Fed Up

Nope, it's not just you. You can thank those lovely pregnancy hormones!!! I have noticed that my husband gets on my nerves a lot more now than before I was pregnant. He just irritates me so much sometimes. I am 27.5 weeks along, so I'm really hoping things go back to normal once our little girl is here. I try so hard to not let him irritate me, but no matter what I do, it doesn't seem to work. He has gotten pretty good about knowing when I'm in a 'mood' though, and leaves me alone until the 'mood' passes.

i just feel so mean towards him though, and we are meant to be getting a place together soon, and i just dont think i want to anymore, he really really irritates me alot. he moans on at me about stupid things and it bugs me, we got on great before. But now i dont even kiss him its that bad

Maybe try sitting down with him and talk about all the changes you are experiencing. Tell him that some of the things he does bother you and you wish he could be more supportive. After all, he did help put you in your current condition!!! I did that with my husband, and things got better. Of course, he still gets of my nerves sometimes; but I think that's just the nature of a man. Just hang in there. It seems like the further along I have gotten in my pregnancy, the better 'adjusted' I have become. I only have a little over 12 weeks to go, so hopefully I can manage.....

yeah i will try that. just upset at the min everything seems to be going wrong. just had major argument with my parents all they seem to do is shout at me. i have had enough. am total sick of everthing. want my baby to be okay, but how can it when it can hear arguments and know i am stressed and upset

I totally understand!
what ive come to realize though is that along with the hormones i feel very insecure right now. With my body, my image, my personality. It feels i have no control over anything and thats translated into problems with my husband. Dont get me wrong i adore him but he doesnt understand and i feel like he doesnt take me seriously ( my complaints of pains, my concerns) plus he know blames all my feelings on hormones. Everytime i get mad its like he just thinks im being hormonal when its like no, im really just pissed off right now. Plus not feeling good about my body i feel like i need him to give me extra support and to help me feel good about myself, which he just doesnt get. I need him to tell me im pretty and surprise surprise hes a male and doesnt get that.

Plus the stress of knowing we're going to be soley responsible for another life very soon in the future is a lot of pressure.

your not alone girl

yeah same here, i dont feel sexy anymore he moans about how i dont feel like sex all the time. and everything. he needs to grow up. like i get pains and stuff n he says god ur only 4month pregnant not like your 8months is it. hes pathetic and we argue and hes like its jus ur homones babe. im like no it isnt really. i am so mad with him. even having doubts about living together now, but he kicks off with me saying how he has to be with me all the time cause i am having his child n how he have to be a family, but surely if im not happy living together with him n i know we will argue all the time whats the point.