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a Little Vent okay Maybe a Long Vent And Its An Angry One

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a Little Vent okay Maybe a Long Vent And Its An Angry One Posted: 05-22-07 00:47am


That my sister talks more crap about me then anyone i know. She has a direct link to this other website on her page called cafe mom. So i click on it and she has a bunch of blogs. I look at one of them that is written about me. Now, it is about an incident from a few months ago when her daughter, Katelynn age 4 started yelling at my sister because she wanted a sprite. I mean yes, my niece was tired i understand but when she starts to scream at my sister that she wants a soda and then my sister starts apologizing to her preschooler i think its a bit ridiculious.. wait the best part of all is i talked to my mom later that day and just told her how i wouldnt let my child talk to me that way..what does my mom do? Calls my sister and talks caca about me to her and how i said i would never let my kid do this and do that.. Well you know what...Your damn right!! The day my 4 year old yells at me and tells me what to do is the day that i smack her in the face!! You allow your child to treat you that way and the minute she starts to disrespect you, you as a parent should straighten her out. So my bad if i said i wouldnt allow my child to speak that way.. ERRRRRRRRRR and not to mention how betrayed i feel that all my sister and mom do is talk crap about me behind my back. Thanks a lot got to love family Now i probably wouldnt be so annoyed if my sister had not of posted a bulletin on myspace a week or two ago begging people to come to my baby shower so that she wouldnt be bored out of her mind with the

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Posted: 05-22-07 03:53am


omg i would hate that, sounds alot like my sister but now we are on better terms, i wouldnt take my child talking back to me, sucks your moms siding with her as if thats ok. My parents or sister say nothing about how i raise my kids i do the same for them. But then again neither of us do anything or let our kids walk all over us, i wouldnt want that habt getting started who knows how theyll end up at age 14 omg.how old is your sister? Sounds like she needs to grow up.

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Posted: 05-22-07 04:04am


oh yeah i go on that site cafe mom its like a journal thing and everyone can read it like a public blog, i dont go on it hardly anymore though, there was drama there too its crazy.

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Posted: 05-22-07 09:19am


she is 27 years old.. Errrr, well I could say a thing or two on my mom's parenting too ( omg my little brother is a nightmare, i mean gets away with homicide gets speeding tickets, lit his brand new truck on fire and my parents just fixed it, gets into accidents act.. and has NO boundries!! I mean gets away with homicide! and he's not even going to graduate from high school on time now because hes failed so many classes cause all he does is surf) blah not to mention my sister, the same one, sent her 16 month old baby from texas to california to live with my mom for the past 4 months because the baby has a lot of energy.. yeah definetly someone i want to take parenting advise from.. and the talking back thing is cute at 4 but like you said can you imagine how this little girl will be at 16? What i need to do is just stop confiding in my mom and sister..sad but i guess thats life and what i need to do to avoid drama.. Yeah and one last thing, my sisters husband ({the one who cheats all the time) wants to take my sister to the bahamas in July right on my due date (which he picked on purpose) when i had asked my sister to be in the delivery room with us... and figures that she'll let him do that and that shell go with him. Amazing how someone can talk so much and act so little. oh and then this morning i talk to my mom and i guess brian used the internet the other day and left his bank account open so my sister goes on and looks at his crap and tells my mom he bounced a bunch of checks.. okay he doesnt even have a check book!! and she tells my mom he smokes.. which he doesnt!! i dont know what the hell her problem is.. probably the fact that i have a happy life and a happy marriage with a man who respects me.. grrr lets not even mention how she flirts with brian on purpose to see if he's "loyal " to me or not.. wow..my family sounds straight like jerry springer.. basically i do not like my sister right now.

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Posted: 05-22-07 12:04pm


that was my family not to long ago but everyone seems to have changed, maybe your sister will grow up one day lol or maybe not. everyone thought and assumed i got away with whatever i wanted wich wasnt the case , my dad didnt "give" me the car i paid him $200 a month. i was the only one that graduated to and kept the same job for 3 yrs. Maybe shes jealous that your lifes so much better then hers she has to think of a way to bring you misery.Theres that saying "misery loves company". they both her and her husband that is seem like jerks.

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Posted: 05-22-07 12:40pm


.ah girl that sucks! .i would say the same thing about a child back-talking and if anyone got mad about it well to damn bad! .my family is full of trash talkers and the only thing you can do is not tell them anything you would not want everyone to know about. I don't think you are going to want you sister in the delivery room with you anyway. .if she is pulling all of this stuff now think of what she will do when you are giving birth. .that day is meant to be all about you.

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Posted: 05-22-07 12:52pm


yeah im pretty much to the point where i want to ask her not to be in there anyways now. both her and her husband are the most self absorbed people in the world (you should hear how attractive they are, just ask them..) Which isnt a good combo with kids in the picture..

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Posted: 05-22-07 12:55pm


.i know how you feel. .my dad's entire side of the family can not get enough of themselves and they let .e.v.e.r.y.o.n.e know about it. .the best thing you can do is just now worry about what they think. .you will be a great mother and nothing they do or say will change that.

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Posted: 05-22-07 14:39pm


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Hey Girlfriend Posted: 05-22-07 15:16pm


You vent on anytime you want too............Its not what you have or do not have in this life...........its who you have beside you. Apparently the self absorbed ass wipes that call themselves family could take valuable lifelessons from YOU! I agree with you whole heartedly about allowing any child to yell or scream at a parent to adult. i'll go one further....just try to raise your voice to me. In my days we got "dancing lessons" from a hickory. In todays world, they scream child abuse. I poppped my child in the mouth several times, but she learned...............you have to teach children what is acceptable behavior way before they are allowed to run over an adult. If I were you, I'd not want any family other than the father in the birthing room. They are never going to change and the gossip and lies will only get worse in time..........you seem to be the only one with any common decency and sense! My hat is off t oyou Girlfriend!