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Critizin

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Relationship Problems [confusing]
Posted: 05-28-07 08:21am
This is a really hard problem to explain but... i have started likeing this girl in my school and she says she likes me too... i kinda really like her and feel that she might be the one i could spend a life with.....

this is such a confusing problem i cant even explain how it makes me feel cause i dont know how the best way i can show u is to show u are msn convo.... yesterday we were talking about how much she likes me and what we are to do in the future.... and she said this.

5/27/2007 9:06:13 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... lolo
5/27/2007 9:06:35 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... i will always try and behave lol
5/27/2007 9:06:42 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... but theres just certian plans i have with ppl lol
5/27/2007 9:06:56 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- lol like what?
5/27/2007 9:07:09 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... umm lol.. plans
5/27/2007 9:07:58 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- O.o well im confused u made plans to do stuff with people? lol what like sexually lol Cool?
5/27/2007 9:08:18 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... lol NO.. as in like fwb hahah but not really
5/27/2007 9:08:54 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... im not having sex until im at liaset 16 lol..
5/27/2007 9:09:40 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- lol how can u make plans to have friends with benefits... what does fwb mean to you cause fwb to me means ur just friends but u do caca sexually together and if thats what u mean then that means u made plans to do stuff with people sexually but not make it serious lol
5/27/2007 9:10:06 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... lol yeah thats pretty much what i mean.. sexually as in oral..
5/27/2007 9:10:29 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- O.o so you made plans to have oral sex with a guy in the future.... lol
5/27/2007 9:10:40 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... yeah pretty much
5/27/2007 9:11:41 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- ok........................................ ............... thats alittle weird people dont usually make plans to do that caca lol...... it usually just happens?
5/27/2007 9:11:55 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... yeah .. i guess so
5/27/2007 9:12:02 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... but.. im weird lol
5/27/2007 9:12:21 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... we hav other plans involvoing us gettin drunk and doin stupid things and us goin to the movies and caca like that
5/27/2007 9:12:31 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- whos the guy? lol
5/27/2007 9:12:42 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... im not tellin you cuz you dont liek him lol
5/27/2007 9:12:51 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- alexi.....
5/27/2007 9:12:56 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... no
5/27/2007 9:13:00 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- lol who i dont care
5/27/2007 9:13:04 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... lol
5/27/2007 9:13:06 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... no one!
5/27/2007 9:13:07 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... haha
5/27/2007 9:13:13 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- haley tell me please lol i really dont care
5/27/2007 9:13:20 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... then why do you want to knwo?
5/27/2007 9:13:28 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- just for the sake of knowing lol
5/27/2007 9:13:34 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... lol
5/27/2007 9:13:35 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... haha
5/27/2007 9:13:46 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... well thats just gonna have to be a secret;0
5/27/2007 9:13:51 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... Wink* until furture notice
5/27/2007 9:14:08 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- haley please just tell me now this is really gonna bug me..................
5/27/2007 9:14:30 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... well .. lol its alexi.. and apparently matt and wyatt have plans with me too
5/27/2007 9:14:32 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... Neutral lol ahah
5/27/2007 9:14:33 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... i dont knwo
5/27/2007 9:15:24 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- O.O did u make these plans or did they make these plans haley??????
5/27/2007 9:15:54 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... um well matt just said he wanted to have sex with me when i was 18 and i was like ok mattthew..and then i told wyatt i would go to the top hat wiht ihm for my 18th bday
5/27/2007 9:16:16 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... but matthew said that like forever ago and i think he was oking soo whatever
5/27/2007 9:16:40 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- well what the hell happened with alexi to make these plans
5/27/2007 9:16:54 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... what do you mean? we amde them together
5/27/2007 9:17:15 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- so you were like hey alexi were gonna have oral sex in the future? lol
5/27/2007 9:17:30 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... noo thas not how it all went.. its a long story
5/27/2007 9:18:00 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- well start telling cause im confused as medical question lol.......... i never seen anyone make plans to have oral sex and caca lol
5/27/2007 9:18:51 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... medical question, we wre talkin about how daiting is gay and overratted and then we made oplans to get drunk and chase cougars and then we were like yeah well we could just go to movies and do caca when were old and not datte cuz hten it wont be confusing .. caca as in (oral sex0 haha
5/27/2007 9:19:41 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- Well hell did u mean them or where u just joking... lol cause meaning that caca is kinda akward... and alexi is gross why would u do that caca with him... lol
5/27/2007 9:19:56 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... i dont know peter.. im confused
5/27/2007 9:19:58 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... but i g2g
5/27/2007 9:21:39 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- ok well one more thing haley dont u think if u liked me those plans wouldnt even come into your head? lol now were back to square one with me being confused.... do you like me as in liking me enough to go out when we can and not medical question around with other guys or am i just one of these plans and u just want to do caca and be fwb?
5/27/2007 9:23:09 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... PETER your confusing me now.. i dont know.. when i see you and am around with you its like i wanna date you but then when im not around you its like i just like you and thats that.. but i dont know..we will have to discuss these plans later and when im 16 i will defenitly wanna see you and do stuff.. but i g2g soo if you have anythign else to say just offline message me or talk on monday or
5/27/2007 9:23:14 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... whatever just know that i do liek you
5/27/2007 9:23:17 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... bye!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
5/27/2007 9:23:22 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... sorry to confusey ou all the time
5/27/2007 9:23:51 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- ok well we will talk later....
5/27/2007 9:23:55 PM P e t e r ..(L)... -haley- cya haley
5/27/2007 9:23:56 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... ok
5/27/2007 9:23:59 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... bye
5/27/2007 9:24:02 PM -haley- P e t e r ..(L)... (U) sorry!!!!!!Sad


