Joined: 19 Apr 2007 Posts: 15 Location: new jersey
Am I pregnant ? Posted: 05-21-07 20:53pm
okay i don't know if any of you are going
to care, but i have no one to let it out
too.... [no one to talk to] me and my
boyfriend ran out of condoms and were
really in the mood, so we found an old one
but the condom was expired, and then
before we found one i let him stick it in
without one but he wiped it off before he
stuck it in. idn i was nervous about it at
first, but then i didnt care. and when i
get close to my period and its late i get
really mad, like my hormones rage or
something idn. idn what to do i know im
too young to get pregnant and my mom will
flip out but with the boyfriend i have i
no nothing can go wrong , its just my
parents. i just want to live my life
without her being up my butt about
everything and telling me what to do, i
want to learn from my mistakes, and have
life go on. im tired of being watched. and
not being able to do what i want to do. i
just wanna leave and get away for a while
with my boyfriend. except my parents. all
i wanna do is cry all the time, im health
forum all day then i say sorry for being
so mean then feel bad and cry bc i feel
sorry for myself i guess. idn why either.
and im always flipping out :[ whats wrong
with me.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 05-21-07 20:55pm
Umm... I'm sorry, what was your question?
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-21-07 21:00pm
well you had unprotected sex so you very
well could be pregnant.
if you don't want a baby then do not,
do not have unprotected sex.
do you think it's worth it? if you don't
want a child, do you think a few minutes
of feeling good is worth the risk?
if you've missed your period then take a
test. and in the future, use protection no
matter what!!!!!!! im sorry you're always
b*tchy, i have the same problem and
then i feel horrible and cry and.. yeah
it's not fun. i hope things start to look
up for you.
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Emma2
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Joined: 09 May 2006 Posts: 4406 Location: Montreal, Canada
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Posted: 05-22-07 06:50am
i just dont get why people freak out after
the fact...you should always respect
yourself and if you do not want a baby
...do not have sex so irresponsibly.
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kaerbear
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Joined: 10 Apr 2007 Posts: 1557 Location: ,
Posted: 05-22-07 07:25am
If you want to be able to do what you want
to do then don't get pregnant. Children
are a 24-7, 365 day per year, lifelong
committment. If you want to be able to do
what you want, then show that you are a
mature person by taking responsibility for
your actions and protecting yourself
against pregnancy if you are going to be
sexually active.
time and time again ive said it no wrapper
no sticking so if you are really in the
mood then next time just use your hands to
get each other off .
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 05-22-07 13:09pm
I agree with the other posters. If you
want to do what you want to do, then step
up and act like an adult. If you are
ready to have sex, then you are ready to
have it with protection or to say "guess
we can't do it tonight." Show your
parents that you can be responsible and
maybe they will give you more freedom.
If you feel like you're crying all of the
time, you could talk to a counselor. If
you're still in school, you can probably
talk to someone for free without your
parents even knowing about it.
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sandyallen
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Posted: 05-22-07 13:28pm
I do not know how old you are but have you
ever thought about getting on the birth
control pill? It can be safer than the
condom and nothing is 100% safe unless you
do not have sex or like candita sky said,
use your hands and probably the reason
your .Mother is on your ass is because she
cares, maybe you should try to sit down
and talk to her in a pleasant way. Heck,
I would give anything to have my mother
alive to talk to. I do not understand what
you are asking either but if you think you
are pregnant and are late on your period
take a home pregnancy test.
Good Luck to you!
and
then i feel horrible and cry and.. yeah
it's not fun. i hope things start to look
up for you.
