Hi Everyone I wonder if
anyone has any experience to draw on to
help me out. I left my husband 2 years
ago & we have been divorced since Nov
06. I left him cos we were not making
each other happy, he was becoming a bully
& we were constantly arguing in front
of our 2 young children (lots more but
very complicated) I knew that I would
never go back to him. He tried everything
- promising to change, blackmail, bullying
etc. we tried counselling but it was
never going to work as i had made up my
mind. So, been single since, with a few
dalliances. Last year I met someone who I
thought I was in love with. i didn't know
if I was coming or going (so to speak) He
was on the rebound badly and broke my
heart - an accident waiting to happen, I
guess. I have a constant craving to be
with somebody, even though it's not the
right time for me and it's making me so
unhappy. I'm 36 and I am scared that I
will never find the love of my life. I
cannot face the thought of being single
forever. It's too much. I know I need
time to heal but the craving won't go.
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nightangel73
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Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 2771 Location: ,
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Posted: 05-28-07 09:27am
Try online dating. I'm marrying now at 34
and my fiance is 36. There is hope.
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soozone
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Nov 2008 Posts: 3
need friends Posted: 11-21-08 12:52pm
Hi, I have recentally seperated from my
husb of 6 years. He was really controlling
and over jealous. Although this was a good
move for me i am finding the lonliness
very hard to deal with. He was my best and
only friend since he didn't allow me to
have any others. Now that we are not
together i find myself needing some kind
of human relations. I am 30 and am
attractive but seem to be stuck in a rut.
i sometimes think getting back with him
would just be easier. Know what i mean?
But i know this would be a bad idea. I'm
tiring to stay strong but again need
companionship. I have tried to so the on
line dating thing but have not received
any responses yet. Is there anyone out
there?????????????
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WinterDreams
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2008 Posts: 133 Location: Warsaw, Poland, Poland
Thanks: 9
Thanked:1
Posted: 11-24-08 07:07am
If your feeling lonely and in need of
making friend etc why don't you try going
to some evening classes in your are, Learn
a different language, dancing etc Im sure
it will be great fun for both you and when
you meet someone,
Or if you have children try and invite
there friends around and talk to the other
parents,
Good luck
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furrytail
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Joined: 14 Jul 2008 Posts: 191 Location: , Canada
Thanks: 10
Thanked:3
Posted: 11-30-08 17:56pm
I agree with WinterDreams that you should
find opportunity to safely meet men with
similar interest either through course, as
suggested, or by joining local clubs. I
would recommend not trying the bar scene
as that usually doesn't satisfy the need
to find someone. Also, join you local gym
- not only can you work on keeping a good
figure and staying healthy, but you may
just find a fellow there.
Many of my friends have found their guys
when they weren't even looking, but were
instead just enjoying life and ended up
finding a guy that enjoyed it with them.
I wonder if
anyone has any experience to draw on to
help me out. I left my husband 2 years
ago & we have been divorced since Nov
06. I left him cos we were not making
each other happy, he was becoming a bully
& we were constantly arguing in front
of our 2 young children (lots more but
very complicated) I knew that I would
never go back to him. He tried everything
- promising to change, blackmail, bullying
etc. we tried counselling but it was
never going to work as i had made up my
mind. So, been single since, with a few
dalliances. Last year I met someone who I
thought I was in love with. i didn't know
if I was coming or going (so to speak) He
was on the rebound badly and broke my
heart - an accident waiting to happen, I
guess. I have a constant craving to be
with somebody, even though it's not the
right time for me and it's making me so
unhappy. I'm 36 and I am scared that I
will never find the love of my life. I
cannot face the thought of being single
forever. It's too much. I know I need
time to heal but the craving won't go.
