Hi
I have read alot of the questions and
answers in this forum on various topics
and feel this may be the best place to ask
some questions.
A month ago I miscarried after many years
of trying. I was ecstatic and went in for
an ultrasound (10 weeks). The doctor came
in and informed me that there was no heart
beat. I opted for the relatively natural
alternative but after suffering major
bloodloss and sever cramping I was
admitted to hospital and had a D&C.
This is where it gets strange... I dont
want to think about ever trying for
another baby. The thought just makes me
cry and I cant even consider it. Some
people have said it takes time and to try
again, I admire people who try and lose
babies more than once, still they try
again and have healthy happy little
babies. I always thought I would be like
that but I cant shake this feeling of not
wanting children anymore.
The other problem that I have is that I am
really moody, well, more than usual and I
cry at the smallest most insignificant
things. I snap at people when they talk
about happy moments and I hate myself when
I feel any sort of joy. Everyone is
telling me to move on, and I am honestly
trying but it seems to be getting worse
not better.
Anyway, sorry the post is so long, I just
have alot to say, alot of questions and no
one to direct them too.
Any reply would be appreciated. Thank you
so much for listening (or reading!)
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Kia
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Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 05-29-07 06:39am
sounds like you are still greiving which
is perfectly normal and natural.
you might find talking with a counsellor
helps you sort things out in your mind and
can help allay your fears.
one month isn't any time at all.
Don't worry that you don't want to try
again now.
Take whatever time you need - maybe that
will be 6 months, maybe a year, maybe 2 or
3 or more.
Maybe the time will never be right for you
to feel happy about the idea of becoming
pregnant - that's OK too.
