Joined: 05 May 2007 Posts: 1 Location: Lincoln, NE
Teen Pregnancy Posted: 05-05-07 11:16am
i am 14 years old and i am 2 months
pregnant. i am going to try to hide it
from my mom for as long as possible.i have
prenatal vitamins, but what are some
things i can do without a doctor visit to
keep both me and my baby healthy?
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 05-05-07 11:50am
don't hide it.
the longer you hide it the harder it
gets.
for your health and for your baby you need
to get medical assistance during your
pregnancy.
you need ultrasounds and stuff to make
sure everything is OK.
sure she will be disappointed to begin
with but most parents come round given a
bit of time.
The sooner you tell your mom the sooner
she can help you get stuff sorted out like
doctors visits.
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 05-05-07 12:40pm
it was removed for rude and unhelpful
content.
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Ingi
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Joined: 09 Mar 2006 Posts: 8419 Location: Grinning like a Cheshire Cat,
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Posted: 05-05-07 13:59pm
Sweetie, you need to at least be seen by
a doctor. You need all the support you can
get at this point.
Have you taken a pregnancy test? Are you
sure you are pregnant? Start with planned
parenthood - it is free and they will not
tell your mom! They can help you with your
next steps.
Good luck!
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vanessalouanne
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2005 Posts: 2269 Location: ,
Posted: 05-05-07 15:04pm
Go to planned parenthood ..Everything
between you and the doctor is confidential
and it is against the law for him to tell
your mom anything. I agree with Kia
though..the longer you wait the harder it
will be. The baby isnt going anywhere and
your mom will learn to accept it.. My mom
always told me shed be more hurt if she
felt i couldnt trust her enough to come to
her with it. It may take her some time
but babies are wonderful and you have to
tell her.. Hiding it will only make it
worse and hurt your baby. You need to
start thinking like a mommy now and what
is best for your child.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 05-05-07 15:42pm
Do not try and hide it! I'm 15 and 33
weeks pregnant and believe me it's easier
to tell them sooner rather than later,
your parents will understandably be angry
but it *will* pass. Good luck
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Lauren_Jay15
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2007 Posts: 483 Location: ,
Posted: 05-05-07 17:30pm
Hiya babe, I know you must be scared of
telling your mum, and I think all us teen
mums to be feel that way but like Danni
said, it not as easy to hide as you think.
I'm 15 also and 21 weeks pregnant,
carrying my little girl and trust me the
sooner the better. I'm lucky as I have a
fantastic mum and she is only 35 so she
understood and I know this isn't always
the case with some girls but I know it
would be better to tell your mum soon.
Congratulations on your pregnancy,
carrying your own child is so special and
I'm sure you'll know what I mean in time.
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newmommy1boy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 May 2007 Posts: 14 Location: richmond, va usa
Re: Teen Pregnancy Posted: 05-07-07 12:59pm
iceespyce
wrote:
i am 14 years old and i am 2
months pregnant. i am going to try to hide
it from my mom for as long as possible.i
have prenatal vitamins, but what are some
things i can do without a doctor visit to
keep both me and my baby
healthy?
hi im 16 and i got
pregnant when i was 15 my baby is 4 weeks
old and when i first found out i was
pregnant i didnt tell my mom until i was
like almost 4 months.i would throw up all
the time and try to hide.its really hard
to hide something like that but i really
just didnt know how to tell her.my mom
found a letter one night and it talked
about how i was pregnant.please go to some
kind of clinic that will help u thats what
i did good luck.ever need any advice email
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angrymess
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 May 2007 Posts: 11
Posted: 05-30-07 08:31am
Hey there I was so scared to tell my mom I
didn't want to disappoint her I am
terrified of disappointment. Yet, I did it
anyways. But if you tell her sooner you
can talk to her about all the questions
you have. You can talk to her if your
scared, ya know that way you don't have to
talk to someone your not as comfortable
with. You still can by all means. But some
things are easier to talk about to your
mom. At least in my opinion. you can pm me
if you want.
toodles
lissie
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ANGELOS MAMA
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jul 2006 Posts: 1128 Location: , San Diego,California
Posted: 05-31-07 21:48pm
you needa go to a clinic at least to get
your check ups.cause the needa check up on
your baby.cause they need blood test and
all these other things each month.
the longer you wait,the harder it'll be.i
been through it.im 17 with a 1 year old.
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