Let me tell you something the only way you
will prevent any of this to happen to your
son or daughter is keeping them on lock
down until they are 18 years old. They
will find a way to do it if they really
want to... theree is nooooo way you can
prevent it.
Ive had friends whose parents are really
strict but they still manage to find a way
to sneak out. You cant be paranoid. You
just got to lt things happen and be
prepared for whatever may come your way.
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nightangel73
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Posted: 06-03-07 19:27pm
Doriz
wrote:
if you truly want to know...
there is a time and a place for
everything... i go to his house or he
comes to mine. His parents never walk into
the room when me and him are alone and my
dad lets us go out all the time. He has
two houses and one of them is almost
always empty. If not the other one is. Ive
never been to hotel... no money... but we
dont need one. I ant say ive havent done
it in a car but it isnt the best place to
do so. So id rather be inside of our
houses. If we cant then we dont do
anything. Just because we are 16 doesnt
mean we are wild girls having sex anywhere
and everywhere. I have respect for myself
and i dont want to be considered a hoer.
My boyfriend is the only ive been with and
i intend to keep it that
way.
ohh i see, you know i really wondered
about that..if it was because the houses
were so big you can't tell. Two houses
would definetly do it.
i guess i did right with the house i
bought in the sense that the secondary
rooms are very close by, i can hear the
slightest noise from the master room.
thanks for sharing! (i truly hope your
relationship with your boy last long)
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nightangel73
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Posted: 06-03-07 19:32pm
Doriz
wrote:
Let me tell you something
the only way you will prevent any of this
to happen to your son or daughter is
keeping them on lock down until they are
18 years old. They will find a way to do
it if they really want to... theree is
nooooo way you can prevent it.
Ive had friends whose parents are really
strict but they still manage to find a way
to sneak out. You cant be paranoid. You
just got to lt things happen and be
prepared for whatever may come your
way.
that's true but like birth control if i
can do anything to decrease the
probability of happening that's good isn't
it?
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Doriz
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Posted: 06-03-07 19:33pm
nightangel73
wrote:
Doriz
wrote:
if you truly want to know...
there is a time and a place for
everything... i go to his house or he
comes to mine. His parents never walk into
the room when me and him are alone and my
dad lets us go out all the time. He has
two houses and one of them is almost
always empty. If not the other one is. Ive
never been to hotel... no money... but we
dont need one. I ant say ive havent done
it in a car but it isnt the best place to
do so. So id rather be inside of our
houses. If we cant then we dont do
anything. Just because we are 16 doesnt
mean we are wild girls having sex anywhere
and everywhere. I have respect for myself
and i dont want to be considered a hoer.
My boyfriend is the only ive been with and
i intend to keep it that
way.
ohh i see, you know i really wondered
about that..if it was because the houses
were so big you can't tell. Two houses
would definetly do it.
i guess i did right with the house i
bought in the sense that the secondary
rooms are very close by, i can hear the
slightest noise from the master room.
thanks for sharing! (i truly hope your
relationship with your boy last
long)
it wouldnt matter because your daughter is
not going to be dumb enough to have sex
while you are home. With a mother as crazy
as you are, she must be out of her mind.
Dont worry too much about it. Your time
will come and you will see that the
blindest people are those that are too
stubborn to see. Just be careful because
it could happen right in front of your
face and you would never notice. I hope
things turn out the way you would like
them too but i cant be too certain it
will.
Thank you...we will
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nightangel73
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Posted: 06-03-07 19:42pm
Doriz
wrote:
it wouldnt matter because your daughter is
not going to be dumb enough to have sex
while you are home. With a mother as crazy
as you are, she must be out of her mind.
lol! Yup! My home will be totally
disqualified
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 06-03-07 19:48pm
Night, I hope you teach your children
something other than just "don't have sex
until you're 30." I tried to be nice, and
I pointed out several times that you were
being mean and offending people in here,
yet you never apologized once. Maybe your
mother was too busy teaching you the
"dangers of sex" to teach you any manners,
but I still think it would be a nice
gesture if you apologized to the people
you offended.
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nightangel73
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Posted: 06-03-07 20:00pm
Llewellyn
wrote:
Night, I hope you teach your
children something other than just "don't
have sex until you're 30." I tried to be
nice, and I pointed out several times that
you were being mean and offending people
in here, yet you never apologized once.
Maybe your mother was too busy teaching
you the "dangers of sex" to teach you any
manners, but I still think it would be a
nice gesture if you apologized to the
people you
offended.
Alright llewellyn my apologies if somebody
got offended.
btw i don't actually draw the line at 30.
I agree until marriage (so if marriage at
16 then ok) or if no marriage until 25.
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HcoBrunette06
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well i hope you know that being over
protective won't work my
mom is a cop, and she's the most over
protective person ever. she also does not
sleep until i get home, no matter how late
it is, so therefor i am not allowed to be
out late. my boyfriend has stayed at my
house for weeks at a time (only because he
lives thousands of miles away and can't
afford a hotel when he comes to visit) but
we're not allowed to sleep in the same
bed... we work around it. it happens.
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nightangel73
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Posted: 06-03-07 21:53pm
HcoBrunette06
wrote:
well i hope you know that
being over protective won't work my
mom is a cop, and she's the most over
protective person ever. she also does not
sleep until i get home, no matter how late
it is, so therefor i am not allowed to be
out late. my boyfriend has stayed at my
house for weeks at a time (only because he
lives thousands of miles away and can't
afford a hotel when he comes to visit) but
we're not allowed to sleep in the same
bed... we work around it. it
happens.
my mom is not a cop but I think she would
do an excellent job at it. lol! She was
overprotective and it did worked for her,
so maybe your mom isn't a very good cop
(just kidding) My mom always
though very ahead of me.
you give me a good idea now..so instead of
focusing on the girl what I need to do is
scare the bf's away. That way no bf, no
sex.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 06-03-07 22:58pm
keep your shot gun handy!
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flipper
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Posted: 06-03-07 23:37pm
Truly, you just have no idea what you're
going to do, because no one knows how they
will react when their children do things
until it happens. It's easy to say that
you'll do this or that when you have no
children because you don't have the
experience or perspective yet.
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my
mom is a cop, and she's the most over
protective person ever. she also does not
sleep until i get home, no matter how late
it is, so therefor i am not allowed to be
out late. my boyfriend has stayed at my
house for weeks at a time (only because he
lives thousands of miles away and can't
afford a hotel when he comes to visit) but
we're not allowed to sleep in the same
bed... we work around it. it happens.
My mom always
though very ahead of me.
