Does anyone have tips to help stop
masturbating!? I realize that there was a
post previously written but about 95% of
the post is there discussing whether it is
ok or not to masturbate. I need some
help--tips mabye mentally and physically
to stop. I want to stop and that's what
matters, please don't go on about how it
is ok or not ok for me to do it. I have
made up my mind I would like to stop. Also
tips on stopping looking at pornography
would be helpful--things I can do to
prevent it and things I can do to resist
it. Thank you very much for all of your
help!
Does anyone have tips to
help stop masturbating!? I realize that
there was a post previously written but
about 95% of the post is there discussing
whether it is ok or not to masturbate. I
need some help--tips mabye mentally and
physically to stop. I want to stop and
that's what matters, please don't go on
about how it is ok or not ok for me to do
it. I have made up my mind I would like
to stop. Also tips on stopping looking at
pornography would be helpful--things I can
do to prevent it and things I can do to
resist it. Thank you very much for all of
your help!
I can't tell you how to stop masturbating
unless it is actually a problem.
If you truly are addicted and it
interferes with your daily life, then I
will help you. I don't help people stop a
completely healthy habit.
For the porn, delete any you have on your
computer and any links you have in your
favorites. Turn safe-search on in Yahoo!
and Google.
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JJbrown8
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Feb 2007 Posts: 23
Posted: 04-29-07 22:19pm
Well, masturbation drains me physically
and mentally. I don't like the whole
thing about it--using your body for a
release that should be used with another
person. It goes against my beliefs and
morales and it has in some ways been an
obsession to quit for the past 2 years. I
will be a much stronger person once I
conquer this addiction. It is consuming
me...please help if you have any advice.
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Tylanas
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jul 2005 Posts: 12985
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Posted: 04-29-07 22:41pm
JJbrown8
wrote:
Well, masturbation drains me
physically and mentally. I don't like the
whole thing about it--using your body for
a release that should be used with another
person. It goes against my beliefs and
morales and it has in some ways been an
obsession to quit for the past 2 years. I
will be a much stronger person once I
conquer this addiction. It is consuming
me...please help if you have any
advice.
I think it is far healther to masturbate
than to obsess about quitting.
That, in my opinion, is more of a disease
than masturbation.
I am sure other people on this forum will
have advice for you.
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 05-02-07 09:20am
I'd rather talk about how it's completely
ridiculous that people teach others that
masturbation is wrong, unhealthy, or a
sin, but since you said not to, I'll try
not to (too much).
But if I could just say a couple
things...
1. You'd be far healthier if you
masturbated and accepted it as normal,
healthy, and something 95% of people do.
It's far less healthy to worry about, have
a negative image of yourself and what you
do.
2. Your desire to masturbate is not in
your mind. It's in your body. It's
chemicals in your body that are natural
and serve a purpose.
I could make one hundred points and say
many things, but I'll leave it at those
two. I'm guessing you're religious, so you
believe that God wants you to be healthy
and happy and that He created you and your
body. Hmmm.
Anyway, if you really want to know how to
quit masturbating, google some. I just
hope that if you find yourself to be
miserable, imbalanced chemically, and
otherwise far worse off after quitting,
that'll you'll work on seeing it as a
positive part of a healthy and happy
life.
If you want, you could look at some
religious views that are NOT against
masturbation...
