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watst003
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Oral Sex On the Woman
Posted: 05-29-07 08:47am
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This might sound a really weird/silly
thing to ask, but does anyone else find
then when they are giving oral sex to a
woman that a load of pubic hair gets in
the way? i really wanna be able to do it
to her but i dont wanna be just licking
all hair
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Mabel
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Posted: 05-29-07 08:49am
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Get her to shave. 
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watst003
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Posted: 05-29-07 10:19am
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im not just gonna ask her to shave herself
down there, cmon worthwhile
replies...anyone else have similar views?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-29-07 11:05am
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| watst003
wrote: | | im not just gonna ask her to
shave herself down there, cmon worthwhile
replies...anyone else have similar
views? |
No, it's actually good advice if she's
your long term partner. My own fiancee
gently suggested it to me too about a year
and a half ago, as I'd never done it
before and I am a jungle down there!! I
believe he actualy suggested that he shave
me himself, and I wasn't comfortable with
that so I said I'd do it myself. Well, I
tried it for him, as I love him very
much... and I love it!!! I can't imagine
not being at least trimmed nowadays, it
feels so clean and neat...
I can totally agree that hair during oral
is nasty XD I don't like inhaling curls
or getting it stuck
in th back of my throat (the worst!)
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aszalajka2
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Posted: 05-29-07 11:18am
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. I too was asked by an x. i wasnt
offended i just had never thought about
it. and after i did it it made it ten
times better because he wanted to do it
more. So i was a happy camper! 
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geoff725
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Oral Sex On the Woman
Posted: 05-29-07 12:34pm
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I give my wife a trim once every few
months. This makes oral sex more pleasant
for both of us and we both like the way
she looks!
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 05-29-07 12:54pm
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| watst003
wrote: | | im not just gonna ask her to
shave herself down there, cmon worthwhile
replies...anyone else have similar
views? |
I don't like the idea of suggesting
shaving to her either. I say it's her
body and she should do what she wants. I
don't shave or trim at all and would not
be happy about my partner suggesting it.
Even though I do not shave or trim none of
my partners seemed to get hair in their
mouths. During oral sex, most women like
the clitoris to be stimulated. The
clitoris does not usually have hair on it.
The hairy parts are the lips, which can
usually be held open and out of the way
fairly easily.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-29-07 14:13pm
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That is unless you have so much hair that
it makes a visible lump in bathing suits,
and must be at least shaved along the
bikkini line or you'll have curly hair
sticking out in fluffs!  Until you've have
an enormous curly wiery forest down there,
(and if you do I apoligize) someone can
never know the joys of removing that mess.
I went "Oh... so that's what I look like
down there! Hello vulva! Haven't seen you
since puberty!"
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 05-29-07 14:31pm
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Oh, yeah, mine would be a visible lump
with hair sticking out the edges if I wore
a little bathing suit too.  So
I just don't wear them!  I
almost never swim or go to the beach, but
there are alternatives for those who do
and are opposed to shaving, such as
wearing regular cutoff shorts or a boy
short-style bikini bottom, depending on
how much hair there is. When I had to
swim in gym class in high school, I always
opted for the cutoff shorts. I had a
friend who also did not shave. She wore a
yellow bathing suit that she did not
initially realize was see through when
wet.... 
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-29-07 14:34pm
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Oh man I can sympathise XD I like the
skin-tight shorts version of bikini
bottoms too, but that's more because of my
birth mark.
I was on swim team, and the big thing for
that is, of course, incredibly tight,
close-cut bathing suits XD So I was in the
water a lot. I'm not as much anymore, but
I just feel cleaner and more confident
shaved or trimmed.
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confederate_gent
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Posted: 05-29-07 15:22pm
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well don't bluntly just come out and say
girl u need to shave down there. but what
i did was when i had this that was a bush
master (no offense).
was tell her that i had never been with a
girl that had shaved and she shaved girls
love to think that they are the first in
any thing so they well norm do it to be
the first. or tell her hey if u do it i
will do it man i tell u sex is amazing
with both are shaved down there try it and
see
hope those help there is nothing worse
then having to shave yor teeth after trust
me i know lol
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Birch
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Posted: 05-29-07 16:04pm
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I just wanted to say that after reading
over this whole thread, it totally cracks
me up!
From the original poster wanting to know
about getting past the bush, and then the
reply "shave" and then the original poster
saying that's not a worthwhile reply...now
c'mon, that's funny stuff. How else you
gonna get past the pube afro, watst003???
Logic.
And if you are comfortable lapping up
someone's clit juice then surely you are
comfortable asking someone to trim up a
little.
Human beings are so strange about their
bodies and sex.
