Abusive Boyfriend/pain In Neck. Two Topics In One. Posted: 05-25-07 03:17am
I have a boyfriend who I love very much,
but he has problem with his anger and he
hits me, for the littlest things, like if
another guy is in my view and I look at
them, or if he thinks i'm lieing is one of
the biggest reasons why he does it. We
been together for along time now, for
years, and befor I knew about him I had
got a tattoo of our names together on me
which makes my situation worse, and he
plans on getting one soon and always tells
me he loves me, and it's not like he
treats me with the up-most respect because
he never answers me when he's outside with
his friends or something, but behind all
that we get along well and love eachother
but have all those problems I dont know
what to do
&
I have had a arguement with my boyfriend
just today, and he is very abusive, and he
kept punching me and slaping me and
whatnot, but one thing i'm afraid of that
he did is that he punched my in my neck,
and now when I swallow I used to hear
something pop, but it doesn't anymore, but
now all it is is pain when I swallow, do
you think it's just swollen or bruised, or
is anything wrong?
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 05-25-07 06:34am
hun,this is not love and you need to get
as far awauf rom this man as
possible.Someone who loves you will not
hit or beat you.Would you do that to
him?think about how much you love him and
try to picture yourself doing what he
does. . .I bet you can't.You need to get
away and he needs lots of help.do not
continue to let him beat on you,it's not
healthy.what if he beats you so badly,he
kills you one day?then what?what about the
people who *do* care about you?how old are
you?
I wnt through this for a good while,maybe
not to the extent but I did and it was no
fun.the first time my ex layed his hands
on me I moved out and left him.I hope you
have the strength to do that also because
you deserve better!
about your neck,you need to go to the
doctor or sometrhing to get ckecked out
asap.
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Mommy35
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Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
Posted: 05-25-07 06:43am
This guy says he loves you, but what he is
trying to do is control you, and there is
a difference. I'm sure after he does it
and has time to calm down he says how
sorry he is and promises to never touch
you again. Believe me I know how hard it
is to leave, but this situation is never
never going to change and one day he is
going to go too far.
Please go get your neck checked out and
try to get away from this dangerous
situation.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 05-25-07 09:58am
ummm,this topic belongs in the troubled
and abusive relationship forum,not pain
managment. . .
