Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 296 Location: Caldwell, Idaho
Check This Out Posted: 05-22-07 22:22pm
I recently had posted the question "is sex
important to maintain a healthy
relationship? Why or why not?
For those that had not read the post my Bf
and I had not had sexual relations in 2
months do to his no interest in sex
because the meds he is on has taken his
sex drive away. It had started to depress
me and make me feel uneeded, wanted and
was craving the intamacy, not so much the
sex, more so the touch and feel of still
being attractive to him in his eyes.
A few days after my post we finally had
intamacy but it was not what I expected or
wanted. I was missing and craving the, to
put it lightly, the 4 play. (touching)
What I got was a wam-bam-tahnk you mam
that lasted 5 minutes. Then he left the
room right after wards to watch TV with no
words exchanged and not even a kiss good
night. I cried for about an hour wondering
if I should just except what I can get or
mention it to him.
Well, I chose to except what I got and let
it go. So check this out it has been about
a week since then and I had gone out for
chinese today and my fortune cookies that
came with my meal said "Accept the
affections offered to you, they are
sincere." Is that not ironic?
Anyways thanks for letting me share have a
great evening.
Heather
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princessnae
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Apr 2007 Posts: 90
Ironic Posted: 05-22-07 23:48pm
I think you need to talk to him. Even
though its probably the meds, you need to
let him know how you feel. Because it is
affecting your relationship and he may
need to go back to the dr. to help the
situation. I feel for you though, the
only time my bf was ever affectionate
during sex is when I made him and when we
had sex right after I almost broke up with
him.
Good luck.
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paul995
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Apr 2007 Posts: 140 Location: ,
Posted: 05-24-07 18:03pm
give him a chinese cookie, let's see what
his fortune is. . . hehe! seriously, talk
to the guy. keep the communication line
open. let him know that you're hurt, that
you don't feel the affection anymore. work
on it and tell us if there are any
improvements.