Of course, I'm not advocating passing out
the scissors and shavers to all. God
bless the hippies. My next door neighbor,
now, she doesn't shave at all. I know
this because I can see the marmot growing
out of her armpits. And she doesn't
believe in curtains. And our bathrooms
line up visually, and once night I looked
over there, and lo and behold, a vulture's
nest. Seriously, Lewis and Clark would
get lost in there.
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 05-29-07 17:03pm
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I am surprised that so many people seem to
think shaving is a requirement. Some
girls like to shave for their own sake.
They just think it feels cleaner. That's
fine.
Shaving just for someone else, on the
other hand, is pretty ridiculous in my
opinion. Shaving is not required for sex
or oral sex. The guy already said he does
not want to ask her to shave for him.
It's absurd to act like having her shave
is their only logical option.
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jaime_elms
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Posted: 05-29-07 17:37pm
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I think that shaving is alot better. My ex
bf suggested it, literally just brought up
in a conversation. he said would you like
me to trim. i was like i really dont mind,
would you like me too. he said i dont
mind, and one day i did it and he loved
it.... same as my bf now loves it.
Its great.... alot cleaner i think.
You dont have to say to her shave. just
bring up in a convo.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-29-07 17:48pm
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it's certainly not a "requirement". But,
on the other hand, many women personally
like how they feel shaved or trimmed, and
that's got nothing to do with a mate  as I think birch
mentioned.
Yeah, "au naturale" can be a... thing.
Some people like that. But I also know
girls who don't believe in soap as a
cultural thing (these are the people with
dreadlocks (don't want to stereotype, but
yeah) and patchwork hippie clothing)
and... yeah. I would not want to touch
their nether regions. Funk-ay!
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 05-29-07 17:53pm
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Many women of all kinds do shave, and many
women of all kinds do not shave. It does
not mean they are a hippie, do drugs,
don't bathe, are dirty, or anything else.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-29-07 17:58pm
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| Llewellyn
wrote: | | Many women of all kinds do
shave, and many women of all kinds do not
shave. It does not mean they are a
hippie, do drugs, don't bathe, are dirty,
or anything
else. |
That's why I said "I also
know". It was meant to exclude the two
groups from each other. As I said before,
I used to be au naturale too, but it
wasn't a cultural thing or a religious
thing... I'd just plain never seriously
thought of doing it. And obviously, I
wasn't a hippie, nor do I do drugs, I do
bathe, etc. But, there are also
girls who, on top of being au naturale,
also so not use soap. It
was mean to be funny for goodness' sake
>:/
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Birch
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Posted: 05-29-07 18:25pm
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| Llewellyn
wrote: | | Many women of all kinds do
shave, and many women of all kinds do not
shave. It does not mean they are a
hippie, do drugs, don't bathe, are dirty,
or anything
else. |
And the ones where Lewis and Clark get
lost in? What would you call those?
Hey man, if you want oral, and the hair
bothers somebody, it's just courteous to
trim up a bit. It's not a requirement,
it's just thoughtful.
| Llewellyn
wrote: | | It's absurd to act like
having her shave is their only logical
option. |
Well, I didn't see you post any ideas.
What other logical option would you
suggest?
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 05-29-07 18:32pm
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| Birch
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Well, I didn't see you post any ideas.
What other logical option would you
suggest? |
I told the guy about how the clitoris is
usually where women like to be stimulated
during oral sex. The clitoris does not
usually have hair on it, so the hairy
parts can usually be held out of the way.
(I use "usually" a lot because everyone is
a bit different).
Maybe he has tried that, and she has
enough hair that that does not really
work, I don't know. However, I think it
is pointless for everyone to suggest
shaving over and over when our original
poster said he does not like the idea.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-29-07 19:54pm
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| Llewellyn
wrote: | | Birch
wrote: |
Well, I didn't see you post any ideas.
What other logical option would you
suggest? |
I told the guy about how the clitoris is
usually where women like to be stimulated
during oral sex. The clitoris does not
usually have hair on it, so the hairy
parts can usually be held out of the way.
(I use "usually" a lot because everyone is
a bit different).
Maybe he has tried that, and she has
enough hair that that does not really
work, I don't know. However, I think it
is pointless for everyone to suggest
shaving over and over when our original
poster said he does not like the
idea. |
It's not that he doesn't like the idea of
shaving... it's that he didn't want to
order his girl to shave. I think the other
posters said it better, in the realm of
"suggesting" it. He could even shave
himself as a first example and then ask if
she likes it better that way and plant the
idea.
Look if he can deal with the hair then
great. But aside from moving it out of the
way, like llewellyn suggested, there just
isn't any other option.
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