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ladyT83

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Do I Over React Or Underreact ? Posted: 05-22-07 03:17am


Well it took my boyfriend 4months to tell me he had a kid when he was 19. I cried but It feels like I just let it slide. My friends were pissed at me so to speak and some still are. I guess they expected me to throw a fit and break up with him for a few weeks while I thought things thru. But I love him not his past Then I found naked pics of his ex (he says they are old pics) and he said he was sorry erased them and that also felt like I let it slide. I didn't throw a fit just calmly and sternly confronted him about it. A friend of mine says he doesn't like him cause he says he's lieing to me and that I let things slide. I wonder what else my boyfriend and our relationship has in store for me. It just seems to be one secret after another..and I don't want to let things slide and feel like I'm losing my selfrespect.. Any advice is greatly appreciated

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Re: Do I Over React Or Underreact?
Posted: 05-22-07 06:27am

ladyT83 wrote:

Well it took my boyfriend 4months to tell me he had a kid when he was 19. I cried but It feels like I just let it slide. My friends were pissed at me so to speak and some still are. I guess they expected me to throw a fit and break up with him for a few weeks while I thought things thru. But I love him not his past

Then I found naked pics of his ex (he says they are old pics) and he said he was sorry erased them and that also felt like I let it slide. I didn't throw a fit just calmly and sternly confronted him about it.

A friend of mine says he doesn't like him cause he says he's lieing to me and that I let things slide.

I wonder what else my boyfriend and our relationship has in store for me. It just seems to be one secret after another..and I don't want to let things slide and feel like I'm losing my selfrespect..

Any advice is greatly appreciated

Your post is nearly the same as what you already posted in " boyfriends past still bothers me." But the fact that he lies and hides things from you would put up a white flag to me. I don't think I would want a relstionship that I had to worry all the time what he is doing, and if what he is saying is a lie or not.

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