Premature Ejaculation Need Help Posted: 05-06-07 18:28pm
Hi im only 17 and i havent had sex yet but
i am worried i may have Premature
ejaculation. Ive had the same girlfriend
for a long time now and we dont have sex
but we like to fool around. whenever she
puts her hand down my pants i ejaculate
usually within 30 seconds. This cant be
good and i really wish i knew how to fix
this. Will i eventually grow out of this
or will i need some help? any help you can
give me will be highly apreciated.
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paul995
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Apr 2007 Posts: 140 Location: ,
Posted: 05-12-07 00:05am
do you actually ejaculate, like you reach
orgasm for 30 seconds?
Or do you just feel like your penis
secretes a clear fluid when she touces
you? If it is, then it is pretty norma.
It's called pre-cum. It usually happens
when you're really hot. It comes from the
cowper's gland. The clear fluid actually
can help lubricate the woman if you enter.
However, this may contain some sperm as
well.
Now, if you reach orgasm by just touching
you down there for evn less than a minute,
then there's a problem . . .
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 05-18-07 12:08pm
Not necessarily a problem. You're young
and inexperienced so you will cum faster
in general. Use other techniques such as
by hand or mouth to please your partner in
the meantime. Try not to worry about it,
and talk to your partner about it so that
you don't keep it bottled up keeping you
nervous long after you should have begun
to feel comfortable having sex with her.