Joined: 24 Apr 2007 Posts: 9 Location: Freeport, IL
Still Bleeding After Sex...3 Days Later, What Is Up? Posted: 05-14-07 11:12am
ok, ive had sex before, 2 times, with the
same guy, his "package" was not very big
at all, so when we had sex it didnt hurt,
i didnt even bleed, i guess he never
"popped my cherry" so anyways, thursday
night, like 3 days ago, i had sex with a
different guy for the 3rd time in my life
and his "package" was quite LARGE, it hurt
this time, not horribly, but it hurt, so
anyways the next morning when i wiped
there was blood, i didnt think anything of
it because my sister always told i would
bleed a little when it happened, but now
its 3 days later and theres still a little
blood when i wipe!! not alot, just a
little here and there, and i was sore a
little too, is there something wrong here?
should i still be spotting this many days
later?
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 05-14-07 11:37am
"Popping your cherry" means doing
something for the first time. It has also
been used to mean breaking a girl's hymen,
although I hate that usage because it is
usually incorrect and misleading. Most
girls tear their hymens long before they
ever have sex, so the fact that you didn't
bleed your first time does not mean
anything. Most people do not bleed their
first time having sex. There is also
usually little or no blood when the hymen
tears, so many girls don't know when it
happened. If you have ever had a finger
or tampon in your vagina, chances are your
hymen was already torn.
My guess would be that you were not
lubricated enough and had a little
tearing. Lack of lubrication is the most
common reason for pain during sex. It can
also cause quite a bit of bleeding since
the inside of the vagina is made up of
such sensitive tissue. It'll probably
heal on its own in a few days. You can go
to the ob-gyn then just to make everything
looks ok and is healing fine.
You also might have been a bit tense or
nervous. That's the second most common
cause of pain during sex. Being nervous
makes your muscles clench tight. That can
make sex or even pap smears hurt.
Re: Still Bleeding After Sex...3 Days Later, What Is Up? Posted: 05-14-07 11:43am
aburris87
wrote:
ok, ive had sex before, 2
times, with the same guy, his "package"
was not very big at all, so when we had
sex it didnt hurt, i didnt even bleed, i
guess he never "popped my cherry" so
anyways, thursday night, like 3 days ago,
i had sex with a different guy for the 3rd
time in my life and his "package" was
quite LARGE, it hurt this time, not
horribly, but it hurt, so anyways the next
morning when i wiped there was blood, i
didnt think anything of it because my
sister always told i would bleed a little
when it happened, but now its 3 days later
and theres still a little blood when i
wipe!! not alot, just a little here and
there, and i was sore a little too, is
there something wrong here? should i still
be spotting this many days
later?
Yes it is normal.. Any way it was with me
I spoted a little here and there for about
5 days. Don't worry unless it starts to
bleeed harder and doesn't go away after a
week. I'm sure you have nothing to worry
about.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-14-07 14:42pm
MY "hymen" was a string that went across
the entrance to my vagina, so it normally
just slid out of the way during sex;
however I definately wasn't a virgin just
because it was still there!! (lost of sex
with my bf/now fiancee!)
It finally got caught and broke months
later, and thankfully we were in the
shower cause there was a lot of blood 0.o
Ow. I spotted for about a day and then I
was fine ^^
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Meggy Leigh
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 May 2007 Posts: 10 Location: Ottawa, ON Canada
Need to Know!!! Posted: 05-16-07 22:57pm
Eiri
wrote:
MY "hymen" was a string that
went across the entrance to my vagina, so
it normally just slid out of the way
during sex; however I definately wasn't a
virgin just because it was still there!!
(lost of sex with my bf/now fiancee!)
It finally got caught and broke months
later, and thankfully we were in the
shower cause there was a lot of blood 0.o
Ow. I spotted for about a day and then I
was fine ^^
Mine's the same way....just a small
string. But i need to know, did it hurt
alot when it finally broke. *blush* I'm worried, and i
just need to know.
-thx-
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Tylanas
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Re: Need to Know!!! Posted: 05-16-07 23:13pm
Meggy Leigh
wrote:
Eiri
wrote:
MY "hymen" was a string that
went across the entrance to my vagina, so
it normally just slid out of the way
during sex; however I definately wasn't a
virgin just because it was still there!!
(lost of sex with my bf/now fiancee!)
It finally got caught and broke months
later, and thankfully we were in the
shower cause there was a lot of blood 0.o
Ow. I spotted for about a day and then I
was fine ^^
Mine's the same way....just a small
string. But i need to know, did it hurt
alot when it finally broke. *blush* I'm worried, and i
just need to know.
-thx-
it did hurt. Before it broke, if it got
caught it hurt a lot, and I'd have to
reposition during sex. So one time in the
shower, I felt it catch (ow as usual), but
when he thrusted again I didn't feel it
catch and assumed it had slipped off.
Turns out it had broken!