My Gf Is Wild

I'm not sure if what she's done is wrong necessarily...is she open with you when she "grinds" on guys? If so then I wouldn't worry too much about that, but I would tell her to watch out, some of those guys might see that as an invite to more, you know what I mean?

If you trust her, you're fine. If you don't then you got a big problem to sort out!

seems like you got trust issues with your girl. talk to her. tell her you don't like lies and that it hurts your feelings if she "grinds" with men in a bar or anywhere else.

I think your mind flies everywhere once you don't see your girlfriend or if she's in a bar. And you think she might be "grinding" with some stranger. It does hurt when you obsess with these feelings. You have to make it a point that what you feel is addressed. this would make her cautious of what not to do that might hurt your feelings.

what makes "grinding" in any way makes you feel sick? Do you feel that such action translates into cheating?

communicate with her. if she lies again, then think whether to lose the relationship or continue with the agony. it's not the grinding issue, it's the lying that goes with it.

Dancing is NOT JUST Dancing. Or else, why doesn't everyone skip around in the street? They'll get to places alot faster than walking.

This is why it worries me....

I am turning 22 y.O. In a month, my gf is 20 y.O. And is about to finish her first year as a college student, shes in missourri, while im in new jersey, I met her when she was a senior in h.S. And 19 y.O., I had already finished my college years. Well this is the thing, before she had went off to college, I went with her to her senior prom, where I witnessed her grabbing some guy's ass, and later that night grabbing his "inner-thigh" (as she says), right in front of me.... I didnt make a big deal, for I wouldn't kill someones special night, but later that night in the hotel, I did let her know I saw her do that, her jaw dropped and thought nothing of it, so I asked if it was alright I grabbed her friends ass since it was nothing to her and she said yeah, so as I left to the door to do just that, she stopped and she cried and apologized... A few months later, a guy approaches her to talk and what not that she worked with, and supposedly made it clear that she had a boyfriend, and then she gives her phone number out to a guy, and he called when she was with me, apparantly it wasnt strange at all to her, or like deceiving, until I had pointed it out and she started to cry and apologize.... Well this is the thing, these thoughts and experiences with her haunt me all the time, and it takes a toll on the relationship. Now out of no-where she wants to go to parties and what not, which I understand, but I cant help but remember those moments..... Especially because when I met her, it was because she started kicking it to me, meanwhile she was going out with someone else. And supposedly loved him. She says she loves me, so how can I believe that shes not gona do the same thing again? How can I really trust someone who's like this, and is going through college, should I just tell her to call me in another 3 years when she graduates?

Well I think others told you in another post you made to leave her.I also said that she is young and wants to party.If she wanted to be in a relationship that bad she would concider your feelings i'm sure.not saying all this in a mean way towards you at all,just giving you my opinion.

If she cheated on her boyfriend to be with you, and you knew this, then you must have known it was wrong to do. Some people say that if she did it with someone else, she would do it to you too. I don't know if I agree with that, but I am putting it out there for you to think about. I guess all you can do is set forth boundaries and the two of you need to agree on what is OK and what is not OK. My husband doesn't mind me dancing with other guys, and I have been known to dance a littel dirty, but we know where the line is and we don't cross it. (To tell the truth, I can't remember when the last time was that i danced with another guy...we are old and tired now and we rarely go out). Your gf is very young and has a lot of experiences ahead of her. She just turned 20, and is enjoying life in college. I got married when I was 20 and in college, so there were a lot of dating experiences I missed out on. I think it is pretty normal for a girl to want to be noticed by the opposite sex...to feel attractive enough to have somebody express interest. hell, I still feel that way. But, I would never ever cross the line. So sit down and lay out some rules. If you feel that there are still trust issues or she is breaking the rules, then she must not be the one for you.