Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
I Need Advice! Badly!!! Posted: 02-23-04 18:38pm
Ok. You guys remember my dilemma I was
having between camerin and dewitt? Well
my friend chris came home and called me
today saying that him and camerin had been
talking in math. And he said that camerin
said there is a chance that josh is his
and he hopes he is. I know that it's not
even possible that josh is his so I am
wondering if he is just saying this or if
he really thinks he is. My friend chris
has never lied to me about anything and I
really think he would not lie to me about
something this serious. Any advice???
Omg now I am on the phone with chris and
he is saying that he remembers how in love
me and camerin were and that he thinks
that I should talk to him and maybe give
him another chance because he said the
look on his camerin's face when he was
talking to him was just unbelievably
sincere. I swear I think this guy is
going to kill me with stress. It really
would have been nice if he had spoken up
before I developed feeling for dewitt and
began the process of moving on. I just
don't understand why he would hope josh is
his? He knows that it's not his son. Oh
jeez. I really need some help here on
what to do. I really really really wanna
act like it never happened and it was
never said and that I don't have some
feelings for him still but I do and when
he does stuff like this it makes it very
hard to suppress those feelings. I mean I
do love dewitt but you know yo never
forget your first love and all that. And
I can't help but think I love him because
I feel obligated too. Sorry to bring all
this to the surface but I am a mess when
it comes to stuff like this. Chris is
saying that he thinks I really need to sit
down and have a serious talk with camerin
before josh is born. That's 27 days
away-ish. And I can't help but feel like
chris is pressing camerin on me like he
knows something I don't. He keeps saying
stuff like well what is dewitt doesn't
live up to everything he says he is going
to do? You know he's going to college in
the fall blah blah blah (as if I hadn't
had these thoughts on my own already) and
ahhhhhhhhh I hate it when people get my
negative thoughts rolling. Any one have
any suggestions? I just don't know what
to do anymore.
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 02-23-04 19:57pm
I could really use some advice right
now.....Before I do something stupid! Now
my friend chris is telling me that he
likes me! Ugh! God.....Im going to
puke......Somebody help.
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
Posted: 02-23-04 20:12pm
Stop talking to them if its stressing you
out so bad.
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allusivepond
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 452
Posted: 02-23-04 20:16pm
Im confused who is the father
of this baby who are u with now and wot
would u like to do.
If I was u I would go to a quiet place and
think about wot is best for me and for
this baby and then u might be in a
position to better evaluate all the things
going on in ur life.
From someone who cant wait to have a
jellybean all of their own
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 02-24-04 09:24am
Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-07-04 13:18pm; edited 1 time in total
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 02-24-04 09:29am
Im confused!!
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 02-24-04 10:49am
Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-07-04 13:18pm; edited 1 time in total
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 02-24-04 12:31pm
Yes I know josh is 100% dewitt's because
camerin and I hadn't been together for
like, a month and a half b4 I left to go
to kentucky. Lol to allusivepond, camerin
is an ex, dewitt is the father and i'm not
sure what I wanna do anymore! Lol. I'm
trying not to stress it though. I do have
my worries about dewitt going to college
so far away (u know college boys, I know
dewitt ) your right jen,
in some ways camerin and I are a lot
closer but in other ways dewitt and I are
closer. We talk about things that camerin
and I never did, but sometimes I miss that
heat that camerin and I had. Because
obviously, although I love dewitt, we
don't have that. But I talked to my mom
about all of it, and I think I will take
her advice. She says to just wait and
see what happens with both of them over
the next few months, see if dewitt gets to
college and decides he wants to be here
and if he is going to do all the things he
says he is. But yeah like she said I
should just see what happens like if
things with dewitt ever blew up in my face
and camerin was still there she said she
would slap me silly for not jumping the
chance. Lol. So I think I am going to
have a talk with camerin and let him know
this and we'll just see where it all goes
because I can't be stressin. Lol. Thanks
guys for advice. I'm sure i'll need more
concerning this issue. Lol.
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who is the father
of this baby who are u with now and wot
would u like to do.
