Blank Post. Its Over Who Cares Posted: 02-24-04 13:12pm
Its no biggie.. Who cares
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 02-24-04 13:22pm
I really don't know what to say. But I
feel like I should respond. I know how it
feels to think you don't have anything.
Like I never had a computer or cable or
sometimes even a house phone for a long
time while I was growing up. But I just
remember that some people had it much
worse. At least I knew that my mom loved
me more than anything in the world and I
know that she still does, even when we
have our differences (actually they are
more like similarities, we fight because
we are so alike) but I went through a lot
of counseling. I went through counseling
becaus ei found out my step dad was not my
father, that my father had abandoned my
mother while she was pregnant with me and
doesnt even know im a girl. And I sunk
into a major depression. I tried killing
myself a couple of times. One time even
landed me in the hospital. Luckily I had
a great boyfriend who helped me through
all that. In fact, it was the one I am
having issues with right now.....The more
I think about it the more I wonder why
this decision is so hard. But please know
that I am here for you. I know what it's
like to feel like you havent any friends.
I finally outgrew that to realize I have
many friends who care a great deal about
me. But I am here if you need to talk. I
wish there was something I could do or say
to make it better.
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 02-24-04 13:37pm
I told you how I feel
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 02-24-04 14:07pm
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Crystal Chanda Leir
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2004 Posts: 51 Location: Australia
Posted: 02-24-04 16:15pm
Hi sweetcheeki,
i don't normally reply to many posts in
teenage pregnancy forum, firstly because
i'm certainly not a teenager, i'm 30 years
old, but secondly because the girls in
here give great advice anyway,but I felt I
have some life experiences of my own to
share with you. My usual id is actually
'suzy', I had to change my id because I
changed my email, and with my old id, I
can't seem to change my email details,
grrr. Anyway, what i'm trying to say is
that you and your mum don't need to be
rich to have nice things. My husband and
I don't have money, we never have, but we
still have nice things. Firstly because I
sew, so we always have very nice new
clothes to wear and we don't have to pay
the expensive prices of brand name
clothing, secondly because hubby loves
gardening and brings in a bag of
vegetables every night from the garden for
me to cook. So we eat like kings aswell,
but it costs us virtually nothing. I'm
actually making cot sheet sets from old
bed sheets of ours that are still in good
condition, but they are still sitting in
the cupboard not really being used,
because we have so many. So rather than
pay $40 for a sheet set and pillow case
from a department store, i'll make them
for nothing. I have also made the
curtains in our house. Whenever my
daughter wants the latest boot leg pants
that her friends are wearing, I sew them
up for her in what ever colour she wants,
what ever type of material she wants. I'm
also 28 weeks pregnant, so I have sewn all
bubbies clothing that I think he will
need. We are also using cloth nappies so
that we don't have to pay for disposables.
There are money saving techniques
everywhere you turn. In the end, what i'm
trying to say is that if you make an
effort to do something about your
situation, your life will take a dramatic
turn. You may even have fun. Everyone
can learn to sew, everyone can grow
vegetables, everyone has the ability to
change their lives. If you really want to
help you and your mum, do something about
it, only you can fix your situation.
Money will never just fall into your lap.
Make the most of your life, because life
is cruel, and it will chew you up and spit
you out.
Good luck.
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
Posted: 02-24-04 17:33pm
Ok heres my opinion. Im sorry u have a
rough life, really, I am. . But u gotta
learn, soooo many people have rough
lives.. And as bad as u think u have it,
there are tons of people who have it 10x
worse. There are people who are beat
daily, sexually abused all the time, have
many disabilities, on top of things that
your going through. Trust me, I know alot
of the time it really feels like things
are the worst the can get, ive been here
many times. . Ive been depressed, tried
killing myself etc.. But the worst thing
u can do for yourself is feel sorry for
yourself. U have to focus on what u do
have.. It may not feel like much, but u
do have some things. I mean, maybe not
the best life, but at least u have one,
and at least u do have a family still.. U
gotta look at the positives and stop being
so negative otherwise u will never get
urself outta this black hole. . .
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SweetCheeki17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2004 Posts: 268 Location: new york
Posted: 02-25-04 07:48am
No saying
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mumof2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Feb 2004 Posts: 307 Location: Australia
Posted: 02-25-04 08:31am
I really think that they were just trying
to say that things are not as bad as they
seem................
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Mesmerizeu15
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 02-25-04 09:07am
Listen, what I was trying to say is
basically what the rest of the girls said.
You come on here and you complain about
how bad things are and about how you wanna
do this and that and the other thing. But
from what I can see it is just talk. You
arent going out and doing anything to fix
the predicamint that you are in. I think
that you need to learn to give life a
chance. You cat say that you havent been
granted a fair hand because many people
have had worse. Do you know who dave
pelzer is? He is an author who has
written 4 books about his life. They are
called "the lost boy, a boy called "it", a
man called dave, and then his newest
release I forget that that is called." my
point is, dave had a rought life. His
mother held him over the stove and burnt
him, his mother did not feed him, she
called him "it", he lived in the basement,
he was not allowed to play at the
playground at schol because she watched
from the parking lot and he wold get beat.
