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rissalee21

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Joined: 01 Feb 2004
Posts: 526
Location: michigan
Not So Good News!
Posted: 02-22-04 06:44am

Well guys sad enough to say me and win had a veryyy big argumen this morning and we broke up for good this time..Yea im really really upset but im trying to keep it together and not get all stressed for the babies sake..But my heart is reallyyyy broken and it hurts! Tears are just pouring down my face! The fight was about him playing games and I came to him and siad I didnt like how he acted if my best friend was around me he was rude and he got all bent out of shape..And he got mad when I told him friend (whos a girl) we were together so we got into a huge fight and we broke up beacsue he handles sh** like a baby! Well I guess thats what he wanted so I cant change it..I guess it must have been for the better but man o man u guys I dont even kno what to say all I wanna do is lay in my bed n not wake up..Things have just been goin sonwrong lately nad this just added on to it..I really dont kno how much more I can handle:( andy one tlak to me and give me some advice..Love ya all!


Marisa:(
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sparklypixie12

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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099

Posted: 02-22-04 08:53am

Im sorry to hear that marissa and I understand that you must be hurting but please try not to get too stressed for your babies sake.I dont know how long you were with ur guy but its gonna take you time to 'get over him' and this wont happen over night.You need to think of that little baby and be strong for it and although things arent looking good now,it wont be long before (im not sure how many months/weeks u r) you have that precious little baby and you'll be too busy and happy to think of anything else.
I hope you are ok and we're all here for u
liz x
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rissalee21

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Joined: 01 Feb 2004
Posts: 526
Location: michigan

Posted: 02-22-04 09:24am

Yea we have been friends for a longggg time but we havent been together that long..Im not even in my second trimester yet..But yea I dont need to be stressed out..He called me like 10 min ago and goes marisa I cant stand when you go off on me like that but I love you and I keep coming back hes like your lucky your pregnant and its them damn mood swings..Lol..But I dun kno what to do..Should I go back stay ith him what?

Marisa

thanks liz:)
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smith8500

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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 02-22-04 11:03am

Awww rissa,
i totally understand and you know that! We'll talk on-line!
Love,
chanda
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sparklypixie12

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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099

Posted: 02-22-04 17:17pm

If you love him & want to be with him then go back with him! Im sure things r tough with those hormones around and u will need time when u want to be on your own but b honest with him and tell him how u feel.Talk things out and go from there
hope things work out
liz x
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Mesmerizeu15

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Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA

Posted: 02-22-04 17:59pm

I dont understand, did you cheat on him with a girl? Or did he cheat on you with another girl? I think that you should get back with him if you guys think that you can work through it. Larry and I have had our share of "games" its hard, but you can do it if you try!!
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CAMAROGIRL42482

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Feb 2004
Posts: 98
Location: FENTON

Posted: 02-22-04 19:23pm

It will all be ok, just hang in there. Me and my boyfriend fight alot, and he tells me to move out, and he can't stand me and that this time its over for good. Then eventually he cools off and comes back and tells me he is sorry. Try not to stress about it and I know its easier said than done. But it will all work out for the better.
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Jaydensmommy

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Joined: 28 Jan 2004
Posts: 1684
Location: Wisconsin

Posted: 02-23-04 02:01am

Awww marisa!!!!!! I feel so bad hun! You know that you can come and talk to me if you need anything at all!! I can give you my phone number and you can call me any time day or night!! Just remember your a beautiful girl and you have a beautiful baby on the way and you don't need anyone but you and that baby right now!

~sara~
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rissalee21

Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2004
Posts: 526
Location: michigan

Posted: 02-23-04 07:12am

Thanks guys alot it really menas something to kno pppl are there beacsue right now I feel so empty:(

marisa
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Mesmerizeu15

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Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA

Posted: 02-23-04 08:41am

Marissa I understand how you could feel empty, but dont mess up the rest of your life and miss out on the good times for a man. I hate to see women all curled up in a ball when they loose a man, but dont mistake it because ill be the first one to fall back and do it myself. I am hoping that this all works out I am on yahoo if you wanna talk!!
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insurancegirl

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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286

Posted: 02-23-04 12:54pm

Arrow


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hearenbaby8504

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
Posts: 197
Location: Cinn. Ohio
Hey Marissa
Posted: 02-23-04 12:59pm

I know ecxactly what you are going through and I just want to say it will get better. I m still doing this alone, have been since the beggining. Just think about how precious your baby is to you. I promise when you go see him/her you will smile and wont stop smiling. I just want you to know I am here for you and if you ever need to talk just e-mail me. Heare nbaby8504@aol.Com
lots of love,
heather
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