Theres are msn convo from msn last night what the heck does that mean... she says she likes me im just so confused i cant even think maybe someone can bring some light onto this?
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justtryintogetprego

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Posted: 05-28-07 08:30am
Seems to me that this girl isnt looking for any relationship any time soon. She seems like she just wants to have guy friends and not get to serious in case another guy she likes comes around. If she was really into you she wouldnt have said "well when we are together i really like you but when we arn't i dunno". I would find another girl to put all this energy into b/c your trying to hard on something that will more then likely never go anywhere.
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Critizin

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Posted: 05-28-07 08:35am
Easyer said then done mate.... i really like this girl....
She says she really likes me to and i have asked her friends and they said that she is always talking about me and wanting me to be there.. and stuff........ i dont think i could just turn around and put all this energy into another girl... because i havent like any girl as much as i like this one Sad
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Posted: 05-28-07 08:56am
Critizin wrote:
Easyer said then done mate.... i really like this girl....
She says she really likes me to and i have asked her friends and they said that she is always talking about me and wanting me to be there.. and stuff........ i dont think i could just turn around and put all this energy into another girl... because i havent like any girl as much as i like this one Sad



then go for it and don't ask for any advice here.

good luck!
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Critizin

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Posted: 05-28-07 09:04am
I have already asked her out she didnt say no but she didnt say yes either she said wait till shes 16........... which is in a year in alittle bit... if she likes me wouldnt she say yes... confusing stuff
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Posted: 05-28-07 09:30am
that conversation hurt my head!
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Posted: 06-05-07 11:41am
Ok.... I'm being honest from my own experience here.

SHe is only 15?? When girls are 15, they are flirty and random and like messing around with guys, and they are just starting to feel sexual so they like sexual flirting and messing around.

She could just be messing with you, trying to make you jealous, trying to make you think she is really promiscuous. She is playing with you.

Or she could have absolutely no interest in you and just want random play from her guy friends.

If she's not going to be serious about a relationship (which is likely at her age), and that is what you want, then it is not worth pursuing. You will find another girl.
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