I needed someone to talk to and found this
site and thought id see if anyone would
talk back.
Last Saturday i had to tell my boyfriend
of 5 and a half years i had cheated on
him, due to him thinking he had Chlamedia
and he was very confused as to how he
could of got it and swore he had not
cheated on me and said we both needed to
get tested. So if the results came back
positive he would know ive cheated so he
confronted me beforehand.
I cheated on him with an ex of mine about
8 months ago. The worse thing is my bf
spoke to him as a mate now and again.
My bf split with me and i have done
nothing but cry everyday. After a few days
he started talking to me as we live
together and i had to keep coming home to
get some stuff. But he could not be round
me longer than a few hours or he would
start asking questions as to why i done it
and start arguing with me.
I went to London for a few days to get
away but before i went he text me saying
he didnt want me to go.
I loved him so much and i honestly dont
know why i cheated on him which is the
confusing part, so when he asks me why i
cant answer his question. I have been
begging for his forgivness and he says he
really wishes i didnt do it as he loved me
so much and wishes it was a bad dream,
although he cannot forgive me as he will
be picturing it all the time when he is
with me.
This has been such a big mistake in my
life and it is getting me down really
bad.
He went out last night and came back and
said everyone was talking about me in the
pub and some people want to hit me and hes
just warning me. I feel like everyone has
turned against me and ive lost a long term
bf and a lovely life that i feel theres
not much point in living as i have nothing
to live for!!!
I know its hard for him to forgive me but
surely some people can pull through things
like this? hes more upset that i lied to
him for so long and he says im not the
person he thought i was as he misplaced
his love with me.
PLEASE HELP
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louieann34
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Mar 2007 Posts: 95 Location: Philippines
Posted: 05-17-07 10:08am
Hi Kimmie,
If you did that to your Boyfriend, it only
means that you are only human and that
everybody made mistakes.. But you cannot
take the fact that the damage is already
done and all you need to do now is to
sincerely ask your Boyfriend for
forgiveness... He might not forgive you
today but time will heal the wounds that
he will surely forgive you someday... Just
don’t give up and pray for guidance.
And if your boyfriend still loves you, he
will face this problem and keep your
relationship... But if and only if, you
lose him... You have to accept it... I
know it hurts so much to lose someone that
we love, but we should also respect there
decision... Just be prepared for whatever
might happen... Just don’t think
negative things... Trust God for this.
If you need some help, just post it here
or send me a message here.... I am very
welling to help you.
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