Hi there... me and my wife have been
trying to conceive since 10 months.. she
got pregnant 12 months ago but miscarried
at the 5th week. After that we have been
trying hard ... starting at day 7 after
mensuration .. but to no avail ..
Is it true that the fact that she got
pregnant the first time, indicates that we
have no issues conceiving and it's just we
havent been hitting the right numbers in
probability ?
is it true that miscarraige will not
affect future conception at all ?
Thanks!!!!
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GFG
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Joined: 14 May 2007 Posts: 4 Location: Singapore
Posted: 05-14-07 00:42am
BTW we've been pretty cautious about food
and what we take .. been on all the
vitamin regime you can think of .. folate
and the likes ..
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 05-14-07 08:25am
Miscarriage should not effect you future
chances of pregnancy. Were you told of a
cause of the miscarriage?
Does your wife chart her temps? That is
always a good place to start!
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GFG
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Joined: 14 May 2007 Posts: 4 Location: Singapore
Posted: 05-14-07 22:11pm
We are not sure why she miscarried ... the
docs are not affirmative but said that the
embryo did not form...
she hasnt been charting but we will do so
..thanks for the advice!
try www.fertilityfriend.com its pretty easy and simple and helps you
keep track of when the best times too try
and bd.
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GFG
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 May 2007 Posts: 4 Location: Singapore
Posted: 05-14-07 22:34pm
Thanks BabyAndy!
That is a wonderful site ...
we will try harder ... i was reading
somewhere that it's a numbers game and the
odds are low... as in first we need to get
the egg at the right 24 hrs time frame
...and once we get the sperm to the egg
there is only a 30% chance of
fertilization happening ... two major
stumbling blocks ...
Oh well ... it really hurts to see my wife
crying when her mensus comes every single
month ...
GFG, I definately know what you and your
wife are going through. Its so hard when
you are so ready for a baby in your
lives.
If your sperm count in normal, then bd'in
every day is ok, otherwise every other day
is recomended. Your sperm can last up to
5days in search of the egg, so the more
the merrier.
Keep trying, best of luck to you and keep
us posted.
