I’m 22 and have been with my boyfriend
since I was 16 and we have a very active
sex life. I have never had a problem
having an orgasm very time we have sex but
that’s kind of the problem. When we have
sex I can feel him then I end up coming
before him and my muscles relax. At that
point I end up losing feeling he says it
isn’t a problem but I know he can’t
feel as much ether. I think it’s because
over time my muscles have slackened that
and I now have a tendency to liquid come
as well. I was going to try not having sex
for a week or so to give my muscles time
to shrink a little but every time I try we
can’t help are self’s. So I’ve read
up on way to try tightening the muscles I
wanted to know if the Kegel exercises
would help or if there is another way.
Help
Samantha
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 05-25-07 17:14pm
It's a common misconception that a lot of
sex will stretch your vagina out. The
vagina is very flexible and has no problem
being stretched and bouncing back from
your average sexual encounter. So not
having sex for a week would not make your
vagina tighter.
Your vagina does get tighter and looser at
different times though, it's just not due
to having sex or not having sex.
Things that can effect how tight or loose
you seem:
"1. Women's vaginas are less elastic when
they are not sexually aroused. They become
more elastic — "looser" — the more
sexually excited they become. A woman may
feel "tighter" to a man when she is less
aroused, less comfortable, and having less
pleasure than her partner.
2. Hormonal shifts during a woman's
menstrual cycle affect vaginal secretions
and may affect vaginal elasticity. She may
feel "looser" on certain days of her cycle
than on others.
3. Certain drugs, such as antihistamines
or marijuana, may make the walls of the
vagina feel dry so they seem "tighter."
4. A woman's vagina may feel tighter or
looser in different positions for
intercourse."
So you can try kegels. I don't bother
with them, so I can't give you first hand
experience there. Just be aware of
reproductive anatomy and the fact that
having sex is not making your vagina huge
or loose, just like abstaining from sex is
not going to make your vagina small and
tight. It sounds like you just get in the
mood and well lubricated. That makes the
penis slide in and out a lot easier, which
protects the inside of your vagina from
rips and tears, but it can also decrease
some feeling.
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beths_angels_ebay
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 May 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 05-25-07 17:32pm
The only thing that has changed is that I
have just come off the pill injection and
onto the pill. It hadn’t happened before
the last 2 month since I started on the
pill. Since it hadn’t happen before and
I haven’t had a baby could this affect
it. I don’t feel anymore or less excited
before or during it would be the only
thing i could think of.
Thanks for teh help I feel a lot better
now there wasn't much online io was
worried it was just me.
Thanks
Samantha
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 05-25-07 17:43pm
The pill can cause changes in your sex
drive. If you're more in the mood, you
will feel more loose. Less in the mood,
and you'll feel tighter.
Also, since it contains hormones, it may
cause a change in your discharge
(lubrication). More discharge means
you'll feel looser. So it is possible
that you are noticing some differences
from that.
You could always ask your ob-gyn more
about it too if you want.
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5320 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
Thanks: 62
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Posted: 05-30-07 11:06am
Yeah, I agree... also, you are relaxing
because you've just had an orgasm and that
is probably what causes the loss in
feeling too. You can do kegals, but I'm
pretty sure the purpose of that is that
during sex, you can purposely tighten the
muscles to make it tighter for him for a
brief period (you really can't hold it
that long) just to add a little something
extra. I don't think that it would make
you permanently tighter or anything. Just
like having sex doesn't make you
permanently looser.
But I would trust your man when he says
it's not a problem.... unless you have a
reason to think he's lying. By that point,
he's probably so into it he doesn't really
notice.
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