HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-17-07 19:14pm
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i've had a horrible night/day. i came home
from nebraska last night and i've done
nothing but cry since... i'm not happy
when im at home.
i don't know what to do. i can't even
count how many times i've cried since i've
been home and it hasn't even been 24
hours. i was in a great mood yesterday and
then i was with my mom and grandma for
like an hour and i was already in a bad
mood with a bad attitude, just like i was
when i left on sunday.
i know teenagers hate living at home and
yada yada yada 
i know it's typical, i don't know what the
deal is.
i've been saying for the last few weeks
that i want to stick it out at home and go
back to regular school next year so i can
do all the fun senior things and then
graduate and then be with tommy, but i got
to thinking today that this isn't where i
want to be and im so sad here.. that i
don't know if im just saying that to make
myself feel better because thats what
you're supposed to do, or if i
really want to stay in the school im at
and get done early so i can be with tommy
asap.
i've been talking to my mom about the
future and what she "thinks" im going to
do. i told her that i plan on living with
tommy when i graduate from highschool, she
said she doesn't like the idea but there's
nothing she can do to stop me. i also
asked her what she thought of me moving to
florida while he waits for his lease to be
up (from may to august) she doesn't like
the idea, she says she doesn't think i
need to move so far away from her.
I am not trying to move far away
from her, i don't think she gets that
 its
not like i want to be far away from her, i
don't know where tommys job is going to
take him!!!
im just sad today, i don't want to be
here, i wish july would hurry up and get
here, but i know when that vacation is
over i'll be feeling even worse when i get
back home lol
sorry for the rant, you dont have to
respond because pretty much everything i
said is pointless anyway.
but on a better note, i think i smell
spaghetti for dinner 
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 05-17-07 20:24pm
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I'm sorry .terra  that sounds really
hard. If you continued at the alternative
school for senior year, how much faster
would you graduate?
*edited because I can't spell *
Last edited by AyaMiyaki on 05-17-07 20:32pm; edited 1 time in total
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Posted: 05-17-07 20:30pm
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my opinion: finish school early, youve
been unhappy there for a while and with
good reason. then move to FL, its not for
that long and it would be a good trial for
you and tommy to see how yall work living
together. And another + youll be and FL
and we can hang out  hugs and
love terra
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-17-07 20:32pm
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i'd be done in exactly half the time, but
then i'd have to somehow start college
classes or else child support would be
gone and i can't let that happen I
guess lol
so i might as well go back to regular
school.
i really want to make the best of it, i
want to enjoy my senior year and be a kid
while i have the chance because i know
when i get out into the real world i'm
going to have to worry about money and all
of that great stuff, i'm not some nieve
(sp) teenager who thinks it's going to be
all fun and easy, i know it won't be, so
im trying to be patient and just wait.
it's just hard. especially on days like
this that i'm lonely and all i want to do
is be with him instead of home alone.
edit for dani: thanks dani i wish i could do
that, but i don't want to leave home on
bad terms with my mom. she doesn't want me
to move that far away which i completely
understand, im her baby..
i don't know. I personally think she
should just let me go in december when i
get done early because i could save more
moey that way and be happier, instead of
making me wait until may.. just a few
months after that lol but i dont know. its
a big mess
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 05-17-07 20:34pm
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Child support stops if you graduate early?
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-17-07 20:38pm
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no but my mom said it stops if i don't go
to college right away, i can't take any
breaks before i start lol or else he
doesn't have to pay.
and we don't want him to get off the hook
that easy because he is an problem with
paying in the first place. i should go to
school to be a doctor and make him pay for
a lonnnnnnnnnnnnng time hahaha
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Posted: 05-17-07 20:53pm
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Hang in there .Terra. Just follow your
instincts, you are a very smart girl, so
do what you feel will be best for you. You
never know until you try. The more you
dread being at home and the more you dread
not having the things you want, the harder
it will seem and the longer it will take.
Just stay positive and get through school
whichever way works the best, make the
most of it and you'll be where you wanna
be before you know it. Keep your eye on
the ball, stay focused and visualize what
you want, ask for what you want and if its
true for you, it will happen for you
Sounds easy, but it takes work..even I
should be following my own advise.
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Posted: 05-17-07 20:55pm
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| HcoBrunette06
wrote: | no but my mom said it stops
if i don't go to college right away, i
can't take any breaks before i start lol
or else he doesn't have to pay.
