I Am Still Not Pregnant And What About Ovulex? Posted: 04-28-07 00:39am
I really want to have a baby and so does
my bf. It seems as if the people that get
pregnant the most are the ones that dont
want a baby or dont deserve a baby because
they just went out partying one night and
got knocked up by someone. ..I see that
happen alot and that crushes me b/c my bf
and I try to have one all the time and I
always have my period which causes fights
between us b/c we both want one that
bad.Someone please help...I dont know what
to do...
Also what do u think about ovulex..isnt
that supposed to be guarenteed?? I want to
try it but I dont know if it is worth
it..Does it really work like it says
online??
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shortgeek
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Dec 2006 Posts: 597 Location: DC
Posted: 04-28-07 17:12pm
Well, first of all. Nothing is
guaranteed. TTC is emotional enough
without getting a let down if a
"guaranteed" treatment doesn't work.
What, other than unprotected sex, are you
doing to improve your chances? Timing
goes a long way. Are you timing your bd
for your fertile time?
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GaBulldogsnum1fan
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Joined: 23 Apr 2007 Posts: 8
Posted: 04-28-07 23:25pm
I dont know how to track that exactly. I
was goin to get some prenatal vitamins but
I have not done that yet..so I gues we
have just been havin unprotected sex. So
you dont think that ovulex is a good thing
to try??
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Volaremos
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Joined: 09 Aug 2006 Posts: 421
Posted: 04-29-07 00:54am
So sorry your going through so much.
I think you should start charting your
bady temprature or use OPK, So that you
will know your most fertile days &
when you Ovulate . Hope that helped a
little.
Good luck with ttc.
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shortgeek
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Joined: 02 Dec 2006 Posts: 597 Location: DC
Posted: 04-29-07 08:39am
GaBulldogsnum1fan
wrote:
I dont know how to track
that exactly.
Vol mentioned two of the most popular
methods, OPK and temping. You can also be
aware of your cm changes before ovulation
and the position and texture of your
cervix. Since you are only fertile for a
few days a month, these methods will help
you time your bding to improve your
chances. If you want more information,
let me know. You can pm me if you want.
GaBulldogsnum1fan
wrote:
I was goin to get some
prenatal vitamins but I have not done that
yet.
Prenatal vitamins are a good idea while
you are ttc. I read somewhere that you
can help prevent birth defects by taking
the prenatal vitamins before getting
pregnant. Apparently, a lot of spinal
cord defects are determined before you
even know you are pregnant, but they can
be prevented by taking folic acid. Most,
but not all, prenatal vitamins have enough
folic acid for normal women and you should
take more if you have a family history of
spinal defects.
GaBulldogsnum1fan
wrote:
So you dont think that
ovulex is a good thing to
try??
I have never tried ovulex. Some women on
this forum have and some of them have
become pregnant while on ovulex. Just
know that it is not guaranteed and you
still are unlikely to get pregnant if you
don't bd when you are fertile whether you
take ovulex or not. Some women have said
that it helps regulate their cycles.
GaBulldogsnum1fan
wrote:
It seems as if the people
that get pregnant the most are the ones
that dont want a baby or dont deserve a
baby because they just went out partying
one night and got knocked up by
someone.
I know how you feel. When we started ttc,
we were one of six couples that we knew or
suspected of ttc. Four of them are now
expecting. Plus, we also know of an
unexpected pregnancy by someone who
doesn't have a boyfriend and will be going
on welfare after she has the baby so that
she can finish college. We don't begrudge
her any of the difficulties she faces, and
we admire her for facing them head on.
But, we waited until we were prepared
emotionally, financially, etc. Now I feel
like my biological clock is ticking while
everyone around me gets pregnant.
Another peice of advice - try to find a
goal or activity that is unrelated to ttc
for your mental health. It helps a lot to
have other things to think about. Because
I'm goal oriented, setting and attaining
goals outside of ttc helps me feel more in
control.
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wantingajr
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Joined: 26 Feb 2007 Posts: 169 Location: ,
Posted: 05-11-07 11:40am
Hi, I thought i let you know that i tried
ovulex for 3 months and it didnt work for
me. It made my af regular though so it
helped me on that. I stoped taking them
and i did not get af for a whole month
then the next month i got it and since i
am aslo ttc i am hoping this month is it.
i spotted for 2 days when af was supposed
to show and still it has shown yet. Good
luck though. I hope my input on Ovulex
helped you out a little.
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mr101340
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Joined: 11 May 2007 Posts: 1
Getting Pregnant Posted: 05-11-07 11:45am
my husband and i got pregnant about 3
years ago when we were dating and decided
it wasnt the time.. it was one of those
freak times when we didnt use protection
and didnt think it would happen.. well now
we are married and trying to have a child
however its been 6 months and now baby@!!
i dont understand i got pregnant so easily
before and i have no problems lingering
from the abortion...
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Posted: 05-11-07 11:51am
wantingajr
wrote:
i am aslo ttc i am hoping
this month is it. i spotted for 2 days
when af was supposed to show and still it
has shown yet. Good luck though. I hope
my input on Ovulex helped you out a
little.
What??? I din't realize you are still in
the running!!! Have you tested yet?
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duckypaty
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Joined: 09 May 2007 Posts: 106 Location: Dade City
Posted: 05-11-07 11:56am
I went on www.mymonthlycycles.com it tracks you period for you because im
horrible at that. it also tells you a
guesstimate on when you are ovulating...
you should try it! i hope it helps you
out! good luck!
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wantingajr
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Joined: 26 Feb 2007 Posts: 169 Location: ,
Posted: 05-11-07 15:00pm
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wrote:
wantingajr
wrote:
i am aslo ttc i am hoping
this month is it. i spotted for 2 days
when af was supposed to show and still it
has shown yet. Good luck though. I hope
my input on Ovulex helped you out a
little.
What??? I din't realize you are still in
the running!!! Have you tested
yet?
No i have not tested. for some reason i
dont think i am But I am hoping af
comes if not prego cause it gets me
frustated.
But I am hoping af
comes if not prego cause it gets me
frustated.