Help: Need Older Guys Advice On One Night Stand Posted: 05-28-07 23:25pm
So here is the story. I had a one night
stand. Actually it's up to 2 night stands
right now. I keep on referring to it as
one night stand but really we went out
twice before anything happened. Still, I
really did not hold out for too
long...Anyhow, I was really attracted to
him and I really just wanted to have sex,
didn't think about having a relationship
with him or anything like that. Granted,
the first time he "attacked me" and since
he is very muscular, I really could not
fight him off and before I knew it, it was
over. The second time, it was my
initiative.
Here is my question: can anything ever
become of it?
I think our backgrounds/lifestyles are way
too different for a successful
relationship but I would like to continue
to have a sexual relationship with him.
How do I steer this relationship to get
want I want out of it.
He is very handsome, bartender, personal
trainer and has many friends that are
girls...
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 05-29-07 00:08am
Just tell him. Be honest about what you
want. There is no reason to hide it or
beat around the bush. I have slept with
people on the first date. Some of them I
never talked to again, some I started a
relationship with, and some I stayed
friends with. It just depends on what
both people want.
I am a little confused about your story
though. The way it is worded made it
sound as though the first time you two
were together he raped you.
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DPantelones
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jan 2007 Posts: 141 Location: ,
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Posted: 05-30-07 14:47pm
It sounds like he's looking for what
you're looking for, so I don't see a
problem. You just communication like
Lewellen says and you're both adults, no
problem! Have your fun while it lasts!!
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achowd
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Sep 2007 Posts: 3
Seems to Me You Both Want the Same Thing.. Posted: 09-06-07 23:45pm
Hi there,
It seems to me that you both want the same
thing. I would suggest telling him that
you're not looking for anything serious
but having fun....
