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aburris87

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Still Bleeding After Sex...3 Days Later, What Is Up?
Posted: 05-14-07 11:12am

ok, ive had sex before, 2 times, with the same guy, his "package" was not very big at all, so when we had sex it didnt hurt, i didnt even bleed, i guess he never "popped my cherry" so anyways, thursday night, like 3 days ago, i had sex with a different guy for the 3rd time in my life and his "package" was quite LARGE, it hurt this time, not horribly, but it hurt, so anyways the next morning when i wiped there was blood, i didnt think anything of it because my sister always told i would bleed a little when it happened, but now its 3 days later and theres still a little blood when i wipe!! not alot, just a little here and there, and i was sore a little too, is there something wrong here? should i still be spotting this many days later?
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Llewellyn

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Posted: 05-14-07 11:37am

"Popping your cherry" means doing something for the first time. It has also been used to mean breaking a girl's hymen, although I hate that usage because it is usually incorrect and misleading. Most girls tear their hymens long before they ever have sex, so the fact that you didn't bleed your first time does not mean anything. Most people do not bleed their first time having sex. There is also usually little or no blood when the hymen tears, so many girls don't know when it happened. If you have ever had a finger or tampon in your vagina, chances are your hymen was already torn.

My guess would be that you were not lubricated enough and had a little tearing. Lack of lubrication is the most common reason for pain during sex. It can also cause quite a bit of bleeding since the inside of the vagina is made up of such sensitive tissue. It'll probably heal on its own in a few days. You can go to the ob-gyn then just to make everything looks ok and is healing fine.

You also might have been a bit tense or nervous. That's the second most common cause of pain during sex. Being nervous makes your muscles clench tight. That can make sex or even pap smears hurt.

It sounds like your sister is probably not the best person to be getting that kind of information from (no offense). Check out these sites: http://www.coolnurse .com/sex_faqs_index.htm
http://www.coolnurse.com/hyme n.htm
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Re: Still Bleeding After Sex...3 Days Later, What Is Up?
Posted: 05-14-07 11:43am

aburris87 wrote:
ok, ive had sex before, 2 times, with the same guy, his "package" was not very big at all, so when we had sex it didnt hurt, i didnt even bleed, i guess he never "popped my cherry" so anyways, thursday night, like 3 days ago, i had sex with a different guy for the 3rd time in my life and his "package" was quite LARGE, it hurt this time, not horribly, but it hurt, so anyways the next morning when i wiped there was blood, i didnt think anything of it because my sister always told i would bleed a little when it happened, but now its 3 days later and theres still a little blood when i wipe!! not alot, just a little here and there, and i was sore a little too, is there something wrong here? should i still be spotting this many days later?

Yes it is normal.. Any way it was with me I spoted a little here and there for about 5 days. Don't worry unless it starts to bleeed harder and doesn't go away after a week. I'm sure you have nothing to worry about.
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Posted: 05-14-07 14:42pm

MY "hymen" was a string that went across the entrance to my vagina, so it normally just slid out of the way during sex; however I definately wasn't a virgin just because it was still there!! (lost of sex with my bf/now fiancee!)

It finally got caught and broke months later, and thankfully we were in the shower cause there was a lot of blood 0.o Ow. I spotted for about a day and then I was fine ^^
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Meggy Leigh

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Posted: 05-16-07 22:57pm

Eiri wrote:
MY "hymen" was a string that went across the entrance to my vagina, so it normally just slid out of the way during sex; however I definately wasn't a virgin just because it was still there!! (lost of sex with my bf/now fiancee!)

It finally got caught and broke months later, and thankfully we were in the shower cause there was a lot of blood 0.o Ow. I spotted for about a day and then I was fine ^^


Mine's the same way....just a small string. But i need to know, did it hurt alot when it finally broke. *blush* Sad I'm worried, and i just need to know.
-thx-
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Re: Need to Know!!!
Posted: 05-16-07 23:13pm

Meggy Leigh wrote:
Eiri wrote:
MY "hymen" was a string that went across the entrance to my vagina, so it normally just slid out of the way during sex; however I definately wasn't a virgin just because it was still there!! (lost of sex with my bf/now fiancee!)

It finally got caught and broke months later, and thankfully we were in the shower cause there was a lot of blood 0.o Ow. I spotted for about a day and then I was fine ^^


Mine's the same way....just a small string. But i need to know, did it hurt alot when it finally broke. *blush* Sad I'm worried, and i just need to know.
-thx-


it did hurt. Before it broke, if it got caught it hurt a lot, and I'd have to reposition during sex. So one time in the shower, I felt it catch (ow as usual), but when he thrusted again I didn't feel it catch and assumed it had slipped off. Turns out it had broken!
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