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*Vanessa*

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Orgasm During Sex
Posted: 05-18-07 01:59am

Has anyone orgasm'd during sex? i have not and it annoys me, lol. It makes me want to pee, then i try to relax but i freak out im going to wet myself lol, sorry if i offended anyone but is this weird/ normal or has anyone else ever had this, or does anyone know what im doiong wrong?
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Tylanas

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Posted: 05-18-07 10:27am

I know the feeling; that's the way to a vaginal orgasm but I've never had one either. However, I have had plenty of clitoral orgasms during sex Smile

That is a totally normal feeling to be having; and yes, relaxing is the thing to do. I can't give any more advice beyond that since I've never vaginally orgasmed myself.
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Llewellyn

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Posted: 05-18-07 11:49am

I have clitoral orgasms during sex. Don't feel weird if you don't though. Most women do not orgasm during sex.
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uniteen

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Posted: 05-20-07 00:50am

Llewellyn wrote:
I have clitoral orgasms during sex. Don't feel weird if you don't though. Most women do not orgasm during sex.

is there a difference between clitoral orgasm and normal orgasm?
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Llewellyn

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Posted: 05-20-07 01:04am

uniteen wrote:
Llewellyn wrote:
I have clitoral orgasms during sex. Don't feel weird if you don't though. Most women do not orgasm during sex.

is there a difference between clitoral orgasm and normal orgasm?


Clitoral orgasms are what most women have. Some women claim to have vaginal orgasms, although some people think vaginal orgasms are just a myth. Vaginal orgasms are orgasms during sex, as opposed to orgasms from direct clitoral stimulation. There are many theories about it. Some people believe clitoral and vaginal orgasms are really the same thing because sometimes the clitoris is stimulated during sex.

I orgasm often during sex without using my hands or anything to stimulate my clitoris. It is stimulated just from the motions of sex.
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*Vanessa*

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Posted: 05-20-07 01:08am

i wish i could enjoy sex so much to have an orgasm over it, is it the acctual penis that makes you orgasm during sex? or is it just the motion? or whats the deal with the g-spot, is that the thing that makes u wanna pee lol? sorry if i invaded your privacy, you dont have to answer
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Llewellyn

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Posted: 05-20-07 01:19am

*Vanessa* wrote:
i wish i could enjoy sex so much to have an orgasm over it, is it the acctual penis that makes you orgasm during sex? or is it just the motion? or whats the deal with the g-spot, is that the thing that makes u wanna pee lol? sorry if i invaded your privacy, you dont have to answer


It's not the penis that makes me orgasm, so it is true that size does not matter in that regard. Laughing It's more the motion itself. Basically, if the man does a sort of rubbing back and forth instead of just an in and out motion, the area just above his penis rubs my clitoris. So there are some positions that I cannot orgasm in because nothing is rubbing me, but if we are in missionary or if I am on top, then I can orgasm easily.

As far as the whole g-spot thing, I don't notice anything in there. People can poke all around inside my vagina, but one spot feels no different than the next. Laughing It's only the clitoral stimulation that gets me there.
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*Vanessa*

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Posted: 05-20-07 01:29am

So the pee feeling affect, should i relax and let i happen or what? what if i relax and acctually pee lol, how embaressing lol
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Llewellyn

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Posted: 05-20-07 01:38am

*Vanessa* wrote:
So the pee feeling affect, should i relax and let i happen or what? what if i relax and acctually pee lol, how embaressing lol


I don't know. People often talk about the pee feeling in relation to g-spot stimulation as opposed to clitoral stimulation. So I don't really get the pee feeling as much. When I do get it, I assume it is just pressure on my bladder, so I don't let it out. Laughing So I don't let the pee go, but I still have orgasms. If you're comfortable with trying it, you could have sex in the bathtub, or on a tile floor, or somewhere else that could easily be cleaned. You could be one of the few women who has vaginal orgasms and ejaculates. Smile
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*Vanessa*

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Posted: 05-20-07 02:06am

really, lol a squirter i think they call it, i think i will use a vibrator or somthing that's like a penis and try it out before sex, just so i know what is going on, sound better? lol, thanks for the advice, i didnt realise i had so many questions bout sex i cant even remember what i asked in the first place lol.
how old are you or do you have any children if udont mind me asking?
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Llewellyn

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Posted: 05-20-07 15:24pm

*Vanessa* wrote:
really, lol a squirter i think they call it, i think i will use a vibrator or somthing that's like a penis and try it out before sex, just so i know what is going on, sound better?


I think that's a great idea. Smile

*Vanessa* wrote:
lol, thanks for the advice, i didnt realise i had so many questions bout sex i cant even remember what i asked in the first place lol.
how old are you or do you have any children if udont mind me asking?


I don't mind at all. I am 23. No babies yet.
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