Noone Seems 2 Be Helpful I Need 2 Know!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 05-27-07 18:57pm
My situation
My last period was April 24 and to this
day I still have not had my period. I was
on the pill but I stopped taking them May
1st because they made me sick. I had sex
May 2nd unprotected but I used some form
of foam. this month Im still having sex
but with the foam.I have had the some
symptoms so I took two at home tests but
they came out negative. I went to the
doctor and took another test that came out
negative so she told me that if my periodi
s not here by the end of the month (1 week
left) that I am pregnant. My periods lasts
7 days and according to my pills I always
start my period on a Tuesday. Now all of a
sudden I am getting cramps,feeling nausea,
and having loss of appettite. but my
boyfriend is sleeping longer, getting
lazy(thats not like him), and eating like
a pig. Please Let me Know
Something!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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jenn_smithson
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Nov 2004 Posts: 808 Location: Texas
Re: Noone Seems 2 Be Helpful I Need 2 Know!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 05-27-07 19:33pm
kentoniece
wrote:
My situation
My last period was April 24 and to this
day I still have not had my period. I was
on the pill but I stopped taking them May
1st because they made me sick. I had sex
May 2nd unprotected but I used some form
of foam. this month Im still having sex
but with the foam.I have had the some
symptoms so I took two at home tests but
they came out negative. I went to the
doctor and took another test that came out
negative so she told me that if my periodi
s not here by the end of the month (1 week
left) that I am
pregnant.
I'm sorry but a real
doctor would not have told you this. If
your period does not arrive by the end of
the month, there is a possibility that you could be
pregnant. However, that possibility is
still quite small.
The best advice I can give is to calm down
and relax. Stress can delay your period
from arriving which in turn creates more
stress. So take deep breaths and try to
focus on something else.
You've taken two at home tests and they
both came up negative. Chances are that
you are not pregnant, unless you took both
of those too early. You can always get
another test now and one at this point in
time would give you the right answer. If
it's negative, you aren't pregnant.
There can be a lot of reasons why your
period is late that have nothing to do
with pregnancy. Anovulation, hormonal
imbalance, a cold, or infection, just to
name a quick few. It's not uncommon for a
woman to miss a period every now and then.
You are most likely not pregnant. In the
future, you might want to think about
getting condoms, either male or female,
and using those every time you have sex
until you can find a method of birth
control that you like. Condoms protect
you from pregnancy and infections so you
should always use them with new partners
or partners who are not monogamous with
you.
Quote:
My periods lasts
7 days and according to my pills I always
start my period on a Tuesday. Now all of a
sudden I am getting cramps,feeling nausea,
and having loss of appettite. but my
boyfriend is sleeping longer, getting
lazy(thats not like him), and eating like
a pig. Please Let me Know
Something!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why would
your boyfriends change in behavior matter?
I don't understand that.
If you're having cramps, it's a good sign
that you aren't pregnant and will more
than likely start your period soon. Just
calm down and wait for it to arrive. You
are more than likely not pregnant.
Best of luck!
Peace,
Jenn
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 05-27-07 19:49pm
I also don't understand what your
boyfriend's behavior has to do with
whether or not you are pregnant. I also
have a hard time believing that a doctor
told you that if you do not get your
period, you are pregnant. If your doctor
honestly said that, you should think about
switching doctors. There are many reasons
that a woman might not get her period. If
your doctor is not familiar with those
things, that isn't a good sign. I think
it is more than likely that you
misunderstood your doctor or that the
doctor said you might be pregnant if you
don't get your period. There's a big
difference between "might" and
"definitely."
You can never go by symptoms when you are
wondering if you are pregnant. Not
everyone gets early pregnancy symptoms at
all. Also, early pregnancy symptoms are
the same as the symptoms for dozens of
other things. Since your boyfriend is
having symptoms too, it's far more likely
that you both have something like the
flu.
If you do not want to get pregnant, you
will need to use birth control every
single time you have sex. Foams are ok,
but they're actually not all that
reliable. You should look into male latex
condoms or a different pill. There are
many different kinds of birth control
pills out there. If one makes you sick,
that does not mean the others will.
No method of birth control is 100%
effective, so every time you have sex, you
run the risk of getting pregnant. We are
not going to be able to tell you much more
than that. Only a test can tell you for
sure if you are pregnant. If you still
think you might be pregnant in a week or
two, you can take another one.
