Joined: 05 May 2007 Posts: 12 Location: Somewhere over the rainbow
Did I Break Him? Posted: 05-08-07 22:01pm
I know he's not broken, but it might be me
who knows. *shrug*
Everytime my boyfriend and I would have
sex he couldn't experience an orgasm, then
when he would masterbate he did! I was
just wondering maybe if it was me, or
maybe it was because he was just used to
his own actions? Maybe I just don't cut it
with him? Any ideas?
Thanks!
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 05-08-07 22:32pm
That's common. It's often due to being
nervous. Other times it's because the guy
is used to doing it himself and isn't used
to the feeling of being with someone else.
It's usually just temporary and can be
worked through easily enough with honesty
and communication.
Some guys really have trouble with it due
to various fears and insecurities. Then
when he can't orgasm with his partner,
it's like it's reinforcing those fears and
insecurities. Therapy is often the best
bet when it gets to that point.
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critical care RN
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Feb 2007 Posts: 92
Posted: 05-08-07 22:36pm
I agree with Llewellyn.
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gemini87
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2007 Posts: 12 Location: Somewhere over the rainbow
Posted: 05-08-07 23:30pm
Oh, I see ... Hmm, well he's pretty put
off too, so maybe I'll run this by him.
He's been trying to think of everything
that could be wrong, but I don't think he
thought of this.
Thanks a lot guys!
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Jester27
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Jan 2007 Posts: 27
Re: Did I Break Him? Posted: 05-15-07 22:35pm
gemini87
wrote:
I know he's not broken, but
it might be me who knows. *shrug*
Everytime my boyfriend and I would have
sex he couldn't experience an orgasm, then
when he would masterbate he did! I was
just wondering maybe if it was me, or
maybe it was because he was just used to
his own actions? Maybe I just don't cut it
with him? Any ideas?
Thanks!
Maybe hes nervous. Tell
him to wack off till he about to sperm.
Then wait like 30 seconds.. Then tell him
to insert his penis in ur vagina. Then let
him medical question u. and then see if he
comes.
sorry if i used bad lanuage. not sure what
words to use lol. ><
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