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Gelah
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Im 14 Weeks Pregnant, Im 17, How Show I Get Rid of It
Posted: 05-23-07 07:06am
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i spent my first 3 months figuring how
should i get rid of my baby. but i dont
know where and how to get an abortion
'till i've found out about cyctotic and
used it yesterday but it didn't work. are
there any available medical abortion for
14 weeks pregnant lyk me?
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 05-23-07 10:24am
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Abortion is illegal there isn't it?
You are to far along to use cytotec.
Maybe clarifairy can help, but I don't
know of any other way. Sorry.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 05-23-07 12:55pm
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Agreed. I also thought abortion is
illegal where you are. Illegal at home
abortions are incredibly dangerous. You
might have to opt for adoption now and
just be careful in the future.
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Posted: 05-23-07 12:57pm
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Ctotec will only work up to 8 weeks, and 8
weeks is still a little later than it
should be used.
14 weeks is too late to use cytotec,
nothing will happen.
You need a real abortion, or just have a
baby. Sorry, there is nothing more I can
do =(
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Posted: 05-23-07 13:02pm
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Can you travel to have one? I wish I knew
of a better way to help you.
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Re: Im 14 Weeks Pregnant, Im 17, How Show I Get Rid of It
Posted: 05-23-07 15:57pm
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| Gelah
wrote: | | i spent my first 3 months
figuring how should i get rid of my baby.
but i dont know where and how to get an
abortion 'till i've found out about
cyctotic and used it yesterday but it
didn't work. are there any available
medical abortion for 14 weeks pregnant lyk
me? |
Hon I'm sorry there is not a medical way
to induce abortion.
Please do not do anything that will hurt
yourself. I know that it's an awful
burden to bear.
You may only see yourself as a pregnant 17
year old right now, but you are not only a
pregnant 17 year old. You are a valuable
person, so value yourself and please do
not do anything to hurt yourself.
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jaime_elms
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Posted: 05-23-07 16:12pm
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you really need to ring a doctor so they
can transfer u too the hospital for a
consultation before its too late.. the
later u leave it the worse its gnna be. i
had one last year and had take tablets and
give birth at 17weeks. it was the worst
time of my life. my friend had one at
14wks and she had the suction abortion
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Posted: 05-23-07 18:00pm
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| jaime_elms
wrote: | | you really need to ring a
doctor so they can transfer u too the
hospital for a consultation before its too
late.. the later u leave it the worse its
gnna be. i had one last year and had take
tablets and give birth at 17weeks. it was
the worst time of my life. my friend had
one at 14wks and she had the suction
abortion |
She can't do that, because abortion is
illegal where she is; so horrible that
this is so!
Unfortunately, unless she can travel out
of the country very soon, she's not going
to be able to get a voluntary abortion
anywhere, as many places
outlaw elective abortions after 20 weeks
because of the development of the fetus
and high risk to the mother.
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jaime_elms
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Posted: 05-23-07 18:08pm
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ooo sorry!! didnt realise.. i think your
best option maybe to speak to ur family
about this. Tell them how u feel and what
u want. as it is ur body n your decision.
or maybe your bf or a close friend
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Posted: 05-23-07 18:33pm
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| jaime_elms
wrote: | | ooo sorry!! didnt realise..
i think your best option maybe to speak to
ur family about this. Tell them how u feel
and what u want. as it is ur body n your
decision. or maybe your bf or a close
friend |
her family and bf probably won't be
supportive of her desicion to abort...
Because of where she lives, and the
culture.
Where we live jamie, we are allowed our
rights, but all around the world, women
aren't allowed to control their own
bodies. That's why this girl has to try
and buy cytotec online, or try to leave
the country without anyone knowing.
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jaime_elms
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Posted: 05-23-07 18:37pm
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oh! sorry. i dont really know what else to
say, thanx for filling me in though. wish
i cud help ya.  maybe if u have a
very close friend like a best friend u
tell everything too, maybe wud be good to
talk, or even sum1 who maybe has been in
ur situation if u know any1. who can
help.
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Gelah
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Nothing Happened I've Just Used Cytotec Yesterday..
