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Posted: 04-25-07 14:20pm

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i am in so much pain right now.

this morning nancy and i were talking about how lifting and carrying our hefty babies hurts our backs and coincidentally my back went out when i was picking finn up. it's the worst it's ever been, i feel like i could throw up. i can seriously barely move and getting up off the couch or my bed is a huge task. forget walking, i look like a little old lady shuffling along.

thank god finn's been taking good naps today so i don't have to worry about picking him up. when i do have to pick him up i end up manhandling him, pulling him up by his arm and holding him like a sack of potatoes.

i'm waiting for a call back from a nurse so she can ask me some questions about my pain and i can get in to see the doctor. i hope they get me in soon. i need a serious anti-inflammatory or some good painkillers, i can't deal with finn like this and it just happens too often (but not this bad).

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Posted: 04-25-07 14:25pm

Aww .bridget! I'm so sorry, hon! Is there any way .nick can come home and help with .finn? Crying
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Posted: 04-25-07 14:25pm

How awefull!! Do you have a heating pad? That might help some.

I hope they can get you in soon.
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Posted: 04-25-07 14:27pm

I'm sorry .Bridget! =(

I really hope your back gets better soon!
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Bridget

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Posted: 04-25-07 14:28pm

nick offered to come home but i told him to finish out the day, he'll be home in an hour and a half. he also offered to take tomorrow off but i think my mom has the day off so she can come over if i need her to.

i've been sitting on the heating pad pretty much all day. i'm also trying to get up and walk around whenever i can because it helps to keep moving. this is just the worst it's ever been and walking isn't really working right now.

i hate this so much. i don't really know what they can do for someone who constantly throws their back out.
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Posted: 04-25-07 14:34pm

I don't want this to sound rude. But, are you lifting .Finn correctly? (mind you I don't know what that would be...) but that could be why it is happening repeatedly.

You might want to try a moist heating pad (or a sock with rice in it) Sometimes the moist heat will help muscles more.
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Posted: 04-25-07 14:34pm

i feel for you, i been having sciatic pain all day, and it hurts to get up and sit down and pickin the kids up, jasons gone for a week and onyl called once since the phones almost dead. his that is. i cant even walk straight im limping but i had this when pregnant too so eh, ive been lifting kids and a stroller all week going out and doing stuff Sad dumb me.
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Posted: 04-25-07 14:37pm

Awwwww!! B, I'm soo sorry!

Is it mid back pain? Or your .sciatic nerve being pinched?

EIther way, it hurts!! Crying
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I had .sciatica during my pregnancy, in the beginning and at the end, and I literally wanted to just lay there and cry.

Try doing some knee to chest excercises. And some other leg/back stretches.

The moist heating pad works a lot better than a regular one! I used it for my .sciatica with .oni!

Sarah
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Posted: 04-25-07 14:41pm

babymajic0506 wrote:
Awwwww!! B, I'm soo sorry!

Is it mid back pain? Or your .sciatic nerve being pinched?

EIther way, it hurts!! Crying
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I had .sciatica during my pregnancy, in the beginning and at the end, and I literally wanted to just lay there and cry.

Try doing some knee to chest excercises. And some other leg/back stretches.

The moist heating pad works a lot better than a regular one! I used it for my .sciatica with .oni!
i wish i had a heating pad in general lol, at least u guys got one, i think i meant to look for that at the px today but didnt since i spent 90 bucks on a dsl modem
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Posted: 04-25-07 14:43pm

OH MAN...IM SO SORRY GIRL....YOU PROBABLY PULLED A MUSCLE. YOU NEED TO START BENDING WITH YOUR KNEES ....im walking pretty old ladyish myself today...
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Posted: 04-25-07 14:51pm

well, i went from wanting to cry to full out crying. the doctor won't see me. a nurse just called and asked all these questions and then said because i'm not an established patient that they can't get me in, then she tells me to take 600-800 mg of ibuprofen 3 times a day (done, you fool) and to try heat (which i've been doing).