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is your mom trying to trick you into going
to college right away? lol, i've just
never heard that before. then again i know
nothing about child support.
you definitely need to do what you think
will make *you* happy. i don't really have
much more to say than that because it
sounds like such a tough personal choice.
if it were me, i'd finish early and go be
with my love. i'm impulsive though and i
live in the now and don't put much thought
into the future.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-17-07 20:55pm
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| ShiningShannon
wrote: | Hang in there .Terra. Just
follow your instincts, you are a very
smart girl, so do what you feel will be
best for you. You never know until you
try. The more you dread being at home and
the more you dread not having the things
you want, the harder it will seem and the
longer it will take. Just stay positive
and get through school whichever way works
the best, make the most of it and you'll
be where you wanna be before you know it.
Keep your eye on the ball, stay focused
and visualize what you want, ask for what
you want and if its true for you, it will
happen for you
Sounds easy, but it takes work..even I
should be following my own
advise. |
you're right i've been telling
myself this for a few weeks but today i
just got knocked on my butt  maybe once i start
real school with my friends again itll be
better
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Posted: 05-17-07 21:01pm
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i felt the same way at 16.but i ended up
living at home on and off til 24.
my husband child support is that he has to
pay til she is 18 and after that if she
goes to college
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
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Posted: 05-17-07 21:03pm
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aww terra im so sorry you are sad. its
been one of those days for me as well i
hope all is ok for you know hugs and
kisses.
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ShiningShannon
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Posted: 05-17-07 21:05pm
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Yeah, I think once you are around your
friends and people who are going to
support you and be there for you it wont
seem so bad. Personally I went to an
alternative school for the last two years,
I liked it but I do still wish I would
have stayed in regular high school with
all my friends, especially for senior
year. I just wasnt a very good student and
I wish I knew the what I know now( as
cliche as that sounds) hahaha. I also
thing being around your friends and what
not and just having a memorable last year
will make it go by faster. I totally
understand the other side too about
wanting to be with your man as soo as you
can, I would want that too. Just take it
as it comes, and remember the final result
and how you will feel.
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Posted: 05-17-07 21:48pm
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terra brean, you are amazing & you
deserve to be happy. & i think you
would be happier out of your house. i
consider you a best friend & i feel
like i know you pretty damn well. but i
think you know in your heart what you want
to do. & i trust that you'll go with
what feels right.
i love you!
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-17-07 22:15pm
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aw, krissy, that was so nice.
i love you! thanks for that
tommy's home now and im feeling
sooooooo much better, i haven't
cried since he got home lol
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Posted: 05-17-07 22:23pm
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ohh phone sex all night go terra
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-17-07 22:33pm
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hahaha yeah right!
we haven't ever had phone sex, we've done
stuff while being on the phone with each
other but i don't consider it phone sex...
i don't know how to have phone sex lol
tell each other what you would do? see, no
lol
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Posted: 05-18-07 06:45am
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| chase4
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my husband child support is that he has to
pay til she is 18 and after that if she
goes to
college |
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Posted: 05-18-07 08:00am
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| ~*~Melissa~*~
wrote: | | chase4
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my husband child support is that he has to
pay til she is 18 and after that if she
goes to
college |
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Yep, But I Think it is only to a cerian
age (like 25) unless specified in the
child support papers.
Terra, I think that you will know what is
best for you when the time comes. Don't
let your mom make you feel quilty for
wanting to go out on your own. We all have
to spread our wings eventually.
Just make sure you get your diploma.
Without it, it will be nearly impossible
for you to find a decent paying job here.
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Posted: 05-18-07 09:03am
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| chase4
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my husband child support is that he has to
pay til she is 18 and after that if she
goes to
college |
My husband's is the same way. If his
daughter does go to college, child support
stops at her graduation or when she turns
24...whichever comes first.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-18-07 19:10pm
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yep thats how it is tooooo
and yeah im not going to let her make me
feel bad, i know she's not trying to but
im not oging to let it effect my decisions
i won't be staying in florida though, at
least i highly doubt i will be  we'll only be there
until august, and then we'll be moving to
either la (ew) or austin texas. (probably)
i want to be a texas girl  i
loooooooooooooooooove love love texas
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