Well i am 25.. i have had my share of
women3 somes and crazy sex lol... all
shapes and sizes everything... but no
matter what i cant cum during sex... i
can only cum when i masterbait...
i use a sock... lol or something like
that... i can cum with just my hnd and
spit or with her juices... but i cant cum
other wise it just dont fel good
enough.... like wheni jack off i can cum
in a min or 2.
so i dont know... i kinda like anal when
she does it on me and on her... with a
finger or toy i fell like i can almost
cum when she does that... but its like i
dont know feels diffrent then cumming but
not really. i am not gay one bit but i
will try anything to cum(besides another
guy)... i never been to a dr. and its not
mental cause i really want to cum inside
my gf. its kind a a fanasty... even when i
do masterbait i put it in her when i
cum... so i dont know.... anybody help me
out? i am thinking about going to a dr
but i figured i would try this first....
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Tylanas
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Joined: 13 Jul 2005 Posts: 12985
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Posted: 05-04-07 10:08am
I'm sorry to tell you but it is a mental
block. There is nothing physical
preventing you from comming inside or with
your girlfriend, it's all in your
subconscious. Therapy may be the best
thing.
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deebaby621
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Aug 2006 Posts: 251 Location: North Carolina
Posted: 05-04-07 11:27am
well it sounds to me like you've just
gotten so used to masturbation & "your
way," that anything besides that just
isn't getting the job done. maybe you
should try not masturbating for a bit
& only having sex. yeah i'm sure
you'll be tempted, but you might find that
decreasing how often you masturbate can
help.
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skizzi1234
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 May 2007 Posts: 13 Location: england
Posted: 05-04-07 12:42pm
how would thearpy help? what would they
say to me? heh and i do masterbait alot
that could be it cause i mean it just
dont feel the same when i have sex like
its not as tight as my hand is..
and even if i dont masterbait its just a
diffrent feeling of good like when someone
sucks on your neck or ear just right.
not when u are going to cum... its like 2
diffrent feelings... do they have
anything to make it more senceative?
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skizzi1234
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 May 2007 Posts: 13 Location: england
Posted: 05-04-07 12:52pm
how would thearpy help? what would they
say to me? heh and i do masterbait alot
that could be it cause i mean it just
dont feel the same when i have sex like
its not as tight as my hand is..
and even if i dont masterbait its just a
diffrent feeling of good like when someone
sucks on your neck or ear just right.
not when u are going to cum... its like 2
diffrent feelings... do they have
anything to make it more senceative?
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fiona05
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Joined: 21 Dec 2005 Posts: 663 Location: , Norn Iron
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Posted: 05-05-07 15:56pm
how long have you been seeing her for? i
think that whenever you and her become
close and trust each other you will have
no problem. i think it is an issue you
have in relaxing and "letting go" when you
are with her.
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skizzi1234
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 May 2007 Posts: 13 Location: england
Posted: 05-06-07 04:56am
well its liek tht way with any girl i ever
been with i been with this girl for 2
years... i dont know how to relax anymore
lol any ideas or new things to try?
what do u think?