i do suffer from mild sciatica but it's not enough to interfere with my day to day life. what i have now is a serious muscle spasm, i get them all the time but this is the worst it's ever been. i just need to wait it out but it's so hard because of finn. i was hoping they could give me something to ease the pain so i can take care of finn properly now and in the future when this happens again (because i know it will many more times).

i'm so upset.
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Posted: 04-25-07 14:53pm

I'd be upset to. Have you concidered going to the er or centra care?
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Posted: 04-25-07 14:55pm

have u ever seen a chiropracter? my sister had back problems since she had her daughter adn the epi messed it up etc. shes been seeing a chiropracter and it has helped alot, there arenta lot of pain killers i doubt that would help without making u go loopy, sry for the typos , typin in the dark
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Posted: 04-25-07 15:02pm

the nurse told me to go to the er if i wanted medication. i've gone to the er before for this and they've always only given me like 6 pills. also i think our er co-pay is like $50 as opposed to the $5 office visit.

i was hoping that my doctor could give me a prescription or at least a full bottle of pills and also go over some options with me on how we can fix this or keep it from happening so frequently.

diane, this is so stupid but i'm afraid of the chiropractor. i hate those adjustments, it stresses me out just thinking about it.

i'm just going to have to ride it out. i don't know if back issues run in families but my mom is always having muscle spasms and other issues too.
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Posted: 04-25-07 15:09pm

Yeah, the er only gives you like 2 days worth of meds. It is supposed to tide you over untill you can get into your regular doctor. Rolling Eyes

You might want to go through the phone book and just keep calling doctors untill you can find one that can get you in tomorrow. That way at least you'll be an established patient somewhere in case this happen agian.
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Posted: 04-25-07 15:20pm

this was my doctor, i'm in their computer and she's the one on my insurance card. nick and finn go there too. i've just never actually been there before.

it's all so stupid. the nurse was like "well, you need to get your old records sent here" and i told her i didn't have any records because my old doctor's office threw them away. so she said she needs the records from my pediatrician. i'm 28 years old, what do they need with my childhood records?

so i have an appointment set up for my new patient physical but it's not until june.
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Posted: 04-25-07 15:23pm

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this was my doctor, i'm in their computer and she's the one on my insurance card. nick and finn go there too. i've just never actually been there before.

it's all so stupid. the nurse was like "well, you need to get your old records sent here" and i told her i didn't have any records because my old doctor's office threw them away. so she said she needs the records from my pediatrician. i'm 28 years old, what do they need with my childhood records?

so i have an appointment set up for my new patient physical but it's not until june.

thats what i went through before i moved, but i cancled my physical appt cuz i got it at a walk in clinic, then found out i was pregnant and cuz i cancled 2 appts in a row they refused me. but the inital appt was too far out and i needed the physical asap to come to germany, any other dr i went to i never had to be established as a patient. but i know now for the future.
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Posted: 04-25-07 15:26pm

IHeartMyBostonTerrier wrote:
this was my doctor, i'm in their computer and she's the one on my insurance card. nick and finn go there too. i've just never actually been there before.

it's all so stupid. the nurse was like "well, you need to get your old records sent here" and i told her i didn't have any records because my old doctor's office threw them away. so she said she needs the records from my pediatrician. i'm 28 years old, what do they need with my childhood records?

so i have an appointment set up for my new patient physical but it's not until june.


That is insane!!! I have never had to do that. Wow...I just can't believe they wouldn't do anything for you. Thats just so...cold. I hope your feeling better soon!
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Posted: 04-25-07 16:12pm

I was really stressed about going to have adjustments too, but I went to a .D.O as opposed to a .Chiropractor, and she snaps my back. I could just kiss her when it's all over. It makes all the difference in the world.

Lifting with your legs and not your back or arms is good advice.

I hope your back feels better soon. Sad
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Posted: 04-25-07 16:38pm

I know that you don't like chiropractors but I am obsessed with mine. I seriously think that I am an adjustment junkie. I haven't been able to go to the chiro in quite some time and I am about to go insane because my back hurts.

My stepdad used to have horrible back pain where he couldn't even work but my mom got him to start going to my chiro and now he has no problems at all.
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