Joined: 29 Apr 2007 Posts: 2 Location: Atlanta, GA
Pregnant And Need Help Posted: 04-29-07 15:22pm
Hello
I am 24 years old and just found out I was
4 weeks pregnant. The dad doesnt want the
baby and is now not speaking to me because
he thinks Im trying to trap him. I moved
to Atlanta a year ago. I have no family
here just one friend and I dont know what
to do. I dont feel abortion is right for
me, but Im really confused on what to do.
Can somebody please help and give me some
advice.
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Idony
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Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 1611 Location: virginia beach, va usa
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Posted: 04-29-07 15:57pm
first off, if you dont agree with abortion
you only have 2 options, raise the baby or
give it up for adoption
is there anyway you could go home if you
have no one there?
and now for my ranty bit (sorry gotta do
this)
how the hell are you trying to trap him,
unless you said you were on the pill or
something and werent then there is no way
hes the one who stuck his thing in you and
got you pregnnat, if anyone is trying to
trap anyone, shouldnt it be the other way
around
sorry i just hate when guys say that, its
such a lame excuse to wuss out of their
duty
~alicia~
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Lauren_Jay15
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2007 Posts: 483 Location: ,
Posted: 04-30-07 06:50am
Hiya hun, listen I'm 15 and 20 weeks
pregnant, I moved to where I lived only 3
years ago and I still haven't settled in
completely, although I have my parents',
the dad is as good as gone, but when I
found out I was pregnant, I also
questioned abortion but trust me 100% when
I say abortion is never the answer, it's
unhumane and wrong, I understand you feel
alone but you can do this. I believe this
because I recently felt my baby kick and
move and have bonded with my baby now and
I know that carrying a child is the most
special thing in the world, and I'll never
regret my decision of keeping my baby.
There are people out there to help people
in your situation. As for the guy, tell
him where to go. It takes two to tango, he
should know having sex may get you
pregnant, therefore he is in the wrong,
not you. I hope everything works out.
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kaerbear
Most Diplomatic Poster
Joined: 10 Apr 2007 Posts: 1557 Location: ,
Posted: 04-30-07 10:40am
I don't know how well links work in here,
but here are a few you can check out with
some information that might help. You may
have to copy and paste them into your
browser if clicking them doesn't work.
The links all have information but there
are some with different perspectives (ie.
pro-choice/pro-life.) There are also some
government resources that you may be able
to access in your own community and some
of them have hotlines where they can refer
you or give you information, or just talk
to you if that's what you need. I hope
you are able to get the help you need.
Just remember, these are just for
information, it's your body and your
choice to make. Good luck.
Joined: 29 Apr 2007 Posts: 2 Location: Atlanta, GA
Posted: 04-30-07 18:01pm
Thanks for helping. Adoption is not a
choice. Its no way Im a carry my baby to
term and then give it to a complete
stranger. Im just more so hurt right now.
He wont speak to me at all and I feel
like I deserve better.
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mc4ever02
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Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 3636 Location: Orlando, FL Usa
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Posted: 04-30-07 19:45pm
You do deserve better! And don't let
anyone tell you otherwise!!!
Your just going through alot of emotions
right now. You have alot to adjust to all
at the same time. I'm sure you'll be a
good mother.
There is always someone here, so anytime
you feel lonely feel free to come on here
and talk. If you have a question/concern
about your pregnancy, feel free to post on
here. If you just need to talk/vent about
anything we have a pregnancy community
chat forum that you should join us one.
Your never alone on ehealth!
