New Neighbor In Town And I Am Really Liking Him But Need Hel

Sounds like it's time to put your feelings aside for a few moments and "woman up"...ask him if he'd like to go out sometime. I know the fear of rejection and all that plays into it, but it beats "wondering" all the time, right?

Yep, Put your Big Girl panties on and go ask the boy to go out. If you sit around waiting on him, you may miss the boat entirely..If you get rejected, then you already know how he feels. If you really like this guy, and it seems you have your face pressed to the window pane for him, call him and invite him to go somewhere with you..............Good Luck Girlfriend!

sine everyone it seems is saying to just ask him, how could I casually ask him and not have my parents around to do so? Im not sure if I could jsut walk up to his house some time and just ask him blankly like that. Are there any unique ways of doing it?????

I understand the situation is difficult with the parents and everything. But yea if I were you I would walk over there and ask him to take you for a ride. After that happens let him know you enjoy his company and would like to get to know him better by going out sometime. I am shy too but you just gotta let him know you are into him.

so do i just walk over there with no rhyme or reason. just go over there knock on the door and ask him for a ride on his bike? to me that seems like im a little desperate. last night i asked my dad to send him an email asking if itd be alright if he gave me the guys email address. im waiting to hear a reply back to that...

No I don't think its desperate at all. You would walk over to a friends house to say hi right? Why not go over there say hi, hang out and ask to go on a ride. I am hoping things will go well for you but if you like the guy you need to put yourself out there. Honestly i wouldnt have done the whole email request thing I would have just gotten it from my dad and emailed him myself. Try not to go through your parents anymore it may be a turn off for him.

Good luck

so do you think i should just email him instead of getting it through my dad? i can just get the email and do it myself, i just thoguht maybe he would think i was a stalker or something if i just emailed him without him giving it to me first...what do you tihnk?

Ok so here's the latest. I jsut sent him an email and I said I had to drop sometihng over at his house tomorrow after I got off work and asked what a good time would be to do that. then i went into talking baout his motorbike and asked for a ride and if he gave me one i would buy him an ice cream or sometihng.
im freaking out about sometihng. i baked a lot of cookies te other day and gace some to him and his roomie. now in my email i said i was bringing something over. i ahd in mind of baking brownies or sometihng like that. is that overdoing it to much by baing? my mom told me she thought it was pushing it too much andi never even thought of that. the email has already been sent so i have to bring something over. i dont know what to do. someone please help!!!!!!!!!

So last ngiht taking brownies over didn't go as planned. Here's what happened...
So i get home from work last night and was planning on calling him when i got home so then i go into the kitchen and my moms there and she said that he was coming over to go fishing with my dad, and my dad was already outside so i was like oh great i cant take the brownies to his house now so that kind of bummed me out but knowing i could still see him was good. He comes over and i was outside with my dad and he comes in the back iwas just heading into th house to get bugspray and he was heading towards where my dad was
he was walking and he was like hey i tohught u were going to call me and bring over some baked goods and i was like well i ehard u were coming over so i didnt. We headed our diff directions and then came back out and just hung with him and my dad and he made some small talk which is nice cuz he hadnt really talked all that much to me before is ent the email.I wanted to spend more time out there with them when my mom decides to pull an "i've got a phone call and need to come inside" business so i was like yea whatever so i go inside knowing what she was doing she told me to give them some alone time so i was pretty ticked about that so i came to my room for a little bit then decided to go out in the driveway and shoot some baskets. He comes over and asks for bug spray so i go inside and get it and i make some small talk like so you getting eatten up out ther he was like yea and then i asked how their fishing was doing he sad they were cartching some here and there i was like well thats good then he said we were gonna have a fish fry when he got back and i was like well ive never had fish ebfore and he was like what are you serious and i was like yea and then he was like well we're gonna have to make you try it sometime. After they were done fishing we all sat outside on the proich and talked for a little while. Around 1030 or so he decided he should go since he had to go to work this morning before leaving on his trip. So my dad and all of us walk outside to where his car is at and i bring him the brownies and he was like well thank you and i was like youre welcome its plane food(for his trip) and then we all said bye and then he drove off

it took everything i had last night to not email him and say hey it was great seeing you so yea thats where i stand right now. I miss him so much right now and have no idea why. It's not like we're dating or anytihng but I woke up this morning all bummed out to the fact he was going to be gone for a few days.

I guess nowwhat I'm triyng to figure out is where to take it from here. It seems like I can't ever get a time alone by myself with him, my aprents are always there even when I plan on having alone time. How should I go about getting some and/or asking him out? Should I email him or what??? I really am stuck. Please help. Al lthe help has been great thus far. Thanks for it!

as far as I know he doesn't have one. at his graduation party there wasn't any girl that was hanging out around him./ al lte girls there had boyfriends and such and he didnt seem to have any girl hanging around his arm. whenever he's over he never talks about a girlfriend so i'm taking an assumption and saying no he doesn't.

he just got back from a trip a few days ago and am thinking of asking him for that bike ride because he hasnt mentined it since he got back. nor hadve i reall y had a chance to talk to him since he's been back either. should i ask him for it again?