I know this is a common question, but my
BF of 7 months broke up with me last night
and I'am just a wreck. I knew it was
coming, so it wasn't a total shock but it
still hurts and I miss him a lot. He said
the only feelings he has for me are just
as friends. I love him so much and I would
do anything to be with him. He still wants
to be friends. is it possible for his
feelings to come back anytime? I asked him
if there was a chance in the future and he
said maybe, he will keep me in mind. What
can I do??
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meblonde01
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Re: Can Feelings Come Back? Posted: 05-04-07 06:13am
Star2007
wrote:
I know this is a common
question, but my BF of 7 months broke up
with me last night and I'am just a wreck.
I knew it was coming, so it wasn't a total
shock but it still hurts and I miss him a
lot. He said the only feelings he has for
me are just as friends. I love him so much
and I would do anything to be with him. He
still wants to be friends. is it possible
for his feelings to come back anytime? I
asked him if there was a chance in the
future and he said maybe, he will keep me
in mind. What can I
do??
nothing.. if a person does not want you
there is nothing you can do. The best
thing to do is become distant with him and
that will give him a chance to see if he
wants you or not. Remember this. You do
not want someone that does not want you.
That would be a bad realtionship and you
would always wonder about his love for
you. Back off, don't call give him a
chance to see what he is losing. If he
wants you he will return if not. move on.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 05-04-07 08:53am
feelings can definetly come back! maybe he
was just with you so long and around you
so much he thinks he doesn't love you,but
love is a complicated thing right
there.Maybe he will realize he misses you
and he really does love you,maybe not.All
you can do is heal and move on.If he comes
back,great, but don[t hold onto the fact
of 'maybe he will.'
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paul995
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Posted: 05-04-07 23:33pm
what made him leave you in the first
place? were they trust issues?
If he only left you because he lost the
"feeling" then find another guy and don't
let him hurt you any longer by waiting for
his "feeling" to come back. It's more than
the romantic feeling when you love. If you
don't feel it anymore, then still, you
have to decide to love him. Because loving
is more than the butterflies in the
stomach. think very carefully. you have to
be away from him for awhile and take time
to heal. think about yourself first rather
than thinking of him.
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DPantelones
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Re: Can Feelings Come Back? Posted: 05-07-07 18:21pm
Star2007
wrote:
I know this is a common
question, but my BF of 7 months broke up
with me last night and I'am just a wreck.
I knew it was coming, so it wasn't a total
shock but it still hurts and I miss him a
lot. He said the only feelings he has for
me are just as friends. I love him so much
and I would do anything to be with him. He
still wants to be friends. is it possible
for his feelings to come back anytime? I
asked him if there was a chance in the
future and he said maybe, he will keep me
in mind. What can I
do??
You don't say how old each of you are, but
if you're young, I'd say YES feelings can
be rekindled. If he is in say his 30's,
I'd say prolly not. Move on, it's going
to be tough these next few months but you
gotta take care of you first, don't worry
about "what ifs" right now or they'll
drive you NUTS! Take care
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