girls usually
don't ask guys out right? I've had one
girlfriend and she asked me out, could my
main problem be i don't ask any girls out?
basically what i am asking is if i don't
ask a girl out what are the chances of me
getting a date lol.
thanks for your help.
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princessnae
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Apr 2007 Posts: 90
Ok.. Girls Point of View.. Posted: 04-25-07 00:06am
First of all yea you need to ask girls out
to get dates.. And yes girls ask guys
out.. I never did in highschool but I am
22 now and asked my boyfriend out on a
date and we have been together for three
years.
Second it is totally acceptable (in my
book) to ask someone you don't know. I
would suggest asking around and making
sure that they don't have a date already,
a crush, boyfriend and so on. In my
opinion getting a date in high school is
way easier because even if you don't "know
them" you can always use a line like,
"Aren't you in Mr. Wilson's math class?"
If you don't have someone specific in
mind. Try asking your friends or more
importantly their girlfriends, if they
have them. They will have more insight
and may have some great friends to hook
you up with.
Also most girls would like to know their
date before spending their prom with them.
So if you have a girl in mind ask her
now. Plus you don't want her to be
taken. And see if she wants to go out
before hand.
If you are nervous and self consious then
try something like coffee or ice cream.
Its a less stressful enviornment then a
quiet dinner. And you can get more
dialoge in. Then move on to dinner.
If you have anymore questions need help..
ect.. you can also pm me.. Good luck and
let me know how it goes.
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