Posted: 06-03-07 22:24pm
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i just took more than 30 ibuprofen tablets
yesterday because i was so miserable...im
now, 4 months preganant ...my baby could
be abnormal now
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Re: Nothing Happened I've Just Used Cytotec Yesterday..
Posted: 06-03-07 22:42pm
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| Gelah
wrote: | | i just took more than 30
ibuprofen tablets yesterday because i was
so miserable...im now, 4 months preganant
...my baby could be abnormal
now |
Yes, it certainly could be abnormal, if
you don't manage to kill it or yourself
before the poor thing is born. It sounds
like you are going to have to deal with
this pregnancy. You can give the baby up
for adoption later, but please stop trying
to kill it or yourself in the meantime.
In the future, use protection. It's a lot
easier to get and use than giving birth
is. If you are sexually active, you need
to know that pregnancy is always a
possibility. If you can't handle that
possibility, then you're not ready to have
sex.
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jaime_elms
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Posted: 06-04-07 05:48am
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I am pro choice. if she wants an abortion
then thats fine... i know u said she cant
cause where she lives.
But i think there are mature ways around
things like this, and stupid ways.
I feel that that poor child dosnt deserve
that, if it has now got problems when its
born.
[moderator note] I have edited
this post. Please try to keep judgmental
comments to yourself or make a thread on
the debate forum.
Jaime, I have had to delete someone else's
post too so don't take it personally  [/moderator
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Posted: 06-04-07 05:50am
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Desperate people do desperate things.
However, right now the more you abuse your
body in an attempt to get rid of this
baby, the more likely it is that you are
going to kill or badly damage yourself.
Please do not make any more 'abortion'
attempts.
The only options available to you are, as
far as I can see, to travel to a country
that will do a legal and safe abortion for
you or to continue your pregnancy and hope
that the baby is not damaged by the
medicines you have taken.
I'm so sorry that you are in such a
unenviable position.
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jaime_elms
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Posted: 06-04-07 05:53am
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Also after 20weeks they wont give you an
abortion. so u really need to hurry up and
do something
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Posted: 06-04-07 17:55pm
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| PurestGreen
wrote: | Desperate people do
desperate things.
However, right now the more you abuse your
body in an attempt to get rid of this
baby, the more likely it is that you are
going to kill or badly damage yourself.
Please do not make any more 'abortion'
attempts.
The only options available to you are, as
far as I can see, to travel to a country
that will do a legal and safe abortion for
you or to continue your pregnancy and hope
that the baby is not damaged by the
medicines you have taken.
I'm so sorry that you are in such a
unenviable
position. |
good god 30 aspirin pills? a girl from my
high school died taking about that number
of tylenol pills. So you really can live
after 30 iboprufen pills?
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Posted: 06-07-07 17:29pm
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You can survive, however this girl needs
to get herself properly checked at a
hospital. A friend of mine took a bottle
of asprin just like her, and he now cannot
drink any alcohol, period, because the
asprin destroyed his liver.
Please, hon, please. None of us want to
see you harmed. You need to go to a
hospital.
You do not need to keep the baby. But it
is getting too late for you to abort
unless there is something wrong with the
fetus! Only a doctor can tell you that!
Even if it is too late to abort, you still
don't have to keep the baby, because you
can give it up for adoption the moment it
leaves your body. You don't have to see it
or hold it unless you want to.
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Gelah
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Could My Baby Still Be Normal?
Posted: 06-08-07 22:36pm
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after all my 'abortion' attempts..i've
decided to continue my pregnancy... my
parents found out few days ago and they
insist that i should keep the baby. and i
have to stop my schooling. i've took 12
Cytotec during my first 3months and 30
Ibuprofen tablets... i'm going to raise
this kid. it's already 4months. i'm afraid
that the baby would be defective and all,
i regretted everything i did just to get
rid of it. could the doctor tell if my
baby have defects and all? are there
things to do to fix 'it'?
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Posted: 06-08-07 23:08pm
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.if you get adequate medical care and they
do a thorough examination of the baby they
should be able to see at least some side
effects but it depends on the type of
abnormality the baby might have.
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