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Keyakku

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Is This Normal ? How Can Have Sex Multiple Times Same Day ?
Posted: 05-24-07 21:06pm

Right, Im 16 and I've been seeing my girlfriend for 4 months now. We've been sexually active for a few months and generally I have been quite impressed with my accomplishments.
However recently a friend has also become sexually active and has been telling me stories of how he and his girlfriend had sex 5 times in one evening. Now mine and my girlfriends sexual routine when we have the house to ourselves for a night tends to go something along the lines of 15 mins kissing and build-up 15-20 mins of foreplay 15 mins upto an hour of intercourse depending on how controlled I am. However Im well aware that if I then were to wait half an hour and try again, the length of time I am able to perform intercourse for is drastically reduced to around 5 mins or less, and at times I find it hard to maintain an erection. If I then manage to get ready for a 3rd... Well to be blunt... I have had to fake it.... Now does this mean I have P.E? Because in general I have no problems coming too early during the first time I have sex in an evening. And then its not the ejaculation thats a problem in the following times, its the maintaining an erection...
Can some men really go 5 times in a row, or am I just becoming self conscious?
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Llewellyn

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Posted: 05-24-07 21:29pm

No, that does not sound like p.e. You sound perfectly normal. Some men can go five times in a day, generally when they are fairly young. That does not mean that everyone can go five times in one day, or even that everyone would want to, or that people who cannot are abnormal. People just have different sex drives.
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Llewellyn

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Posted: 05-29-07 01:00am

johnny fakename wrote:
or maybe your buddy is exaggerating slightly about his sexual conquests.


Also possible. Laughing Although I know for a fact that it can be done.
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Tylanas

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Posted: 05-29-07 10:58am

Yes, I suppose it is possible. However, that is not an average evening for most couples. I rarely have intercourse more than once in a row. 5 times in one night is not typical.
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Anne123

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Posted: 05-29-07 11:13am

5 times in a .W.E.E.K is unusual for some of us old married folks!

.You're perfectly normal. Your buddy may be exaggerating, but even if he's not - it doesn't matter. Maybe he does actually have sex 5 times in an evening, but it's because it only lasts 30 seconds each time? Wink

.From a female perspective, nice sex with foreplay as you described is wonderful, but doing that 5 times could be downright painful! I'd be pretty raw/sore the next day that's for sure. Confused
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Llewellyn

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Posted: 05-29-07 12:57pm

Eiri wrote:
I rarely have intercourse more than once in a row. 5 times in one night is not typical.


Yeah, when I was having it that many times, I was young, with my first partner, always in the mood, and only got to have alone time with him once a week. So we would have sex four or five times in that one day.

Now, the thought of having sex that much in one day does not appeal to me in the least. Laughing I am older now, don't think about sex all of the time, and see my partner every day. We have sex about every week and a half or so. That seems to work just fine for both of us.
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Llewellyn

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Posted: 05-29-07 12:59pm

Anne123 wrote:
but doing that 5 times could be downright painful! I'd be pretty raw/sore the next day that's for sure. Confused


Also true. When I was having sex that much, I went in for a pap one time and the ob-gyn said my vagina was all swollen and inflamed from having too much sex. She had to give me a cream to help the swelling go down.
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