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angelbaby_23
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Feb 2004
Posts: 44
Location: Washington
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Advice Need...3'soms...r&r Asap!!!
Posted: 02-25-04 02:27am
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What do you guys think of three somes? 2
girls and a guy? I told my man I was
curious about being with another girl more
than making out, and he wants me to find
another girl and have a three some. I
want to, but im scared he'll be with her
more and I dont want him doing it another
girl. He says he wont put it in her, but
I cant stand the idea of sharing him at
all. I want to do stuff by myself, not
with him there. I mean he can watch, but
I dont really feel comfortable having join
in. What do you guys think, am I being
paraniod? What if he thinks that I am ok
with him being with another girl and he
goes out and cheats on me, or wants it all
the time? Especially because right now I
am pg and dont look so hot now, and if we
do this it will be after I have our baby
and I dont know if I will get the body I
use to have back. I use to have a hella
nice body, then I got pg... Please give
your opinion, and girls if you were in my
situation what would you do??? Guy what
do you think???
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HomecomingQueen2003
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Joined: 14 Dec 2003
Posts: 936
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Posted: 02-25-04 02:33am
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Personally don't think its safe, you can
contract any number of std's now a days
and sleeping around while your pregnant is
definately not smart.
Meg
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mumof2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Feb 2004
Posts: 307
Location: Australia
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Posted: 02-25-04 08:38am
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I have always believed that a stable
relationship is built on trust, mutual
respect and fadility....... Inside a
relationship, especially where children
are involved there is only room for 2
adults....... Involving another person
either in your sexual or emotional
relationship will only bring heart ache
and tears, if you are worried now about if
he will remain faithful, think how bad it
will be if you do do it....... Oh and
then there is the std issue...... My
advice...... Have a two some.... Use
your imagination, play games if you want
to hot it up in the bed room..... But
leave third parties out of it........ But
of course, in the end its your
choice.........
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Mesmerizeu15
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 02-25-04 08:51am
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Never thought that I would tell you girls
this, but I have done it. I have been
with larry and another girl. But larry
and I stand at the common ground where he
didnt really do anything at all with her.
I mean she touched him a little bit but
there was not intercourse between those
too. And we all made it a fact that
nothing would happen with those two behind
my back. And nothing ever did. I have
also just been alone with a girl. I cant
tell you how to trust your man, because
maybe your man isnt like larry as. But
him and I have been together for a long
time and I trusted him then and I trust
him now. Even though we have been through
a lot. Keep in mind though, I wasnt a
mom. I have changed my sexual ways a lot
since the baby I am a lot more
conservative..
Good luck darling..
Stacie
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 02-25-04 08:59am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-07-04 14:00pm; edited 1 time in total
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Mesmerizeu15
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Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 02-25-04 09:12am
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That is why I said, it depends on the
trust. Nothing like that happened with me
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 02-25-04 09:17am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-07-04 14:01pm; edited 1 time in total
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Mesmerizeu15
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 02-25-04 09:32am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-07-04 14:01pm; edited 1 time in total
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Mesmerizeu15
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Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 02-25-04 09:33am
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Cant use the long distance, dont need my
bill to be even bigger, I called freaking
canada!!
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insurancegirl
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Posts: 5286
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Posted: 02-25-04 09:37am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-07-04 14:02pm; edited 1 time in total
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Mesmerizeu15
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Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 02-25-04 10:11am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-07-04 14:02pm; edited 1 time in total
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JillMarie
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Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 02-25-04 10:17am
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Ive never been with a girl but me and
jesses sister always tell jesse that when
he is not around me and her get it on!
 one
day he came home while me and her were
cleaning and I through all the dirty
clothes down the stairs and a pair of
panties and a bra got flung over the
railing and he just stared and turned
around and said you 2 probably are f-ing
lezbians! It was so f-ing funny!
lmao!
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mommabear16
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smith8500
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Hey
Posted: 02-25-04 12:25pm
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Not my cup of tea! Lol
i say, if you want it. Make sure there is
trust there though! Make sure you really
are ready for what could happen. Go for
it. But please be careful! Std's and
aids are so common nowdays! Just make
sure it's what you both want!
Love,
chanda
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004
Posts: 1701
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 02-25-04 12:39pm
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Ive wanted to have a 3some, but like baby
said..I am afraid he will want her more
and blah blah, so I am not even going to
try it. If I would be interested in
being with a girl I will do so by myself.
He wouldnt care if I was cheating on him
with a girl!!!!  but I don't feel
the need to.
~sara~
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kitty_55
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Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Posts: 1473
Location: Canada
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Posted: 02-25-04 12:50pm
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Hey,
i dont know if any of you know this but I
am bi. I have had a 2 3 sums. I dont
really like them cuz I want all the
attetion! but
I think if your not comfy doing it than
dont. Maybe you and the girl just do
stuff toghther and let your bf watch so he
doesnt touch her..
Just remeber it might be all fine b4 doing
it and while doing it but after you
probbly will feel upset that your guy
touched another girl and you let him..If
you have thought it thro and you still
wanna do it than go for it!!!!!
Alison xoxo
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 02-25-04 14:13pm
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I think you should leave it as a fantasy,
it could mix things up and not be too
good. I havent done that and I know I
never will. Its not my thing, thats why
we have men. And your pregnant so you
should just be careful. But you do what
you want
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PregnaJordan
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Posts: 2908
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Posted: 02-25-04 15:25pm
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I had a three some before but it was two
guys...And me....Damn, that sounds bad!
Haha, them were the good old days before
pregnancy....If ur not sure, dont do
it....I was sure, b.C these dudes were
fine and I was like ....Dammit, nevermind,
im not getting into this! Haha, dont want
to start moping around missing the good ol
days! Haha
jordan and jaydyn
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