She did nothing for him. But did he
complain, hell no he didnt. He just took
it like man. He did not knark on his
mother he tried to obey her and make it
better. Until one day when someone
noticed his scars and took him out of that
place. Then he lived in foster care...Did
he complain hell no he was grateful to be
free from that hell hole. Needless to say
he made something of himself and is now
widely known and successful..Good luck..
I am sorry if I offended you, and I am
sorry I didnt tell you before, I just dont
trust or believe you. I think that you
and prettychicki are too of the same kind.
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SweetCheeki17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2004 Posts: 268 Location: new york
Posted: 02-25-04 13:02pm
Nothing
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 02-25-04 13:44pm
I am sorry that you are unable to
understand what I am saying... Life is
important, stop complaining..
*no heat, no water but I have a computer
and the internet*
that makes no sense!!
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JillMarie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2003 Posts: 3022 Location: Iowa
Posted: 02-25-04 15:07pm
Im sorry! Im sure everything will get
better soon!
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SweetCheeki17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2004 Posts: 268 Location: new york
Posted: 02-25-04 16:53pm
Jill,
its okay... Dont worry
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allusivepond
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 452
Posted: 02-25-04 17:15pm
I have been supportive of u ever since u
stepped onto this forum but quite frankly
my patience with u has worn very thin.
The girls are right u want him yet ur not
willing to do it urself. If ur seeing a
shrink for depression there is also the
chance that u could tell them about ur
home they dont specialise u know. And
let me tell u another thing wot do u think
ur shrink would do if he/she found out u
had no water no heat and u wanted to kill
urself, I have told u its time to grow and
have a look around, if ur unhappy learn to
fix it,
as for ur home life do u think that
everybody else in the world has had the
best life well u can think again, if we
are all happy now its because we chose to
change the things we didnt like perhaps if
u shut ur mouth and went to school and got
a job and became independent things might
be a little different for. I hold no
sympathy for u being deaf because all u do
is complain about it, u said u have been
deaf since u were born then it is probably
time that u got over it. I had it rough
to and u have no idea just because u have
it rough now dont assume that u have the
worst life. And besides u cannot compare
u life to someone else wot u feel might be
different to someone else even tho u went
thru the same thing. Stop and think
about wot u say and how u say and wot u
want out of life and stop using deafness
and I want to kill myself as excuses for
me at least to feel sorry for u, it should
have become apparent to u that u cant fix
these probs urself and u need help its
apparent to the rest of us.
From someone who cant wait to have a
jellybean all of their own
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SweetCheeki17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2004 Posts: 268 Location: new york
Allusive Posted: 02-26-04 13:08pm
I would like to chat with you online..
Particularly because so we could give a
better chance to talk more about things..
I mean you do actually help me alot.. To
deal with things. I mean I didnt expect
to have another deaf person that goes
through a worse thing than I have gone
through, and even though I totally
understand. It would be nice if we
chatted and get to know a lil, I wish I
knew what you have gone through.. Not
much of it though if you dont want to
share but yes I would like to though.
Im not sure wot I can tell u, my family
life will and always shall remain family
business I would share with these women
and u things but not all my life, its been
difficult, and I feel ive moved on and
theres no need to dwell on the past.
And as I said to u before u have to move
on and stop using deafness as the reason
ur life is caca and ill also ask u to stop
telling ppl im deaf they can read it for
themselves but when u say it it sounds
like im after sympathy for being deaf when
im not and that being deaf is the reason
my life was screwed wen some it was bad
choices on my parents and my behalf.
Sweet there comes a time in everybodys
life where they have to realise the
mistakes they have made and the decisions
they made and take some responsibility and
this is wot u have to do. If u wanna
talk u can pm here or email or ill see ya
online.
From someone who cant wait to have a
jellybean all of their own
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 02-27-04 08:11am
You make no sense. Stop complaining, you
say that I didnt offend you and then in
the next sentence you are complaining
again. What the hell?
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SweetCheeki17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2004 Posts: 268 Location: new york
Stace.. Posted: 02-27-04 09:07am
Same to you
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PregnaJordan
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Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
Posted: 02-27-04 09:20am
Same to you? Makes no sense...I love u
stacie! Lol
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 02-27-04 11:05am
Ohh look at jordan's aviator!! Holy
crap!! And as for sweetchicki, I dont go
and rant and rave about things. I think
that a lot of the girls on here agree with
me. I also think it was a good idea to
delete your post because what were you
doing? Complaining. What do you always
do? Complain. What are we all tired of
hearing you do? Complain. Not cool.
